Guys 30 and under, do you feel awkward being a client?

[christofff]

For the younger guys on here, how have your experiences with sensual massages been? Do you find that the guy is a bit suspicious of you or shocked at you requesting his service? So far I've had massages from guys around my age and both times they practically interrogated me on why I was doing it. I was thinking about trying out an older guy (Peter Matson) but then I started to feel weird about paying someone older than me for a sensual experience.

[Walker1]

For the younger guys on here, how have your experiences with sensual massages been? Do you find that the guy is a bit suspicious of you or shocked at you requesting his service? So far I've had massages from guys around my age and both times they practically interrogated me on why I was doing it. I was thinking about trying out an older guy (Peter Matson) but then I started to feel weird about paying someone older than me for a sensual experience.

When I started with hiring, it was massage for a while. I was deeply closeted and thought something was wrong with me. Though I moved to a very liberal gay friendly area, it takes time. Sensual massage bridged the gap, till I was comfortable hiring , then having sex on my own. back to hiring due to family now.

 

As long as you get the pleasure-why should someone older or younger matter?

[christofff]

When I started with hiring, it was massage for a while. I was deeply closeted and thought something was wrong with me. Though I moved to a very liberal gay friendly area, it takes time. Sensual massage bridged the gap, till I was comfortable hiring , then having sex on my own. back to hiring due to family now.

 

As long as you get the pleasure-why should someone older or younger matter?

I guess its just the whole stigma of the older guy being the "sugar daddy".

[IYH99]

I'm in my early 30s and just started getting some M4M massages. I'm married (to a man), and he's very supportive of my exploring different areas (I'm not going to get into all the reasons why I haven't explored a lot of things). I did have one guy tell me that I'm not the typical person he massages. It wasn't said in derogatory way, but I've gotten comments like that.

[christofff]

I'm in my early 30s and just started getting some M4M massages. I'm married (to a man), and he's very supportive of my exploring different areas (I'm not going to get into all the reasons why I haven't explored a lot of things). I did have one guy tell me that I'm not the typical person he massages. It wasn't said in derogatory way, but I've gotten comments like that.

Yeah it wasn't like the guys were rude just taken aback. Were the guys you saw older than you?

[IYH99]

I've only seen two guys. The first guy was in his late 40s/early 50s, I think. The second guy was 35. He's the one that commented to me he doesn't get a lot of guys around our age.

[fratphysicals]

For the younger guys on here, how have your experiences with sensual massages been? Do you find that the guy is a bit suspicious of you or shocked at you requesting his service? So far I've had massages from guys around my age and both times they practically interrogated me on why I was doing it. I was thinking about trying out an older guy (Peter Matson) but then I started to feel weird about paying someone older than me for a sensual experience.

I feel you. I typically hire only my my age or younger, and my limit for older is usually 40 and under. It’s just a comfort thing for me. I’m more comfortable with guys my similar age.

[+ Kman]

I've only seen two guys. The first guy was in his late 40s/early 50s, I think. The second guy was 35. He's the one that commented to me he doesn't get a lot of guys around our age.

 

I have had those same comments as well but it doesn't seem like any masseurs care that much about the age of their clients just as long as you are respectful. Initially I did feel a little awkward but I got over that quickly

[IYH99]

Completely agree, Kman. It hasn't been an issue as of yet and I've enjoyed both sessions that I've had. Regardless of whether it's someone older or younger (I'm more about the person than the age), I wholeheartedly agree that it's about respect.

[JD87]

I’m 30- started getting massages when I was 21. Never thought it was weird

[+ tassojunior]

I assure you it makes zero difference to the provider. If anything they prefer older for easier sex and more chances of snagging a sugar daddy ("sponsor").

[Dmitri]

For the younger guys on here, how have your experiences with sensual massages been? Do you find that the guy is a bit suspicious of you or shocked at you requesting his service? So far I've had massages from guys around my age and both times they practically interrogated me on why I was doing it. I was thinking about trying out an older guy (Peter Matson) but then I started to feel weird about paying someone older than me for a sensual experience.

 

Confused reading this thread. Is the point that someone under 30 y/o would probably not get a massage with a HE since they can hook up easier since they are younger and don't need to pay for it? If so, I asked my main massage therapist tonite when I got a massage , and he said his clients are all ages. (my masseur is 42 y/o). In an average week he said he gets about 30% of clients in their 20's. Remember: this is not an escort session. This is massage....guys of all ages need to relax and get massaged.....whether therapeutic or sensual massage, there is a massage as the main part. Whether you are 20 y/o or 80 y/o it should make no difference. To say a masseur would be suspicious (of what?) or shocked (why?) had me laughing

Edited March 19, 2018 by Dmitri

[+ sync]

I can understand a masseur thinking the possibility of a sting if he perceives a potential client to be "too far" outside the parameters of his usual clientele.

[Jetblue711]

Sometimes. I’m 28 and had one masseur say to me he felt like he just stumbled into a porn dream. Haha.

I’m okay looking, but chubby, he said it was because I was so young and hot, I must have been his type.

[fratphysicals]

I assure you it makes zero difference to the provider. If anything they prefer older for easier sex and more chances of snagging a sugar daddy ("sponsor").

I don’t think that’s always the case. There are for sure a population of masseurs that love working on younger guys.

[supersweetlover]

I'm 30 and I go to the gym a lot so I need greatly skilled massuers to help me relieve my usually tense muscles. They can tell what I need when they touch my body, which also tend to get them aroused lol. So it ends up being a pleasure for both parties

[MikeBiDude]

I guess its just the whole stigma of the older guy being the "sugar daddy".

That’s a stigma , really?

 

stig·ma

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noun

plural noun: stigmas

1. 1.
   a mark of disgrace associated with a particular circumstance, quality, or person.
   

[NYCguy10011]

I started getting massages in my 20s, and my ideal was a session with a hot Dad type. (At that time, it seemed harder to find older masseurs than it is now. But I managed to find plenty...)

 

In any case, I never had an issue — I didn’t think that being younger made me hot or desirable, and I didn’t expect the masseur to treat me any differently because of my age.

[+ Jamesp]

I started getting massage in my late 20s. There were few instances when masseur said he is not comfortable doing massage and i definitely don't look younger then my age.