I hear you loud and clear. Once in a while, I hire a new masseur for the first time and keep my expectations very low - this way, even if the experience is either poor or mediocre, I am not disappointed and maybe still enjoyed just one aspect of the massage appointment (e.g., just the sensuals or kneading technique, etc.). For what it's worth, I recommend you do the same so that you do not go a long period of time without seeing a masseur.