Marc in Calif

In some countries that I've visited, massage spas do have a variety of ways to choose your masseur. But I've never experienced this particular method — especially without a host telling you how it works.

You joined on October 24 at 10:27 am to post your one (and only) comment at 10:31 am. How convenient! 😇

Where/how did you find the best independent providers?

Well, you did exactly as he asked: "I perform most acts that are asked of me, just ask prior for my approval."

The innuendo runs deep in your observations. 😀

The only "reading comprehension" problem was your own. You originally responded to a client who told of an escort hitting him up the next day in a "pressing" and unwelcome way — so unwelcome that he did not want to go along with it. You wrote this: "I don't see anything wrong with a provider looking to secure a regular customer... As was stated above - this is a fairly normal business practice for out of town providers." You clearly didn't "comprehend" what the client had actually described. You tried to turn it into something benign and "fairly normal." 🙄

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You can't find a better sensual/erotic massage provider than Raul. He's also certified and honest. I first saw him when he relocated to SF many years ago. He's been based in Portland for several years now, and he travels as well. He may not be in PDX much in the next month or so.

The sexy Greek accent! The very hairy chest! His IG account is a great read. But if he's therapeutic only, I'd still make an appointment. He sounds like a keeper.

Will you bump yet one more time, like your own bump, but STILL not try him yourself? Why not just bite the bullet (or something tastier) already and then report back? 😝

He's from "Colombia" the country and not "Columbia" the university (or SC capital city). 🤨

Who is "Rodney"? Your link goes to Santiago in Miami Beach

Is that photo correct? It looks way more than 8 inches. He's not 5' 3" tall. On a guy of his size, the tool looks like 10" or more. Are my eyes playing tricks on me?

The address at the bottom says Washington DC. But the text says this; "We are the premier provider of waxing services for men in San Francisco and the surrounding Bay Area. Founded by Henry in 2010, the company has become the headquarters for waxing for men in SF." Huh? ❓

Is that a review or just a reaction? 😎

I'm waiting for all the innuendo, stereotypes, jokes, and winks from the p-nut gallery.

From his Mintboy profile: "I live in the moment w/ no regrets." 🤯

So you joined on March 6 — to make your ONLY forum comment on March 6?

In Manila, as elsewhere in the Philippines, I didn't go to spas. You can easily find what you're looking for on Grindr and Romeo — or THEY will find YOU! Or just walk through any of the big malls in Makati.

People will have no idea what you're talking about. No link to further information? No description and date/site where he last advertised? Have you actually seen him before? Details, please! 🥸

Only Bangkok, where you will have lots of fun. Check out this site, which is still updated with new spas, updated addresses, and new masseurs: thaimassageboy.com

Please don't neglect Hong Kong. There seemed to be dozens of male massage spas when I was there before the pandemic, concentrated in several areas.

I think the real clown has outed himself in this thread. A really triggered clown, too. I pity the next massage provider you hire. 🙄

Yes. So he clearly indicated that a HE was not part of his service at that spa whether you achieved it yourself or he assisted. That's his decision to make. This is the real world. You misjudged the situation, no matter how long he spent "on the inner thigh." In a professional spa situation, your only job is to lie there and enjoy what's happening — and not make your own "moves."

You're completely wrong. How did Ivan know that he "violated the customers [sic] boundaries"? Did DirtyHarry stop Ivan's hand from touching his inner thighs? No. The client let it continue. At that point, a client has several options: 1. Move the client's own hand to his erection to signal he wants to jerk himself off. Maybe the masseur helps him, and maybe he doesn't. 2. Ask Ivan to jerk him off. 3. Tell Ivan to stop and move somewhere else. 4. Ask to touch Ivan. A "sensual" massage will include those erogenous zones like the butt and inner thighs. It can sometimes be more. But it's up to BOTH the masseur and the client to agree on any extra moves. Either one should tell the other to STOP if a boundary is crossed.