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hunterlee Enthusiast

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I would assume it all depends on client, escort and setting.

 

If I were at a restaurant, I wouldn't mind giving someone a peck or cheek kiss. However I wouldn't appreciate making out with someone as it would be disrespectful to other diners and those serving us.

 

If it were a night club, that's is very different situation,

 

Just think to yourself, what would be appropriate in the situation. Would you appreciate someone digging out each other's mouths while you are eating your steak vs see that occur at a night club. It is arbitrary based on social rules by our society.

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TruHart1 Grand Master

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Any of you?

 

Or maybe some clients who know who do it?

 

*Public Displays of Affection

I would assume it all depends on client, escort and setting.

 

If I were at a restaurant, I wouldn't mind giving someone a peck or cheek kiss. However I wouldn't appreciate making out with someone as it would be disrespectful to other diners and those serving us.

 

If it were a night club, that's is very different situation,

 

Just think to yourself, what would be appropriate in the situation. Would you appreciate someone digging out each other's mouths while you are eating your steak vs see that occur at a night club. It is arbitrary based on social rules by our society.

Exactly. I have one wonderful regular escort who just naturally does little things to show affection for me when we are together in public. He uses taste and discretion though, showing more overt PDA (including little face/neck pecks) when we are in a gay club and tending toward an arm around my shoulder or a hand slap on my back or even a bit of neck massage, if we are in a more mixed venue such as a restaurant. These little personal gestures come quite naturally to him and make me feel as if I am the most important man in his life! It's certainly part of the BFE he is so talented at furnishing for me every time we are together!

 

TruHart1 :cool:

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MikeyGMin Experienced

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I'm not a big fan of PDA in general. There are no circumstances where you'll see me sucking someone's face (or anything else) in public, but I have no problem with small gestures that are fairly intimate. Like a lingering touch on the shoulder, an intimate toast, legs touching under the table or even feeding someone a bite of your meal (which I find extremely intimate.) I've given and received this kind of PDA.

 

I'm actually more comfortable with these gestures in a straight environment than I am a gay environment. I'm usually with a man 20-25 years younger than I am. In a gay environment I believe this age difference is very noticeable and young guys are often very harsh with one another. I don't give a shit what anyone thinks of me, but I don't want my young companion judged by his peers so I keep my distance.

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marylander1940 Grand Master

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Any of you?

 

Or maybe some clients who know who do it?

 

*Public Displays of Affection

 

If a client wants to do it, is up to the escort to do it or not.

 

If I was an escort I would rather do PDA instead of a lot of other naughty things in private...

 

One of my most terrifying experiences was walking down 5'th Ave on the way to a restaurant in Austin holding the hand of a guy I had hired. Ultimately exhilarating but I was literally sweating.

 

When was that?

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I would assume it all depends on client, escort and setting.

 

If I were at a restaurant, I wouldn't mind giving someone a peck or cheek kiss. However I wouldn't appreciate making out with someone as it would be disrespectful to other diners and those serving us.

 

If it were a night club, that's is very different situation,

 

Just think to yourself, what would be appropriate in the situation. Would you appreciate someone digging out each other's mouths while you are eating your steak vs see that occur at a night club. It is arbitrary based on social rules by our society.

 

Would it be disrespectful if a straight older guy would kiss a young girl in a restaurant?

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Public Displays of Affection

 

I'm sure it's as much from growing up in an uptight uber WASP culture as anything else, but PDA is always awkward for me. In fact, unless it's a funeral or wedding of a close relative, it's almost unnatural for me. Other than the few times that I made a fool of myself as a drunk (and usually high) twenty-something convincing a trick to come home with me from a gay bar, I've gotten a room.

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I would love to see answers from escorts who are known for their BFE mojo.

 

I've made out with my wife in public, but the last time was quite a few years ago because the social circles we move among now would see just displays as a sign of character weakness and likely negatively affect our careers, social standing, or whatever. We have no issues hand holding, hugging, or kissing in public.

 

Interestingly, I don't know how I'd respond with a guy. I certainly couldn't do anything in areas where I might possibly be seen by someone who would know me. If I were in BumFuckistan, maybe. If I felt safe and not surrounded by potentially violent homophobes.

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I think a furtive display of passion is infinitely more exciting than a public display of affection. One time, after dessert and cocktails with an escort at the Top of the Hub in Boston, the moment the elevator doors closed he grabbed my crotch and gave me a long, hard, wet kiss until the doors started to open again in the lobby. It took me totally by surprise and was an incredible turn-on that I still remember vividly.

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I'm not big on pda. A hug, light touching, a peck on the cheek I'm fine with. Of the working guys I see recurringly, Vin M and Tristan B are probably have been the most affectionate with me in public. Not including the make out session I had in my car with Chris E. after helping him move furniture one day. :p

 

Anyway, I wouldn't do crazy tongue down your throat or full on groping, but extended hugging, touching, and pecks on the cheek for pda is fine. I remember one time I picked Vin up from the airport. As I saw him walking toward me (after departing his plane) wearing a hoody and gray work out sweat shorts (the kind that's clingy)... all muscle and thick thighs. The first thing he did was embrace me (held me for a few minutes), kiss me on the check and said "Hello, baby." We did get some weird stares, but neither of us cared. He had a long flight... which was exacerbated by long delays. (We found out later they put his luggage on the wrong plane.) So when we saw each other neither us could contain our excitement. So we embraced probably longer than average.

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I wouldn't use the word disrespectful so lightly... out of place, juvenile or unusual might work better.

 

Yeah, I guess we understand hunter's meaning: I would avoid French kissing in a restaurant, straight or gay doesn't matter. Even if both are hot straight young people, in fact.

A little peck or 2 are fine, but I can hear some customers murmuring "get a room" if they get too "wet".

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MikeyGMin Experienced

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Hahhaha i love that Bar in Austin! On "dirty 6th" section i thought though.

6th Street is a trainwreck. Drunken tourists and college kids and general hetero riff-raff. We just had our annual "death by Sucker Punch" and the corresponding outrage over the drnken antics that occur there every single weekend.

 

Rule of thumb: Nothing good ever happens on 6th Street after midnight.

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