0/2 On The Apps -One More And I’ll Be A Hat Trick!!

[+ Gar1eth]

Strike #1. I finally got back on the apps with my usual luck. There was a handsome athletic looking younger guy in his 30’s who wanted me to top him and could host. It sounded great. But he doesn’t like to kiss. And while I’m not in love, making love without kissing is painful for me. My tallywacker responds to deep kissing. In addition he likes doggie style. On a preference basis I prefer missionary. I like seeing whom I am with. On a physical basis due to being underendowed, I can penetrate deeper in missionary position.

 

Then comes STEEE-RIKE #2 this evening. A guy about 29. He’s not as good looking as the guy above. But he’s cute. He-to put it mildly wants me. I had had in my profile I couldn’t host. I took it out. But I thought we had discussed it. We hadn’t. We had arranged to meet 10 minutes ago until I found out he couldn’t host either.

 

Just a routine night on the apps for me. Last time I had (Clintonian) sex was about 7 weeks ago. Last time I had more was probably October. Even with the lowered testosterone from the prednisone, I feel like I’m (over)DTF (Sorry to be so graphic. Tonight frustrated me as I really was looking forward to it.)

 

Gman

[+ FreshFluff]

It sounds like you're attracting a high quality crowd. I hope the logistics work out better with #3 and #4.

[+ Gar1eth]

It sounds like you're attracting a high quality crowd. I hope the logistics work out better with #3 and #4.

 

DING DING DING-I have probably hit the HAT TRICK. A cute guy messaged me. I didn’t even have to message him first. We texted for over an hour. His profile said he enjoyed coffee dates and wasn’t into ‘NSA’. Right before we signed off I asked if he were interested in meeting-notice I just used the subjunctive were as used in statements containing wishes contrary to fact- and there was in the words of Phil Collins from his days in Genesis—-

NO REPLY AT ALL!!

 

Gman

 

[+ Tarte Gogo]

Strike #1. I finally got back on the apps with my usual luck. There was a handsome athletic looking younger guy in his 30’s who wanted me to top him and could host. It sounded great. But he doesn’t like to kiss. And while I’m not in love, making love without kissing is painful for me. My tallywacker responds to deep kissing. In addition he likes doggie style. On a preference basis I prefer missionary. I like seeing whom I am with. On a physical basis due to being underendowed, I can penetrate deeper in missionary position.

 

Then comes STEEE-RIKE #2 this evening. A guy about 29. He’s not as good looking as the guy above. But he’s cute. He-to put it mildly wants me. I had had in my profile I couldn’t host. I took it out. But I thought we had discussed it. We hadn’t. We had arranged to meet 10 minutes ago until I found out he couldn’t host either.

 

Just a routine night on the apps for me. Last time I had (Clintonian) sex was about 7 weeks ago. Last time I had more was probably October. Even with the lowered testosterone from the prednisone, I feel like I’m (over)DTF (Sorry to be so graphic. Tonight frustrated me as I really was looking forward to it.)

 

Gman

Hey Gman, i am not sure if your area has decently priced hotels, but if you both can’t host, and are into each other, wouldn’t you pay for a room in a cheap hotel?

 

I mean a hotel room is way cheaper than an escort, I definetly would pay it, for what looks like a really good fuck.

[+ Gar1eth]

Hey Gman, i am not sure if your area has decently priced hotels, but if you both can’t host, and are into each other, wouldn’t you pay for a room in a cheap hotel?

 

I mean a hotel room is way cheaper than an escort, I definetly would pay it, for what looks like a really good fuck.

 

Normally I’m short on money. I couldn’t ask the other guy to pay it all. In this case I did have a little extra. But the guy wasn’t interested in paying for half. I thought about offering to pay it all. But again I don’t have a lot of cash. Plus while I’m DTF, it seems to me that if I had paid the entire thing, it would have indicated I was more interested than he was. So it’s not just making the beast with two backs. There unfortunately is gamesmanship involved too.

 

Oh and I had another offer this morning. It’s a guy I’ve been with before about a year and a half ago. It was an ok experience. He’s a hairstylist and I couldn’t touch his hair. But at that time while he said he was just going to sit on me to get a feel, he slipped me inside bare when we had agreed I’d be wrapped. I didn’t like it. But I was on PrEP at the time, so I wasn’t overly concerned as I was being checked frequently. Now he said right off the bat he only wanted me bare. I told him I couldn’t do it as I wasn’t on PrEP anymore.

