I'm thinking of going to a bath house / sex club

[jjkrkwood]

Bathhouses I've been in, guys normally walk around in just a towel. it's not universal, a few walk around naked or in underwear/jock, some have shirts on, some have shirts & shorts. But it's mostly the club-provided towel.

 

Sex clubs have a slightly diff climate, but unless TOTAL nudity is mandated, you can often keep your drawers on.

[nynakedtop]

Sex clubs have a slightly diff climate, but unless TOTAL nudity is mandated, you can often keep your drawers on.

But isn't wearing clothes at a sex club kinda -- awkward? Just speaking for myself but then again check out my nickname here

[LookingAround]

99.9% of people in a bathhouse wear a towel.

[jjkrkwood]

But isn't wearing clothes at a sex club kinda -- awkward? Just speaking for myself but then again check out my nickname here

 

I never said clothes.... I was speaking more of a jock or undies. Some people are just more comfortable WITHOUT their bits hanging out.

[nynakedtop]

I never said clothes.... I was speaking more of a jock or undies. Some people are just more comfortable WITHOUT their bits hanging out.

Ahhhh ok, I guess it's that i have always felt the opposite way.... thank god (hehe)

[longtime lurker]

Much of the fuss concerns how your bits compare to everybody else's bits. Some of us are showers and some of us are growers. Yet those who may be tiny can still be mighty. Think of it like comparing whale sharks and macko sharks.

[+ José Soplanucas]

No one is a fan of the West Side Club in NYC?

In the 90s I would travel to NYC from Buenos Aires every year and stay in the Big Apple for at least 30 days, mostly in December/january. Many times we had to line up outside in the cold or even the snow to get in.

I would pay for one of the tiny rooms, walk around to check the offer, and get into my room. I would keep the door wide open and lean in the bed, showing off my boner. I have never been pretty but my dick has always being popular. The guys would walk by, stop and try to get in when interested. I just had to choose the ones I liked. I would stay up to 6 hours and hook up with up to 8 different guys. And I was not the sluttiest one.

[needbodywork]

We have quite a few bathhouse options in Los Angeles, as well as some very cruisy day and Korean spas.

 

One KSpa in particular is known for its outrageously hot guys, I've seen porn stars and male models there, as well as great-looking "regular" guys.

 

The bathhouses tend to attract an older and or minority crowd; once in awhile the more "desirable" white or Latino younger guy will come in.

 

I joke with my friend that I visited this one local bathhouse so often without getting and action I singlehandedly paid for the bathroom renovation there lol.

 

What spa is known for outrageously hot guys?

[Bearofdistinction]

What spa is known for outrageously hot guys?

 

That would be the Richard Simmons House of Fornication and Gratification!

[longtime lurker]

Sex clubs have a slightly diff climate, but unless TOTAL nudity is mandated, you can often keep your drawers on.

 

I recently found out that you are correct about the smaller "clubs", often defined as "gentlemen clubs".

 

In Orlando (Florida), for example, you have the big bath house, nicknamed Club "O", that has you in a towel or nothing at all (but your locker/room key bracelet). That place consists of lockers, rooms, huge fitness center, lounge (clothes worn there), small cafeteria room, spa, steam room, gang shower, giant pool, outdoor hot-tub, "man cave" (in which the crowd watching in their towels is greater than the actual number doing anything there), theater with plenty of seating (but no Shakespeare), dark room and a restroom facility with all the mouthwash you need for any unexpected after tastes.

 

Then you have the Clubs 1000 and 3018 in Altamonte Springs and Kissimmee respectively, much cheaper than the bathhouse with only $5 one-month membership fee plus $6-15 day visits depending on the day and discount. In other words, practically McDonald's prices. Only visited the former, which mostly consists of a clean restroom, a very nice lounge with refreshments and wi-fi (must wear clothes there), lockers and clean dimly lit play areas, both open and private rooms with locks at no extra charge. The guy in the office shows you around and is very friendly, while you are pretty much on your own figuring out the other place. The protocol is that you wear whatever you feel comfortable with and disrobe once you find a buddy. Even though they have back door entrances (designed for the secretive and the shy), they expect you to come casually dressed but not sleezy (tank tops not allowed).

