LaCapGuy87

Great infö shared. Here's how I kind of see it. I use the same few websites, so if I see them on one or two, I read their profiles and any reviews. If they're on an escort website and the others, I typically assume there's more flexibility. But, I tend to chase the thrill of the unknown. I'm okay with paying for an experience, I often just hope it's worth it. If you're ever confused you should do a quick search up here or just ask. It's likely someone has at least made contact and can set expectations based on what they know. If you are opposite of me and don't want the thrill but specifics, then ask. No greater disappointment then showing up and leaving unfulfilled after you've spent money. It's a business and some do take advantage of the gray area. I've had great experiences, horrible experiences, and normal experiences. 

Yelp has been the biggest help here for me. Usually once you find one place, you'll see they "suggest" other places and then you follow the paper trail. I've added a few guys who comment or frequent places I enjoy, and now they've updated their feature to say "2 friends left a review" which lets me know I'm in the right area. I'll also message guys up there, and we exchange info on places. I tend to read reviews, look for men who leave reviews on other male massuers. Bonus if they mention someone by name. You can also search for key words ;). 
I have about 3 or 4 businesses that I go to, with consistent success. Happy to chat a bit more in a PM, but like someone said, since these are legit businesses, gotta play by ear and be mindful. Also, I've built relationships with the guys, so sometimes things happened the first time, others it took a bit of time. 

I viewed his page and he reached out. I did inquire about erotic and his response was that he's primarily therapeutic with sensual elements. I respectfully declined. As least he's up front about it. 

If you want a good massage go for a good masseuse. Most don't offer sex though. If you want an escort get an escort.

When you find someone whose profile, self-description, credible experience, physical appearance, and reviews do not cause you hesitation, come here for a 411 with name and city. Do that reconnaissance before, and use opportunity in the forum for confirmation from personal encounter.

He may have another profile for escort services, which means you are more likely to get a release, but never a guarantee. 

I don’t know about you, @young11but I keep my eyes closed during massage. I had a blind masseur at a spa once - lights stayed off, and it was fantastic massage. No recollection of him beyond how good his work was. I’m so in need of a good massage… a few more weeks

Great infö shared. Here's how I kind of see it. I use the same few websites, so if I see them on one or two, I read their profiles and any reviews. If they're on an escort website and the others, I typically assume there's more flexibility. But, I tend to chase the thrill of the unknown. I'm okay with paying for an experience, I often just hope it's worth it. If you're ever confused you should do a quick search up here or just ask. It's likely someone has at least made contact and can set expectations based on what they know. If you are opposite of me and don't want the thrill but specifics, then ask. No greater disappointment then showing up and leaving unfulfilled after you've spent money. It's a business and some do take advantage of the gray area. I've had great experiences, horrible experiences, and normal experiences. 

There are providers who are very good looking but uncomfortable engaging in sexual activity with randoms...so they inhabit a market niche somewhere in the middle of massage and escorting when you ( the client ) pay for their handsome company and they ( the provider ) get away with doing as little as possible

Darn! Lucky you!

You mean yourself? Lol

Welcome to the forum Charles. It looks like you don't have a phone number available on your Rentmen profile. Most of us here prefer texting via phone over using the clunky rentmen messenger thing... Just FYI. ?

Has an OF massagebyjayden. It 100% is not worth it.

Yelp has been the biggest help here for me. Usually once you find one place, you'll see they "suggest" other places and then you follow the paper trail. I've added a few guys who comment or frequent places I enjoy, and now they've updated their feature to say "2 friends left a review" which lets me know I'm in the right area. I'll also message guys up there, and we exchange info on places. I tend to read reviews, look for men who leave reviews on other male massuers. Bonus if they mention someone by name. You can also search for key words ;). 
I have about 3 or 4 businesses that I go to, with consistent success. Happy to chat a bit more in a PM, but like someone said, since these are legit businesses, gotta play by ear and be mindful. Also, I've built relationships with the guys, so sometimes things happened the first time, others it took a bit of time. 

