Is LatBear on vacation......

[+ azdr0710]

......or on timeout?.....or what?......no posts since May 17.......or did I miss some news?

 

thanks

[seattlebottom]

Time out for writing something in Spanish or something terrible like that.

[Mocha]

[+ oldNbusted]

......or on timeout?.....or what?......no posts since May 17.......or did I miss some news?

 

thanks

 

He posted on his blog yesterday

 

http://ilikepinga.com/2018/06/03/reality-check/

[Mocha]

He posted on his blog yesterday

 

http://ilikepinga.com/2018/06/03/reality-check/

 

Those are some good points he bought up, but some of the stuff he’s saying seems doesn’t fully sympathize to the relatively proactive topic he’s speaking about. For example:

 

• “In my experience, when things are not going the way I want, it is my fault. Even when it is not only my fault, I can only command my own behavior. Blaming others maybe very useful to feel better about yourself, but it is not going to change anything in your situation.
  
• Time pass for everyone. If you notice that you are not being hired as often as you used to, perhaps you are just not as desirable as you used to. I am not taking only about your looks but specially about your attitude. Take a look at the massive competition”.
  

He’s seeing things thru one lens, versus the lens of others who are actually doing it. It’s like watching a football game and yelling at the TV. Yeah you can see things from 40 different camera angles, in hindsight...but the players are going by the playbook and have a whole other team full of opponents. He says when “things” aren’t going his way, it’s his fault. Well which things does he refer to?

 

I was a bit taken aback, when it goes on to state that part of the reason if an escort isn’t being hired as often, that their desirability has gone down.

 

If some could sit down and see the texts I get on a regular basis, they’d see it’s not attitude or looks. There’s a severe lack of courtesy and communication on-going, and I spend more time than I care to, trying to come up with ways to better it.

 

Just like today: I’ve been trying to schedule a client for a second time today. He texted me Friday. I informed him I was not available to host that day. However he kept trying to push me to meet him. I told him, I’m going to a different area of the state, but can host when I return back to town over the weekend. I reached out to him Sunday, no response. But then he contacts me again today. Our visit was set to be at 5 tomorrow, for me to host. Well then he contacts back asking if he can host today, how long would it take to arrive to an area near him.

 

Within 30 minutes, he goes from asking, “3som?” to “cancel all”...after instead of texting, I called him to figure out when I’d get the info he said he’d be sending to me within 15 minutes, because I needed to know which direction to go if he wanted to meet in what seemed to be a short amount of time.

 

This comes a day after, another client stood me up on an outcall downtown. Phone ringing, he wasn’t answering. Didn’t even try to contact me back. Today I reach him, he just non-chalantly says he doesn’t know what happened. Almost like he didn’t even have a conscious. Only reason he’s complying is because I put his shit out on the front page of my twitter client warning page.

 

Last week, I had 2 other weirdo flakes with one guy threatening to have his attorney call me for posting his info on my twitter client warning page. Please do. So I can show him how he attempted to send me 30 miles outside of Pittsburgh for a bogus outcall.

 

Things right now are in a discombobulated funk right now. I’m trying very hard to keep it together, but there’s only so much I can do myself. How about some of these people fucking take some damn responsibility for their compulsive, impulsive behavior.

Edited June 5, 2018 by Mocha

[+ freecahill1965]

I like that he bought up the topic, but some of the stuff he’s saying does a disservice to the relatively proactive topic he’s speaking about. For example:

 

• “In my experience, when things are not going the way I want, it is my fault. Even when it is not only my fault, I can only command my own behavior. Blaming others maybe very useful to feel better about yourself, but it is not going to change anything in your situation.
  
• Time pass for everyone. If you notice that you are not being hired as often as you used to, perhaps you are just not as desirable as you used to. I am not taking only about your looks but specially about your attitude. Take a look at the massive competition”.
  

He’s seeing things thru one lens, versus the lens of others who are actually doing it. It’s like watching a football game and yelling at the TV. Yeah you can see things from 40 different camera angles, in hindsight...but the players are going by the playbook and have a whole other team full of opponents. He says when “things” aren’t going his way, it’s his fault. Well which things does he refer to?

 

To further make an already marginalized group feel uncomfortable, he goes on to state that if an escort isn’t being hired as often, that their desirability has gone down.

 

People need to stop being so quick to rationalize things sometimes, and just listen. If people could sit down and see the things I deal with on a regular basis, they’d see it’s not attitude or looks. There’s a severe lack of courtesy and communication on-going, and I spend more time than I care to, trying to come up with ways to better it.

 

Just like today: I’ve been trying to schedule a client for a second time today. He contacted me Friday. I informed him I was not available to host that day. However he kept trying to push me to meet him. I told him, I’m going to a different area of the state, but can host when I return back to town over the weekend. I reached out to him Sunday, no response. But then he contacts me again today. Our visit was set to be at 5 tomorrow, for me to host. Well then he contacts back asking if he can host today, how long would it take to arrive to an area near him.

 

Within 30 minutes, he goes from asking, “3som?” to “cancel all”...after I called him to figure out when I’d get the address info he said he’d be sending to me within 15 minutes, because I needed to know which direction to go if he wanted to meet in what seemed to be a short amount of time.

 

This comes a day after, another client stood me up on an outcall downtown. Phone ringing, he wasn’t answering. Didn’t even try to contact me back. Today I reach him, he just non-chalantly says he doesn’t know what happened. Almost like he didn’t even have a conscious. Only reason he’s complying is because I put his shit out on the front page of my twitter client warning page.

 

Last week, I had 2 other weirdo flakes with one guy threatening to have his attorney call me for posting his info on my twitter client warning page. Please do. So I can show him how he attempted to send me 30 miles outside of Pittsburgh for a bogus outcall.

 

The whole business is just become a racket. Going around victim blaming and trying to figure fault does no good to anyone. How about some of these people fucking take some damn responsibility for their reckless actions.

It is a forum. Everyone has got their own opinions. I think many of his contributions are beneficial. I am beginning to miss them.

[Mocha]

It is a forum. Everyone has got their own opinions. I think many of his contributions are beneficial. I am beginning to miss them.

 

True. And that’s not to blast his post or say it’s garbage or anything like that. He’s definitely doing good for the community.

 

Opinions are fine, but having a single opinion on such a broad matter tends to make it look 1 sided.