Going to give a friend a massage... any advice?

[+ 7829V]

Tomorrow I'm going to give a friend a massage, he's bi was engaged with a woman for a while but did not marry at the end. He's now trying guys and we've fooled around a couple of times and now I offered him to give me a massage. I have a massage table, and I am going to watch all the videos below to learn some movements, techniques, etc. I am no pro at all, never really given a massage. I'm kind of nervous and excited. I just want him to enjoy it so he asks for more sessions So if you have any suggestions, comments or tips that I can use, let me know. Thanks

 

Here is the list of videos I found posted in this forum, videos that you guys have said you have enjoyed.

 

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/massage-man-to-man-gay-to-gay-32174972

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph56a967a59b786

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/Body-to-Body-Naturist-Massage-22537302

http://naturist-massage-montreal.tumblr.com

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/massage-nuru-sex-30996981

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph579c3c8c0b6a6

https://gaypornforyou.com/4-hands-massage/

https://gaypornforyou.com/thai-oil-massage/

https://gaypornforyou.com/pandora-erection-while-massage-vol-02/

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/Massage-nuru-sex-30996981

https://www.xvideos.com/video1018310/levi_poulter_happy_ending_massage

http://www.xvideos.com/profiles/masajesdesnudos

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/Sensual-Massage-Demonstration-28030701

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/Gay-Asian-sex-in-Massage-31101971

http://www.sensualmassagemovies.com/free-tour/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hb6fk_v_xJU

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1297380395

https://www.xtube.com/video-watch/Male-to-Male-4-Hands-23692831

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1730830857

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1711218518

[+ 7829V]

Ah, if you have a suggestion on what oil to use, one that I could find in a regular CVS or Walgreens it would be great!

[+ Hoover42]

No way can you get this at CVS or Wallgreens, but for subsequent massages, I recommend Biotone dual-purpose massage creme. It has a nice glide, works well on guys who might have a little more hair, and doesn't leave a greasy feeling afterwards. This stuff is amazing!

Edited February 24, 2018 by Hoover42

[matt842]

My brief advice would be do to him what you like a masseur to do to you, and ask him to let you know what feels good as you are massaging him.

[+ 7829V]

No way can you get this at CVS or Wallgreens, but for subsequent massages, I recommend Biotone dual-purpose massage creme. It has a nice glide, works well on guys who might have a little more hair, and doesn't leave a greasy feeling afterwards. This stuff is amazing!

Thanks...! I see they sell it on Amazon. I'll order some for next time.

At home I have this one... I wonder how well it works... I'll find out I guess.

[+ 7829V]

My brief advice would be do to him what you like a masseur to do to you, and ask him to let you know what feels good as you are massaging him.

Yeah, I'll follow your advice. I have some experience getting massages. I enjoy when the masseurs do some original movements... and sprinkle sensuality throughout. I do not enjoy when they go to the erotic portion of the massage. I like it when they focus on feet, hands. Also glutes and adductors. Feels nice. I enjoy the build up. I found the images below online, might help to learn some positions. And I'll review the videos posted earlier tonight to have some ideas.

[+ 7829V]

I am also thinking in having the bathtub filled and wash his body in a sensual way. Nothing too erotic or grotesque. Just sensuality.

I have never done this with a masseur (the bathtub part). I wonder if is common...?

[+ not2rowdy]

With no experience try starting with l o n g sslloooww strokes of moderate pressure - generally moving in the direction of the heart.

 

Check to make sure your friend doesn’t have allergies. The Pro’s will likely cringe a bit but, considering your situation, Neutrogena Body Oil (or generic store brand next to it) actually isn’t too bad. Sometimes you will also see Palmer’s Moisturizing Body Oil with Cocoa Butter. Or just use coconut oil. Preferably “Fractionated” and likely available at a Bed, Bath and Beyond (or similar) Store. Old fashioned Baby Oil is a little too thin. But it’s certainly better than nothing and it’s not likely to cause a skin reaction to allergy sufferers.

 

Atmosphere is very important. Low light and maybe an aromatic candle. Soothing music played at a low background volume. Maybe just a bit warmer temperature than you might think since the oils can have a cooling effect on the body.

 

Near the end put a face towel under the bathtub spout. Heat it up, wring it out. Make sure it’s not too hot and wipe excess oil off. Cover friend immediately (with towel or body) to preserve heat

 

No. I’m not a professional - just a consumer

 

Best wishes!

[matt842]

Yeah, I'll follow your advice. I have some experience getting massages. I enjoy when the masseurs do some original movements... and sprinkle sensuality throughout. I do not enjoy when they go to the erotic portion of the massage. I like it when they focus on feet, hands. Also glutes and adductors. Feels nice. I enjoy the build up....

It sounds like you and I like the same type of massage. Of the videos you posted, this is the one that seems to reflect the type I like to get and give:

 

https://www.xvideos.com/video1018310/levi_poulter_happy_ending_massage

[Typical]

The most important piece of advice I can offer is to film it and post it here so we can evaluate.

[+ 7829V]

The most important piece of advice I can offer is to film it and post it here so we can evaluate.

[+ Funguy]

Coconut oil is one of the best ideas, it is also good FOR the skin and some escorts also use it for lube. It moisturizes the skin and then seals the moisture into the skin. You get the good effects even after the massage and you wipe the excess oil off.

 

As an aside - I once had an escort greet me at his door totally naked and covered with coconut oil. As we went slip-sliding away, the smell was intoxicating! Using as lube and some rimming was incredible so you can enjoy all uses of this product.

 

Much better than the Nutragena!

[Dmitri]

Coconut oil is one of the best ideas, it is also good FOR the skin and some escorts also use it for lube. It moisturizes the skin and then seals the moisture into the skin. You get the good effects even after the massage and you wipe the excess oil off.

 

As an aside - I once had an escort greet me at his door totally naked and covered with coconut oil. As we went slip-sliding away, the smell was intoxicating! Using as lube and some rimming was incredible so you can enjoy all uses of this product.

 

Much better than the Nutragena!

 

Just to clarify.....the above post mentions using Coconut oil not just for massage but also as a lube. Do NOT use Coconut oil with condoms as a lube since the oil can weaken and break condoms. (any oils.....coconut, massage oil, baby oil, etc.) If the massage (or any escort session) goes in that direction....shower off the Coconut oil first, then use a WATER BASED lube with the condom. Want to keep it safe

Edited February 25, 2018 by Dmitri

[+ kov78]

My brief advice would be do to him what you like a masseur to do to you, and ask him to let you know what feels good as you are massaging him.

And careful with the pressure as you could end up hurting him.