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Nope, the dance was over and I have never seen him since. Except in my dreams:)

In your case, it seems like the awkward part is already behind you. You know he advertises massages, and he knows you've seen those ads. You really can't put that genie back in the bottle at this point. If you are both comfortable with it, I'd say go for it. Otherwise, you'll probably spend time wondering what it would have been like than regretting giving it at try. One time I was at the Gay 90's downtown in the Men's Room the men-only bar inside the club, where the strippers came in between sets. One of them turned out to be a former employee of mine. He had worked part-time for me while he was in high school. Now he was in his 20's and honestly couldn't believe it--it was the last place I expected to run into him. I had always assumed he was straight. As it turned out, he was. He was dancing and stripping because the money was good. I tried to slip away before he noticed me, but it was too late. He walked right up with a big smile and asked how I'd been. We chatted for a couple of minutes. I had always assumed he was straight. As it turned out, he was. He was dancing and stripping because the money was good. I told him I was going to walk around the rest of the bar--really, I was just trying to get out of there because the whole situation felt awkward. Instead, he smiled and said, "Wouldn't you like to stay and get a lap dance?" I laughed and told him it would be weird. He grinned and said, "You know you want to." He was right. I caved. The lap dance itself was fine, but that wasn't really the point. My heart was pounding the entire time. It was equal parts exciting and surreal because I had known him years earlier in such a completely different context. I'm so glad I agreed to the lap dance. I still remember his smile (and his incredible body) to this day. So again, go for it if you are both comfortable and it won't be weird when you bump into each other in the future. Enjoy!

Not much more to the story. We were young and everything happens a lot faster back then 😉. I do remember after fooling around we went back into the club so he could get his bag. Lights were full on and he was still beautiful. We exchanged numbers, but never saw each other again. But I'll never forget it. There were other nights I went to this club when they had dancers. I remember the lady who checked id's just knew I was underaged and would always say "be careful in there. Don't let anyone buy you a drink". Good advice. Most guys in there were in their 30's and I was fresh meet. There was one dancer who would come and he was super straight. But I managed to talk him up and he invited me to an after bars party. He was there to pick up girls, but he needed to bring beer to the party. He was 19 or 20. Well, I told him I'd buy a 6pack for him if he let me blow him. He agreed, but he said he didn't want to cum since he wanted to score that night with the ladies. So outside of this house, we went against the back wall and I went at it. He kept saying, "ok, ok, that's enough, you are going to make me ... aw, fuck it" and shot his load. Totally worth a six pack of bud light.

I would have to say my first experience. I was 20 years old and went to the only gay bar in town . They had a lit up martini glass on the outside to let you know this is the place. No windows (this was the 80's). Went there with my fake id and they had a couple of strippers for the night. Locked eyes with one of them right away. He came up to me after their show and we left the bar to make out in his car. So hot. He was a couple years older than me and a Pizza Hut assistant manager. He was such a good kisser and so good with his hands.

I did use Chat GPT to help me write my post. I was running on with train of thoughts and I just had Chat GPT create a better version. Then I cut and pasted the post. This could be the culprit.

Thanks for everyone's advice. I'll stop by this weekend and see where the conversation goes.

It’s been quite a few years since I’d been to the Gay 90’s, but about a year ago I went back and immediately developed a crush on one of the bartenders. He looks a lot like someone I used to be attracted to. I’m pretty convinced he’s straight, but he definitely knows how to work a crowd and get tips. He’ll wear very revealing outfits, short shorts, briefs, etc. The first time I met him, I tipped well and gave him my phone number. Nothing came of it, which I expected. A year later I went back and was shocked that he remembered both my name and my drink (Jack and Coke). Later I found out he had actually kept the note with my name and number by his station so he could remember customers. I assume he does that with other people too. Since then, I’ve stopped in every few weeks. He always has my drink ready, remembers my name, and is very friendly. I tip well—usually $20 for a couple drinks, and sometimes another $20 on the way out. Not outrageous, but definitely above average. Today something happened that completely caught me off guard. I was walking around Uptown and suddenly heard someone call my name. It was him on a scooter. He stopped, got off, gave me a big hug, and we chatted for a few minutes. He asked if I lived nearby, told me he was on his way to get a tan, and when we were done talking he said, “I hope to see you this weekend.” Now I’m on cloud nine, but I’m also trying to stay realistic. He’s a very attractive guy in his 20s. I’m a guy in my 50s. I’m 99% sure he’s not romantically interested in me and that he’s simply friendly and appreciates a good customer. What I’m struggling with is figuring out how to interpret the off-the-clock interaction. Bartenders remember regulars, but stopping, getting off the scooter, giving me a hug, and chatting felt different than normal customer service. For those of you who have worked in bars or have been regulars at bars, how would you read this? Friendly bartender who recognizes a good customer? Something else? Also, separate question: Is it inappropriate to ask a bartender whether he does any kind of private entertainment, appearances, or paid work outside the bar? I’ve had no problem asking dancers or strippers that question, but asking a bartender feels very different.