 

In a curious way, these may be better experiences for some reading here than the bath house due to a smaller crowd that isn't there to waste time "window shopping" for several hours. Also everybody tends to be friendlier and less aloof in the more intimate, less Grand Central Station-like, surroundings.

[jjkrkwood]

I tend to steer clear of guys that walk around bathhouses or sex clubs with "their clothes on". I mean what's the point ? If you are trying to hide a 3" cock, its only temporary, and if you hook up, you're busted....

 

I like to cut to the chase, see what I'm getting and not waste my time, or anyone else's, and I believe most guys that go to these places have the same philosophy...

[longtime lurker]

Ahhhh... but part of the fun involves what is hidden underneath all of the holiday wrapping. Ha ha!

[jjkrkwood]

Ahhhh... but part of the fun involves what is hidden underneath all of the holiday wrapping. Ha ha!

 

So 1000% true, but for me, that wrapping is a jock , briefs or thong, not jeans and a hoodie.... (YES they do walk around in that)

[LookingAround]

I recently found out that you are correct about the smaller "clubs", often defined as "gentlemen clubs".

 

In Orlando (Florida), for example, you have the big bath house, nicknamed Club "O", that has you in a towel or nothing at all (but your locker/room key bracelet). That place consists of lockers, rooms, huge fitness center, lounge (clothes worn there), small cafeteria room, spa, steam room, gang shower, giant pool, outdoor hot-tub, "man cave" (in which the crowd watching in their towels is greater than the actual number doing anything there), theater with plenty of seating (but no Shakespeare), dark room and a restroom facility with all the mouthwash you need for any unexpected after tastes.

 

Then you have the Clubs 1000 and 3018 in Altamonte Springs and Kissimmee respectively, much cheaper than the bathhouse with only $5 one-month membership fee plus $6-15 day visits depending on the day and discount. In other words, practically McDonald's prices. Only visited the former, which mostly consists of a clean restroom, a very nice lounge with refreshments and wi-fi (must wear clothes there), lockers and clean dimly lit play areas, both open and private rooms with locks at no extra charge. The guy in the office shows you around and is very friendly, while you are pretty much on your own figuring out the other place. The protocol is that you wear whatever you feel comfortable with and disrobe once you find a buddy. Even though they have back door entrances (designed for the secretive and the shy), they expect you to come casually dressed but not sleezy (tank tops not allowed).

 

In a curious way, these may be better experiences for some reading here than the bath house due to a smaller crowd that isn't there to waste time "window shopping" for several hours. Also everybody tends to be friendlier and less aloof in the more intimate, less Grand Central Station-like, surroundings.

No tank tops? Are they crazy?

[jjkrkwood]

No tank tops? Are they crazy?

 

Only the guys with saggy manboobs wear those.

 

THIS is a much cuter option

 

[nynakedtop]

Not that I would too much first hand knowledge (hehe....), but I have found that in the sex clubs/parties I regularly attend, part of the hotness is the ritual of nakedness. Guys arrive, check their clothes... the mood is set... and what happens happens.

 

Nudity is important to setting the tone: openness, eagerness, horniness.

 

Sometimes guys are not allowed to keep their clothes on by virtue of the venue's rules, and that is fine with me. In places without strict rules, to me a guy wearing things in an otherwise naked party is a real buzz-kill... it just gives the wrong message.

 

Again, not that I would know from first hand experience.

 

Also, interesting side-note: I spend part of each year in south-east asia and nudity is far more unlikely there!

[longtime lurker]

No tank tops? Are they crazy?

 

I don't know why exactly... unless they don't want to draw too much unwanted attention to the place.

