Yeah… not going to happen in US - as it is, weed dispensaries, strip clubs and dirty bookstores are already pushed outside the city limits to the wrong side of the tracks. A brothel for the gays would only be granted use permits for properties on the tracks. ON them.
If you're staying in TJ, all the clubs are near the Arch on Revolucion, with the exception of Club Extasis(they are located across from the PedWest border crossing and are only open on Fri and Sat). The gay bars near the arch all have gogo boys who will dance on you for tips and you can probably negotiate with them for extras outside the club. The quality of these guys is pretty low compared to the guys at Premier. Premier is the main gay strip club that people go to, they say they open at 8pm but guys don't actually show up and start dancing until 9:30pm. There's a cover charge of about $100-$200 pesos depending on the day or event. I have been going to Premier for 4 years now and my main gripe is that they're becoming extremely money hungry. It's fun but you have to keep an eye out for the hustlers. When you arrive, you will probably be hounded by a waiter asking if you want a drink. I suggest getting a beer (I prefer to buy mixed drinks from the bartender directly, for some odd reason they tend to be stronger than when I order from the waiters.) They have all types of guys here, twinks, twunks, and bodybuilders(tbh the quality of guys has gone down recently but they still have some gems). Don't be shy, the guys want you to call them down from the stage to give you a lap dance (they do not approach you). Guys will dance on you for a few dollars(if you need change go to the bar and ask the person at the cash register to change your bills, don't ask the waiters)and anything goes especially on the nights only men are allowed in. If you hit it off with a guy you can go to a privado, or private room where anything goes. Be sure to negotiate with the dancer what you want to do and how much he will charge you before you enter. The privado is 15 mins and costs $40 that goes directly to the club (it's cheaper to pay in pesos, I believe it's 600 or 700 pesos which is $30-$35 dollars). You can also buy a ficha, or drink for a dancer and it's about $7 or 140 pesos and the guy sits down, drinks a beer, and chats with you. I personally don't enjoy this but you can try if you'd like. If you really like a guy you can take him back to your hotel room but you have to pay the club a fee and the dancer's hourly rate. I have heard from dancers that it's about $300 for an hour. Premier also has a hotel called Red Boutique next door which is like a bad 3-star hotel but you can hire some of the dancers for a massage with happy ending, not sure how much that costs but if you're into that you have that option as well.
Anyway, I hope you enjoy your trip and please report back!
I agree. I rarely do them either because of that. It’s really difficult for two masseurs to be in sync. The only good one I remember was with Rick and Joe at TOTALLY SMOOTH SKIN (http://totallysmoothskin.com/)
@CJ152 I will be reaching out to Brady for an appointment next week when I visit phoenix.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/40959/
I can PM you with my experience afterward.
I tend towards older hung guys but since Grant and Anthony seem to have left town during the pandemic (sigh), my go-to hung-thick masseur is still Ben:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/27911/
