First-time muscle worshipper - Advice?

[Guest Quindi]

Hey guys,

 

New here, so apologies in advance if this topic has been raised before.

 

The first time (as a teenager) I saw a picture of Ronnie Coleman on the Olympia stage, something ignited deep inside of me and since then only the biggest and most vascular of competitive bodybuilders ‘do it’ for me.

 

I’m in my late 20s, and after 15 years or so, my lust for freakishly big bodybuilders has finally got the better of me. After a few weeks of trawling through numerous escort sites and plucking up the courage to make contact, I have finally arranged an evening with the kind of mass monster I have for so long dreamed of. We have arranged the session and set the parameters, so both know what to expect. I’m not looking for sex from him, nor does he offer such a service. My booking him stems simply from the desire to rub and squeeze him intensely and aggressively from head to toe and be utterly dominated and overwhelmed by his size and strength.

 

If I haven’t already lost you, I’ll get to the point now. This is something that I have wanted for so so long and I’m already nervous thinking about the meeting. I’m well built myself and although usually confident, I idolize the kind of bodybuilder I’m soon to meet, so I don’t want to let the significance of the occasion get the better of me and have the evening pass by without my realizing, if that makes sense.

 

So I would really appreciate if any fellow muscle worshippers reading this could give me some advice, based on experience, to really enjoy the session. Specifics would be great, e.g. on how you typically move things along, or any tricks of the trade I may not be aware of. I have a genuine interest in competitive bodybuilding so want to combine a posing show with the physical muscle worship. I’m also undecided on what I would like him to wear. Seeing him arrive in a tight suit, biceps and quads bulging, would be an amazing segue into an arousing strip-down, but I’d find sportswear very difficult to resist, seeing his ponderous pecs pouring out from a skin-tight tank top...

 

Thanks!

[KyleS]

As a newbie both to the forum and to muscle worship, I'm not confident enough to give any suggestion or advice. However, I feel the same as Quindi about muscle worship. I'm also in my late 20s. I'm not looking for penatration from men, but have the disire to feel and admire those massive muscles. I like licking sweats from the muscles and I'm a fan of big muscle guys in suits, but can enjoy basically everything if I like the muscle guy.

 

The escort I hired does not compete, but he has muscles massive and beautiful enough to realize my fantasies. The first time was kind of embarrassing, as I was too excited to control myself. I failed to listen to what the escort was saying, and may have done something that made him uncomfortable. (Fortunately he was nice enough to understand and forgive me)

 

Here are my "experiences" after the 2 hirings:

1) Worshiping, even though without REAL sex, takes energy. Eat well and rest well.

2) Decide whether you like it soft & relaxing, or hard & breathtaking, or both. Tell the escort what you would like to do with him, and make sure he is okay with them.

3) Follow your desires during the session, a good escort is professional enough to adapt to your needs and lead you the way to a well-designed wonderland.

4) Always respect the escort as a person. They have their boundaries, there are things they never do, things they don't do so often but might do for you if you have their permission, and also things they would love to do. A session is much more enjoyable if both the client and the escort feel comfortable.

 

Good luck with your first session. Things will get better through time, I'm still in the beginner's course myself

[LaffingBear]

While it may be unexpected, muscle worship means different things to different men.

 

So don't be shy about sharing expectations and desires with the rentguy.

 

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/muscle-worship-for-beginners.125094/#post-1306018

[+ azdr0710]

and just checking that the guy you're meeting is well-reviewed/regarded.....without bombarding him with too much gushy/giddy contact, make sure he knows what you'd like to do and that this is your first time with this type meeting.....be honest and professional.......at the meet, smile, talk slowly, firm handshake and look him in the eyes.....move the meet along so you get all you want by the end (I'm usually the "clockwatcher"!)......don't take it too seriously and make sure he's having fun, too

[crushme99]

much respect for your insights. keep 'em coming, guys

[LD19847]

If you're nervous about meeting someone, sometimes meeting at a public place (eg a metro station if arriving on public transportation) and walking together to your hotel / home helps break the ice with regular conversation.

 

Have towels / bottled water on hand as some bodybuilders can perspire when posing & flexing.

 

Also, if you want a soft / relaxing session, then some slow music on in the background really helps with the mood.

 

To be honest, I'm sure if you respect his limits and show the normal social courtesies of any host, you'll be fine.

[JayCeeKy]

Make sure your muscle man knows beforehand that you expect him to be verbal, interactive, and aggressive during your session. Otherwise, it will be like visiting a Greek statue in a museum. Trust me, it's happened to me where the guy thinks that just by showing up he's fulfilled his contractual obligations. This sphinx-like behavior is not uncommon for straight bodybuilders who seem resolute in proving that they are no where near gay by being totally passive. If possible, make sure he has good reviews. A bodybuilder who is secure in his own masculinity is usually the best partner in a worship session, in my experience.