Des Moines is a nice place to visit. They actually have a good food scene and brew pubs. It's family oriented city and you need to drive everywhere. West Des Moines is the best part of the city, but there are a few restaurants downtown. I haven't been to the gay bars there, but I'm sure they are your average midwestern gay bar. It's not a typical small Iowa town. I grew up in Iowa and I'm amazed how much it has grown over the years since I've lived there. That said, if I was a straight family man, I would LOVE to live there--but I'm not. Thats why I left. Not a great singles scene, but if you are only there for a week, make the most of it. And the cost of living is incredible. You will get a lot of bang for your buck there.

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OK, much better night tonight. This is my last night in Puerto Vallarta and I’m feeling better than I was previously. I didn’t have high expectations for tonight, but I was pleasantly surprised of how great it was. I only went to one strip club tonight. That was wet dreams. somewhat quiet. There was a group that had done bottle service, and so some of the dancers were specifically for them. All the guys were hot and it was fun to watch the shower dances. Then I came across Jorge. He’s one of the most beautiful men I’ve ever seen— perfect bright, white smile, and a clone of Justin baldoni. I gave the traditional tips for shower dance and he asked if I wanted to do a private I agreed and it was wonderful. I won’t go into great detail. He made my last night in Mexico special.

So I’m in Puerto Vallarta right now. I spent the first week with some friends at an all inclusive. I was able to break away a couple nights first went to Antropology. There was a muscular dancer from Mexico City. I think Richard was his name. He has a small tweak friend who is From Colombia both were straight had fun with some couch dances and they offered me a private. I held off because it was too early in the trip went to wet dreams and stood at the bar by the shower and others have mentioned. This is a great spot you can tell other dancers that you’re only tipping shower dances. Make sure you bring enough 20s to tip others that you talk to for a couple of minutes. I didn’t have a private there but the dancers working pace went to club 69 much more muscular guys at this location. It was dead quiet I came. I was the only customer in the place. I didn’t stay long because it was awkward again beautiful man checked out. Be mine actually a lot of fun some really good looking dancers at this bar as well. What I’ve noticed is all the dancers I’ve spoken with, and the people giving massages too only offer to have you sucked their dick, but no one will reciprocate. No matter how much you offer. Any guidance in this area would be appreciated. You can PV me if you like. i’ve been a little under the weather the last few days so I can only stay out for a little bit. I hope to feel better by tonight since this is my last night in Puerto Vallarta this is a beautiful city with great food and beautiful men. I have some pesos to blow so I will report back tomorrow.

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I did the same thing when I was there a couple of years ago. Perfect spot to watch the shower dance, tip the dancer and avoid the hustle of other strippers. Best seat in the house! Looking forward to going back in a couple of weeks.