 

I think both of you, @nynakedtop and @jjkrkwood, probably favor the nudie beaches and all-male nudie campgrounds (and Florida has at least three of them) over both bath houses and "clubs". Granted, the extracurricular activities tend to be more discrete at the beaches. If for nothing else, there is a great deal of fashion on display... in C-rings, that is. I never realized how many guys wore them until I visited a "clothing optional" sea shore, not to mention how many different kinds. Often they get so glittery in the sunlight, that guys walking many yards away are giving you unintentional Morse code.

[nynakedtop]

I don't know why exactly... unless they don't want to draw too much unwanted attention to the place.

 

I think both of you, @nynakedtop and @jjkrkwood, probably favor the nudie beaches and all-male nudie campgrounds (and Florida has at least three of them) over both bath houses and "clubs". Granted, the extracurricular activities tend to be more discrete at the beaches. If for nothing else, there is a great deal of fashion on display... in C-rings, that is. I never realized how many guys wore them until I visited a "clothing optional" sea shore, not to mention how many different kinds. Often they get so glittery in the sunlight, that guys walking many yards away are giving you unintentional Morse code.

i like 'em all, but i have a special place in my heart where "activities' take place unencumbered and unembarrassed!

[jjkrkwood]

I don't know why exactly... unless they don't want to draw too much unwanted attention to the place.

 

I think both of you, @nynakedtop and @jjkrkwood, probably favor the nudie beaches and all-male nudie campgrounds (and Florida has at least three of them) over both bath houses and "clubs". Granted, the extracurricular activities tend to be more discrete at the beaches. If for nothing else, there is a great deal of fashion on display... in C-rings, that is. I never realized how many guys wore them until I visited a "clothing optional" sea shore, not to mention how many different kinds. Often they get so glittery in the sunlight, that guys walking many yards away are giving you unintentional Morse code.

 

Often there is shrinkage on the beach or in public places, so the cockring just insures your package is "front and center".... My days of "public sex are long over... Too old for that shit, and in Trumps America wouldnt want to be caught for public lewdness or indecent exposure. That's why I love the sex clubs. As long as the proprietor "pays off" the law, the place will be safe and protected. Although a club I once attended in NYC got raided, and we were made to leave NAKED into the street in the winter time. That wasnt FUN....

[nynakedtop]

Often there is shrinkage on the beach or in public places, so the cockring just insures your package is "front and center".... My days of "public sex are long over... Too old for that shit, and in Trumps America wouldnt want to be caught for public lewdness or indecent exposure. That's why I love the sex clubs. As long as the proprietor "pays off" the law, the place will be safe and protected. Although a club I once attended in NYC got raided, and we were made to leave NAKED into the street in the winter time. That wasnt FUN....

was that the club on 38th between 8th and 9th?

[jjkrkwood]

was that the club on 38th between 8th and 9th?

 

 

LOL, YUP !!!!!! Lidell's party

[nynakedtop]

LOL, YUP !!!!!! Lidell's party

hmmm, we may have run into one another - that was an awesome space (while it survived....)

[jjkrkwood]

hmmm, we may have run into one another - that was an awesome space (while it survived....)

 

 

LMFAO, i would have to see your cock to know :p:p Yes, loved that space. Now Lidell just has Paddles and the Chelsea space locations, but I dont schlep into the city that often anymore. I stay at my local clubs in Queens.

[longtime lurker]

Often there is shrinkage on the beach or in public places, so the cockring just insures your package is "front and center".... My days of "public sex are long over... Too old for that shit, and in Trumps America wouldnt want to be caught for public lewdness or indecent exposure. That's why I love the sex clubs. As long as the proprietor "pays off" the law, the place will be safe and protected. Although a club I once attended in NYC got raided, and we were made to leave NAKED into the street in the winter time. That wasnt FUN....

 

Why not? They are all doing it with women against their will. Trump and half of the power men on Fox News. (Yes... and also Weinstein.) The only people you are having fun with are those who want to have fun with you.

[jjkrkwood]

Why not? They are all doing it with women against their will. Trump and half of the power men on Fox News. (Yes... and also Weinstein.) The only people you are having fun with are those who want to have fun with you.

 

Well, if you haven't noticed, I'm SHY...