Mrprofessional

I would say this is tricky territory, speaking from experience. For me,  

when I develop a friendship with someone, it feels gross emotionally when things slip back into transaction mode. When I hear the implied message  “ I’ll spend time with you if you’re paying for it.” It’s just hard.

e.g. “hey let’s grab a coffee this week” (we’ve had coffee several times in the past) and now, no reply. But “hey let’s book a massage” there’s an immediate response.  Ugh. 

when your time is how you make your living, it can be hard to “carve out” time off to just be friends with a client — so I’m not judging anyone  

And I’m not saying it’s *impossible* to have a friendship with a favorite Masseur — but in my experience, it can be very challenging to feel good about the relationship/friendship if certain expectations start to naturally arise. (Like actually responding to an invitation for dinner or coffee)

21 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I live in Missouri. Remind you. Ask me if it gets any less diverse than this. The whole state is one big supremacy group, including the gay bars 🤦🏽‍♂️ . I’m pretty certain I’ve unknowingly fucked with a few White Supremacy guys before…I don’t mind at all 😆 long as he don’t try to kill me, let me fuck that tatted daddy ass 😋 

 

 

 

I’m so sorry you’ve had to endure this crap. Your willingness to make the best of it — well it is inspiring and admirable. I get SO pissed at racists. 

3 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I’m getting ready to do just that…I’m loading up and driving to the Pacific Northwest next week. If I find a place, great. Tired of this shit. I deserve so much better than the rude guys I been dealing with in the Midwest.
 

And to quote @sniper again: it’s easy to be on the sidelines and make it seem like I’m the only person bothered. But when I constantly deal with repetitious idiots so much, it’s hard not to be. For example: this idiot has been contacting me on and off since July last year, and still can’t get around to a booking:
 

Completely disrespectful, and no consideration for my time. It may not be directly related to racism per say, but it’s still a racist mentality in some ways when someone thinks they’re more important, just because maybe they’ve been conditioned to feel that way.

If he thinks blocking him is the most I would do, he got another thing coming. I actually added him to the shit pile of timewasters on Mr. Number 😆 

Pacific NW unfortunately has a lot of white supremacy groups. 😳 but In the cities you should be fine. 

On 1/13/2022 at 11:53 PM, Jarrod_Uncut said:

I know this is probably a case by case topic, and for some maybe even uncomfortable. But it has been awhile since race among providers has been brought up. 

But I do so because there does seem to be a truth in these things. I keep in touch with a guy in my local area, who's White (and a bit older). Whenever I reach out to him and chat, he's often mentioning that he has a full schedule of clients for the week (generally 3 or 4 because he works other job). I also chatted with a friend who came to town a couple of times last year and was busy the whole time with clients (on his 1st two trips), but noticed he didn't return a 3rd time and seemed to have slid out of the biz. Both guys in question were White.

Meanwhile in my case (referring specifically to the Kansas City/St. Louis and surrounding cities market), it's often day by day I have next to no bookings. I go thru a cycle of either being completely void of calls, or I'll have a handful of clients reach out, but right off the bat are inconsiderate/difficult and either flake or don't seem to take arrangements seriously. It's not usually this way when I travel (in the right markets, I've met 3 or 4 clients in a day), but it still makes me wonder. Why does it seem easier for White (or more bluntly, non-Black) providers to connect easier with clients in certain markets, it seems? 

Jarod you are correct to suspect that racism plays a major role. Larger cities will have more open minded people so get thee to a coast! 

He’s hot! Cute and kind and everything I hoped for. Excellent massage and generous ending. Highly recommended! 

Well the pics are about 10 years old and he has since become an avid tattoo artist fan. He’s still in shape and charming to talk to — but a *terrible* excuse of a massage. Basically he’s offering an opportunity for someone to enjoy him without any reciprocal favors. At 300/hr the experience is  NOT recommended. Really disappointed. 

Anyone hired him? Any info? Only has 1 short review. 

Quite the collection!

Quite the collection 

On 7/17/2021 at 9:57 AM, JoeMendoza said:

 

He’s so cute he’s hot. Anyone know if he’s family?

On 12/2/2021 at 6:16 PM, Mustang said:

He's also all over Grindr. Why buy the cow... 

he’s on Grindr to find new clients