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Just got back from a weekend trip to Montreal and the two clubs Stock and Campus. Friday night my first stop was st Stock. There is a nice open air cocktail bar in front now. It was a nice atmosphere with a bridal party having some drinks waiting give show to start. The pool table is in there now. The door to the main club didn’t open until 9pm, so I headed to Campus. Already at 8:30, this place was filling up. The guys were walking around, but not overly aggressively asking for dances. I watched a few dancers and went back to Stock. When you go in, you notice how much smaller it is compared to the last version. One of the employees said that they wanted to make it feel fuller. Although I prefer the old layout, as a strip club, it looked nice. There was the main bar and then a more intimate room with seats and a bar meant to be used for semi private lap dances, maybe? A bartender said it’s only open on the weekends, but I never saw anyone in there either Friday or Saturday. The dancers were very disappointing. While there were a couple of standouts, half the guys looked like the were recruited from a PTA meeting rather than a gym. I stayed a bit longer and then back to Campus. What a difference! The place was packed at 10pm. The dancers were awesome! Good variety and super sexy! I stayed for a bit, but it was so crowded, I was feeling claustrophobic and ended up leaving. Walked around the village a bit and then went back to the Hyatt to crash. the Hyatt (former Governor hotel) was experiencing a strike. The managers did a great job keeping up with the housekeeping, etc. I like the new look to the building and the rooms were all renovated. I loved this location since it’s easy to get to a metro, get a few items from the grocery store nearby and of course, it’s close to the clubs. Saturday night, same routine. Started at Stock and made my way to Campus. I usually do a couple of dances throughout the night, but this time I paced myself until around midnight and then let loose. I did a private with Rico. He’s on the website. Just beautiful and perfect body. The private was ok. He kind of just stood there while I enjoyed his muscles. Did two sings(had him count). He said that will be $60 and I said you counted two songs. He said “o yeah”. Have him $50 and w ed my back to the bar. Now the real treat from the bar was a Barack named William. Hot 20 year old who has a devilish smile. I asked him if he could do a private and he said he would get fired. He didn’t want to be a dancer since they have to work so hard to get dances. I told him he would have no troubles. Maybe next time… Back to Csmpus to finish off the night. I had done Canadian cash that I needed to use! Again, the bar was pack! Hard to watch the show. I picked the first hot guy that passed me by and said let’s do a dance. He was like “wow, that was easy”. We went back to lap dance area. As others have pointed out, I didn’t feel like I was in a fish bowl with the clear entrance. It still fronted private to me. It was so crowded in the back we actually had to wait for a booth to open up. Malik the pork Star and former dancer was back there most of the night. He really is as hot as his pictures and very nice. A spot finally opened up and I went in with my dancer (sorry, can’t remember his name). While he was pulling off his jeans, I noticed another dancer coming out of a cube. I asked my guy if he knows him. It was his roommate! I said get him in here! Wow those dances were hot!! It was worth it to save my $ and go all in! Both were willing to do privates outside of the club, but they were straight and cost too much for what the were willing to do. when we were done I hung out for a bit. I asked another dancer why Campus is such a popular bar vs Stock. I thought it might be they have to be stripping online, but I guess they get paid to do that. He said that after the pandemic, everyone just started to head to Campus and this is where the dancers flock to now. So, I’m not quite sure, but there definitely is a difference! I left the bar with cash still in my wallet for another visit. The city is still one of my favorites even though it’s a bit rougher than before. couple of observations for both bars: 1) reserved seating —limit it or get rid of it. I’m sure they make money off of it, but I’ve never seen so many reserved spots before. When the bar isn’t even half full and there’s nowhere to sit is just bad business. The best seating was taken by the bachelorette parties which leads to my next observation… 2) limit the number of women. I’ve change my opinion from before. I used to like them for the energy they brought, but now they take up the best seats, and the bar is over packed with them. Have ladies night on Sunday night or allow them to stay until 11pm or something.

My mom used them as well. She gave up when everyone in the family would help themselves to them. The tasted like little caramels. At least she had her Tab soda to help.

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I have to agree with this statement. Customers are charged a $100 to see the dancers nude. If they don’t want to be nude, then they don’t come to the party. If the host can’t get the A-listers to comply, then move on to other dancers. When it comes to dancers, sometimes good is good enough. When I attended the party, Jonny Bronco was there. He was incredibly hot (and nude). But I still would have had just as much fun if he wasn’t there since there were plenty of dancers who were super attractive. There’s something hot about seeing a dancer completely nude that isn’t the same when they have a thong or g-string on. the second issue is getting nude for the first dance. I know it’s been discussed before, but I really hate it when a dancer waits until the second song to do that. I remember the first time that happened and I was like “what?” It’s $20 for a nude dance. Not $40 and $20 per song after that. I hope Tim reads these threads. I know it may be difficult to find dancers, but you have to stick your ground on some things. Otherwise this will continue with other demands from dancers. If you give a mouse a cookie…

