ESCORTS WHO DON'T LIKE TO KISS

[Nvr2Thick]

Most sexual activities don't have a dual meaning even when described euphemistically. If an escort says he will top you or he will bottom, you know what that means. If you ask about kissing some escorts will say yes, even if they choose to interpret that as not on the mouth, or not open-mouthed french kissing; they'll intentionally exploit the ambiguity. There was a train-wreck of a thread where one escort hijacked the whole concept regarding our expectations of kissing, making into some sort of exploitative evil we inflict on escorts. Many of us are very clear regarding the acts we expect or hope for during an encounter with an escort. An aggressive top who kisses well is so exciting, for me. When I have an opportunity to explicitly ask an escort regarding my own expectations I'm very clear about wanting kissing, and about the type of kissing I like. I've met a few escorts who honestly and clearly state that they do not kiss, and a few others who said that they might rule it in or out based on chemistry. I can think of two escorts I chose to hire even though they stated up front that they did not kiss. In both cases, my instincts were correct -- that they had other attributes and abilities that more than made up for this deficiency. Many of my other escort encounters either stood out as excellent or poor based on the escorts' ability to integrate kissing into the session.

[NowOrNever]

@NowOrNever I am disappointed, and I don't blame you; he has been on my shortlist for another trip to Montreal; I think I'd need to know if Teddy Torres kisses!

 

In his rent.men profile, Teddy says that he loves kissing and oral the most.

[NowOrNever]

He does though

 

Well, I've been told by three different prospective clients now that Manuel has firmly vetoed kissing, so when an escort makes it clear he will not kiss, it's a good idea to believe him.

[LADoug1]

I once was involved in a KIK site for bi guys. I was shocked to learn that very few were into kissing. For me, kissing is the best part of a m4m sexual encounter. All escorts I have hired have been excellent kissers deserving of return visits.

KIK?

[Chuckball]

Kik is a freeware mobile messaging app. Google kik-messenger if interested. I had signed up with a group dedicated to bi guys. I haven't quit the service because I use it to receive CNN updates. This post is to answer @LADoug1 wondering what KIK is.

[TruthBTold]

The gentleman I see would kiss when we first started to see each other. It got better and better every time we met up. Still does and that has been years.

[luckyguy48503]

I’m with most of the posts here.. I have been seeing a masseuse who became a “friend “ meaning we now travel together, but he doesn’t kiss. He has been very clear he identifies as straight so can’t say I’m surprise, but boy, I miss kissing!

[mike carey]

I have been seeing a masseuse who became a “friend “ meaning we now travel together, but he doesn’t kiss.

Pedantry central I know, but if it is a masseuse, she doesn't kiss.

[jjkrkwood]

[quote="Gar1eth, post: 1422262, member: 4509"

 

A guy I ended up hiring whom I think I asked about kissing-or maybe I assumed he did-but in any case when we met said he only deep kissed his boyfriend was Tony Serrano. I never hired him again.

 

http://www.friskyfans.org/catphotos/models/TonySerrano/Tony-Serrano.jpg

 

Gman

 

I would have been OK with HIM not kissing Gar. THAT cock would have kept me busy !

[jjkrkwood]

YOU DONT KISS ?????

 

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-uKafvhoW4BY/VHO8HOpAa4I/AAAAAAAABtI/zYxlhgIw_Jw/s1600/tumblr_mlpi0b4yLJ1r9rem3o1_500.gif

[+ freecahill1965]

YOU DONT KISS ?????

 

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-uKafvhoW4BY/VHO8HOpAa4I/AAAAAAAABtI/zYxlhgIw_Jw/s1600/tumblr_mlpi0b4yLJ1r9rem3o1_500.gif

Agreed, no kissy no sucky.

[+ GregM]

Agreed, no kissy no sucky.

 

No kissy no sucky no swallow.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ freecahill1965]

No kissy no sucky no swallow.

 

Hugs,

Greg

Wow, that comment just gave me a woody.:D:D

[luckyguy48503]

Pedantry central I know, but if it is a masseuse, she doesn't kiss.

Pedantry central I know, but if it is a masseuse, she doesn't kiss.

good point mike.. but you get my point!

[JerseyBabyDaddy]

There’s a 411 discussion in the Deli section about an escort who doesn’t kiss, at least on the first date. It evolved into a discussion about herpes and includes the comment that many escorts “have reservations about kissing.” I’ve been with only 13 guys through RM - all BFE sessions - and I’ve never experienced any reservations. Is my experience unusual? Have many of you teamed up with escorts, especially those providing a BFE experience, who are hesitant about kissing or refuse to engage in it? Maybe I should emphasize a kissing requirement when I arrange times.

 

I never hire before inquiring about this. I understand that some people have reservations, and I respect limits, but at some point the deed stops looking like the deed and starts looking like a badly rehearsed shitshow. I'm not going to invest in a shitshow when I know that there are plenty of other better shows. I'm willing to forgo some things (not being fully vers and not rimming), but at some point I start feeling like my "partner" is grossed out by me.

 

Also, a lot of escorts kiss very dryly, which I think beats the purpose of kissing. Bad kissing is one of the reasons why I semi-retired from hiring new escorts and stuck with my regulars.

[Cyd_StVincent]

My most difficult clients are the ones who haven't wanted to kiss, thank god its only been a few. Sometimes it has been guys that are just super shy or closeted, but often its an indicator of being dissociated in a way that leads to pretty bad sex I find. When people ask me what I'm into I always highlight kissing because if they're not into that I want them to self select themselves out.

[+ Axiom2001]

Kissing is an integral facet for me when I have engaged the services of an escort. If the guy doesn't kiss deeply or profess to be relatively interactive-- I move on to someone else who

does oblige and plays enthusiastically.