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

To quote a line from one of my favorite songs from when I was younger, “I think we’re over the storm,” although the thrust of the song is a lot more hopeful than what I’m feeling now.

 

No I neither found sex nor pleasured myself (yet-although that may be coming.). I tried my darndest yesterday, but my efforts came to naught. Today my little friend didn’t wake me up. And while I miss him, I’m glad. Being constantly sexually frustrated when you are raring to go is not a pleasant feeling.

 

I had originally written a much longer post. But in the interests of National ( and Forum) Security, I redacted it:p. I decided that this fairly simple post was better than the long, bitter jeremiad (love that word! And really how often in normal discourse do you get to use it?) that I was writing.

 

In parting I leave you with the following. It was one of my favorite songs from when I was about 14. I don’t subscribe to its sentiments. But it’s still a nice tune.

 

 

Gman

[LaffingBear]

One cannot adequately lower their expectations when using Grindr. No matter how little you expect, no matter how bleak the anticipation, the online stew of crotch-logic, anonymity and uncertainty will achieve new lows.

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[+ Gar1eth]

Here's to hoping an encounter can eventually pan out to your liking, and you can be fucked so silly that you're posting "I Can't Dance" for us.

I appreciate the sentiments although I have little hope of it happening-or to be possibly more true to life rather than just perpetually looking at the worst case scenario, then yes it may occur. But it most likely won’t occur without a struggle, be anytime soon, and only after endless hours/weeks/ months spent on the apps.

 

One caveat- unless the phrasing is universal and works for guys of all positions, I’ll have to consider it more in reverse as I’m a top.

 

Gman

[YoungAD]

But it most likely won’t occur without a struggle, be anytime soon, and only after endless hours/weeks/ months spent on the apps.

 

 

Gman

 

Taking into consideration you had two young men interested in having sex with you and you turned one down because you are too cheap to spring for a hotel room and the other because apparently he wanted to engage in a different sexual position than is your favorite, then yes. You will likely face a struggle.

[+ FreshFluff]

From what Gar1eth has posted over the past few months, it's unsurprising that he doesn't have extra money sitting around to spend on a room.

[YoungAD]

And yet he can buy Viagra.

[MikeBiDude]

And yet he can buy Viagra.

Back off. You’re pretty old to still be a bully?

[+ Gar1eth]

Taking into consideration you had two young men interested in having sex with you and you turned one down because you are too cheap to spring for a hotel room and the other because apparently he wanted to engage in a different sexual position than is your favorite, then yes. You will likely face a struggle.

 

From what Gar1eth has posted over the past few months, it's unsurprising that he doesn't have extra money sitting around to spend on a room.

 

And yet he can buy Viagra.

 

When you are in as desperate financial straights as I am, $35 for 90 tablets that will last months is a little different than splurging on a $50 to $60 room for a 2 hour one night stand when the other guy isn’t even interested enough to pay 1/2.

 

Oh and I while I ordered the sildenafil 3 days ago, I haven’t picked it up because I’m trying to come up with the money. I’m about to pay $64 dollars for 5 tablets of a medication to help deal with my myasthenia. It’s an extended release tablet to take at bedtime. The purpose of which is to see if it can keep me from having to wake up at 3 or 4 AM to take the normal non-extended release formulation, so I won’t have symptoms on awakening in the morning. The doctor wrote for 30. But that’s $184 or so. I want to make sure the tablets work before spending that kind of money.

 

Myasthenia meds come before playtime meds.

 

If the tablets work as hyped they will be helpful. Just this morning they would have been really useful. While this isn’t usual-happened more often when I was really bad back January thru early March before starting the prednisone-I had a short episode of not being able to breathe thru my nose this morning. I could breathe thru my mouth. But on trying to breathe thru my nose it felt like there was an obstruction. I think it might have been momentary palatal weakness as it was a much more common occurrence pre-steroids when I was a lot more symptomatic. And back then I would notice how my voice sounded hoarse too.

 

Back off. You’re pretty old to still be a bully?

 

Thanks @MikeBiDude. Much appreciated.

 

Gman