Chicken Soup is my favorite thing to make in the pressure cooker. Get a rotisserie chicken, take off the meat. Into the InstaPot goes the carcass with one roughly chopped onion, garlic, a little Soy sauce, salt and MOST IMPORTANTLY 1-2 bay leaves. Put it on high pressure for 30 minutes and you have an awesome broth. Shred the meat, put it back in the pot with some chopped carrots snd celery. Put the lid on and cook for 3 minutes on High pressure. Instant release and enjoy! At this point you can put a cup of noodles in and boil them until tender. I have a straining basket I use from an old pressure cooker I had before the InstaPot. Great for removing the chicken bones and used onion and bay leaves. I also keep using the bones to make extra stock for other recipes and freezing it in canning jars.

I’ve said this before, but I love women’s night at these clubs. This was before Covid and I haven’t been there since. But these nights bring out dancers that are working that night because they know women are there. Sure the gravitate toward them, but they have to break away at some point and that’s when I approach them for a dance. A couple of dancers were obviously not excited about it, but they still said yes. Had a super hot time in the back and then released them back to the ladies. I also enjoy not having EVERY dancer ask me for a dance. I truly can sit back and watch the show and choose the dancer I’m interested in the most. Usually the hot straight guy dancing for the ladies hoping to get laid that night. It’s like being in a regular bar and a hot guy is about to take a hot girl home. You go up to him and say”I know you are going home with that girl, but before you go, could you and I go into the back for $40 and a couple of songs while you get naked and give me a lap dance?

I stayed at the hotel Porto Allegro. Very simple. Right by the river and there blocks from the beach. The view was of a wall next door, but enough light came in. It’s in the romantic zone and I could walk to all the clubs and restaurants. I only used a cab to get to and from the airport. Again, very simple. Bed, bathroom with a shower (good pressure), small table with chair and a fridge. Also a vanity to store your clothes and a safe to store your passport,etc. it was about $125/night. I would stay again. Although I would like to stay in a couple of nights at a beachside resort to wake up to the ocean.

Most of the dancers I asked did privates outside of the club and I get the feeling they can leave the club earlier than the dancers in Montreal. All three bars had “hosts” that were dressed in all black getting drinks, answering questions. I would approach one of them to see if they could arrange something for you. Tip him well and you’ll have a great evening.they speak fluid English and Spanish so the commutation will be seemless. I did see some groups gather together with dancers along the far wall. They set up “reserved” signs all over, but I don’t think it’s really enforced. Just tell the host right away you are there with a bachelor party and they’ll treat you right. On my last night there, an older guy came in with a beautiful woman and two gorgeous men. They sat down by me, but only interacted with him. Didn’t even say hello. I eventually struck up a conversation with the older guy and asked about his night. He was polite, but really focused on the dancers. He flirted with a couple and then left. My mind was going crazy thinking of all the different scenarios that could happen in their hotel room later. My gut tells me these guys are dancers and met the older gentleman a couple of nights before. Have fun. I recommend Club 69 for the group, but I think they are all good for parties of gay men wanting to enjoy beautiful men! As far as my massage, I paid $4000 pesos which is around $200 dollars. Hope this helps! Enjoy!

At the airport ready to return to below zero temps🥶. Highly recommend Puerto Vallarta to all who would love a trip with beautiful men and sunny weather. We actually had rain yesterday with overcast most of the day. But it was still in the 70s and it was nice to be able to not have to get shade erect few hours. This Minnesotan burns pretty easily. Had a massage around 4pm from an extremely cute boy. Normally cost $70, but I negotiated up to a happy ending. After one hour, I was spent. Should have done that at the beginning of the trip. You can find places all around zona romantica offering massages. After a great dinner, I headed to the gay district to have a couple of drinks before going to the strip clubs. So much fun! I went to Wet Dreams first. Not as crowded as the night before and fewer dancers. I think they recognized me because they weren’t as aggressive. Met a few people from the Midwest, who were there for a bachelor party. Fun group and they kept the dancers busy. I tried Pervert again. Only a handful of dancers there. Hung out on the balcony with two of them. One was a newbie and I had fun teaching him how to do a lap dance. Finally ended up at Club 69. Hands down the best club. I didn’t do any privates, but I did have fun with a few of my favorites on the couch. Already planning the next trip. It has everything. Sun, fun and lots of hot men😜