Yelp has been the biggest help here for me. Usually once you find one place, you'll see they "suggest" other places and then you follow the paper trail. I've added a few guys who comment or frequent places I enjoy, and now they've updated their feature to say "2 friends left a review" which lets me know I'm in the right area. I'll also message guys up there, and we exchange info on places. I tend to read reviews, look for men who leave reviews on other male massuers. Bonus if they mention someone by name. You can also search for key words ;). 
I have about 3 or 4 businesses that I go to, with consistent success. Happy to chat a bit more in a PM, but like someone said, since these are legit businesses, gotta play by ear and be mindful. Also, I've built relationships with the guys, so sometimes things happened the first time, others it took a bit of time. 

Yup. I've seen him a handful of times. Looks like his pictures. Honestly, top 3 massages I've EVER received. Technique and skill is there. He is pricey, but he provides quality, so I don't mind. Happy to share more. PM if needed. 

yes. great massage, I would give his skills an A. the sensual aspect is not lacking either. I have seen him regularly for some time, great guy, very personable, sexy and a great massage. Try him, you won't go wrong

Thanks! I’ll try him today and report back!

I agree with what's been said:
Grand Spa - cheapest, smallest, but your everyday men are here. Very cruisy. Easy to play or just watch. 
Century- most attractive, most cruisy, most action, also, MOST attitude. 
Spa Palace - usually low key, but you will get lucky if you're patient. I'd say the men are more attractive the Grand here, but it's never really a lot of options, so you'll just have to deal with what you get
Midtowne - better for sex, play, watching, the spa portion is not the main attraction 
Flex - I don't know that I've ever been there when their equipment works, usually just sex and play, with a pool outside 

I agree with what's been said:
Grand Spa - cheapest, smallest, but your everyday men are here. Very cruisy. Easy to play or just watch. 
Century- most attractive, most cruisy, most action, also, MOST attitude. 
Spa Palace - usually low key, but you will get lucky if you're patient. I'd say the men are more attractive the Grand here, but it's never really a lot of options, so you'll just have to deal with what you get
Midtowne - better for sex, play, watching, the spa portion is not the main attraction 
Flex - I don't know that I've ever been there when their equipment works, usually just sex and play, with a pool outside 

I usually do an intro text asking about services and rates. Legit ones usually give enough information. Less skilled, more questionable ones are very short. Some come right out and list their menu of offerings. Just think about where they're listing, read reviews, and do a search up here. Last week I saw a guy who everyone said was amazing and went the extra mile. He did none of that for me. A month ago I studied a guy, everyone said he did nothing, with me, he did more than anyone ever has. You really never know, you just have to vet, ask, and enjoy the thrill of the journey :).

Was there MT and H/E?  Thanks 

My impression is:
1. A minority of MF advertisers are therapeutic only.
2. A majority of MF advertisers are OK with MT and provide HE, occasionally more, possibly depending on attraction or on how many sessions you've had together.
3. A minority of MF advertisers, usually indicated by a higher price, are more of an escort than a masseur.
4. Some of #2 and most of #3 are on RM as well as MF.
5. Almost all RM advertisers go beyond therapeutic.
6. Many RM advertisers are more an escort than a masseur.

I tried to book but he was out of town and he never followed up like he said he would -__-. He does run a tantra/touch seminar and he has one on the books for next weekend. I keep thinking about trying it. Will keep an eye out and see if anyone has booked him in the meantime. 

I tried to book but he was out of town and he never followed up like he said he would -__-. He does run a tantra/touch seminar and he has one on the books for next weekend. I keep thinking about trying it. Will keep an eye out and see if anyone has booked him in the meantime. 

I usually do an intro text asking about services and rates. Legit ones usually give enough information. Less skilled, more questionable ones are very short. Some come right out and list their menu of offerings. Just think about where they're listing, read reviews, and do a search up here. Last week I saw a guy who everyone said was amazing and went the extra mile. He did none of that for me. A month ago I studied a guy, everyone said he did nothing, with me, he did more than anyone ever has. You really never know, you just have to vet, ask, and enjoy the thrill of the journey :).

I usually do an intro text asking about services and rates. Legit ones usually give enough information. Less skilled, more questionable ones are very short. Some come right out and list their menu of offerings. Just think about where they're listing, read reviews, and do a search up here. Last week I saw a guy who everyone said was amazing and went the extra mile. He did none of that for me. A month ago I studied a guy, everyone said he did nothing, with me, he did more than anyone ever has. You really never know, you just have to vet, ask, and enjoy the thrill of the journey :).