StarQualityLuke

So very sad... I'm sorry for your negative Massage experiences. 🥺

Just be honest and let them know your budget cannot bear consistent sessions. Perhaps he can work within that or leave you alone at the very least🤭

If you hire a provider for a full hour, you should get a full hour. If you hire provider for 75 minutes, you should get it full 75 min and so forth. Some of these providers are absolutely ridiculous because they don't give the clients the full time or even more. If I go over that's on me not the client. I guess you get what you pay for🥲

I have met Sean.. He is a great guy... We even text from time to time. He is a hottt guy with a great personality. 😁

I read it that you wanted videos, he said 100$ and you sent, but no videos were sent to you. Yes?

Dispute your money.... Depending how it was sent...

I loooooove this one🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Super 🔥🔥

He looks cute!

Link???

I really don't see the problem with someone paying a deposit if that's what they wish to do. However, that being said, I don't like getting deposits either unless rare exceptions of cross-country travel booking well in advance and if I see any red flags. Zelle s just fine and it's very instant just as Venmo is. I even have clients that Zelle the night before an appointment because they feel comfortable but course, as you said, there are clients that are regular. The biggest thing about clients and providers, if you will it's all about communication. The provider needs to communicate effectively on time and be professional about it, if they're not, then that would be a red flag for a client. If the client is not communicating effectively, then that's a red flag for the provider. I look at it as if you're setting an appointment for a doctor or an appointment to get your car repaired or reservation at a restaurant. And I do agree there are some clients that try to scam the provider, such as, why don't you get a hotel room and then I'll meet you there and I'll pay you back. Well I did not just fall off the truck yesterday... So , both the client and the provider just have to be smart about it that's all.

I would not call yourself stupid they made you feel stupid that's a difference. As you said, they said all the right things and you were anxious and excited. Deposits are ok if it's an advanced booking, but then those go back, if something changes, you cancel or they have to reschedule for another date, I always give a deposit back. Deposits would be good if there's red flags. But I never ask money up front. When you go to the doctor, they don't ask for money up front, do they? No, you pay after you've been seen. So I would chalk it up to a lesson learned and just never do that again. 😁

The food never looks like it does on the menu or in a picture. I always say, I look like the picture. If you look nothing like it at all, then there's an issue. I wonder what else are they hiding. Presentation is everything.

Rescheduling is ok.. It happens on both ends... Also I try to accommodate people all the time, and I will put out the question to somebody, if I need to reschedule, and if they say no, I cannot, then I don't change, I keep what I have going on. But I always try to accommodate.

No harm in asking. I always say one cannot assume, so just open up your mouth and ask. I mean that in a very kind way.