THERE IS A FIRST TIME FOR EVERYTHING

[+ José Soplanucas]

I mean, you're being a bit obtuse here. DC has gotten A LOT better over the past 10 years, but there's still areas I wouldn't venture into. The fact that you're over in Anacostia, which is getting better, but still has a terrible reputation for being very unsafe to this day. I've been in DC when 14th Street had hookers on every corner and Shaw was considered dangerous, but now it's yuppie heaven. Your part of town most people are still very wary about, especially young white people.

 

Now the fact that Tommy didn't call or text you until after the agreed time is unacceptable, so I agree he should be dinged on that and he should looked up where you live or called you when he got to your area and told you before the appointment. I still think he chose the right thing for himself (if he wasn't lying) that he didn't put himself in a situation where he did not feel comfortable being in.

 

I know where I live. If he actually got to my place, he could not have seen anything dangerous or threatening, because there is none. Right now, my guess is he never made it to my place and just made that lame excuse.

[natmas02]

I know where I live. If he actually got to my place, he could not have seen anything dangerous or threatening, because there is none. Right now, my guess is he never made it to my place and just made that lame excuse.

 

It doesn't matter how you feel about your area, if the general public still deems it as an "unsafe" neighborhood. Tommy doesn't live there, so how would he know? If a friend of mine were to ask me about areas on the other side of the Anacostia, I really would warn them to be wary of where they are going.

 

If he wasn't lying, then I still think he did the right thing for himself. He should have just told you before the appointment to not waste your time.

[+ José Soplanucas]

It doesn't matter how you feel about your area, if the general public still deems it as an "unsafe" neighborhood. Tommy doesn't live there, so how would he know? If a friend of mine were to ask me about areas on the other side of the Anacostia, I really would warn them to be wary of where they are going.

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That is exactly why I think he never made it to my place and just lied. If he did not know the city and he actually drove to my place, he would not have seen any threatening signs. He would have parked and walked to my place.

But he does not know the city. So probably somebody he was with (he changed the time of our appointment three times during two hours) told him my address was in a bad neighborhood and he decided to stay doing whatever he was doing without giving me a courtesy call and canceling.

[natmas02]

I mean, you're just reiterating my point that Tommy did the best thing for himself - he didn't put himself in a situation where he felt uncomfortable being in. We wouldn't want that as clients, so I expect escorts feel exactly the same way.

 

Ding him all you want for his lack of communication - I'm in complete agreeance with you that he deserves getting flak for wasting your time, but I suspect that this post would still exist even if he did tell you in advance that he wasn't comfortable going to your neighborhood. I don't blame him for not wanting to go to your neck of the woods. I'm sure your neighborhood is just fine, but the general public in DC still views your areas as sketchy, so he followed through with what he felt was in his best interest.

[Ryanquinn]

He did not call me when he arrived. I called him when it was 30 minutes after the time and got his report.

 

 

What is a "normal" neighborhood? Only middle class neighborhoods are "normal"? I live in a condo building in a blue collar neighborhood. Town houses and apartment buildings, a corner store in my corner, a police precinct in the other. I have lived here for 12 years now. I have been parking my car in the street for 10 years now, I never get robbed or broken in. There are not groups hanging out in the sidewalks and in the corner store. I know many of my neighbors, working class families. There are no projects. It is a humble neighborhood, nut it is not unsafe and there are not visible threads.

The only thread for Tommy seems to be he saw a lot of Black people and no Whites.

Sounds like he did you a favor. What a prissy d!ck.

[marylander1940]

I had an appointment with Tommy Reagan today. The communication was challenging. 30 minutes after the agreed time he texts me he did not walk out of his car because he felt unsafe in my neighborhood.

 

I mean, you're just reiterating my point that Tommy did the best thing for himself - he didn't put himself in a situation where he felt uncomfortable being in. We wouldn't want that as clients, so I expect escorts feel exactly the same way.

 

Ding him all you want for his lack of communication - I'm in complete agreeance with you that he deserves getting flak for wasting your time, but I suspect that this post would still exist even if he did tell you in advance that he wasn't comfortable going to your neighborhood. I don't blame him for not wanting to go to your neck of the woods. I'm sure your neighborhood is just fine, but the general public in DC still views your areas as sketchy, so he followed through with what he felt was in his best interest.

 

Tommy 30 mins after the agreed time told him he wasn't going to show up.

 

One more time: if he had driven to his neighborhood, he could have told him: "I'm parked yet in the car, come pick me up, I'm scared of your neighbors"

[natmas02]

Tommy 30 mins after the agreed time told him he wasn't going to show up.

 

One more time: if he had driven to his neighborhood, he could have told him: "I'm parked yet in the car, come pick me up, I'm scared of your neighbors"

 

Again, there's nowhere in my post that excused him for his lack of communication. I am in complete agreeance that the fact he did not communicate his issues, especially well after the agreed meeting time, was unacceptable

 

One more time: if he did not feel safe in that neighborhood, whether or not you have an unknown client coming to get him, then it's in his best interest to not put himself in an area that he does not feel comfortable in.

[marylander1940]

Again, there's nowhere in my post that excused him for his lack of communication. I am in complete agreeance that the fact he did not communicate his issues, especially well after the agreed meeting time, was unacceptable

 

One more time: if he did not feel safe in that neighborhood, whether or not you have an unknown client coming to get him, then it's in his best interest to not put himself in an area that he does not feel comfortable in.

 

we think he didn't even make it there.

[natmas02]

we think he didn't even make it there.

 

You will never know. Regardless, that part of DC/Maryland still does not have a good reputation as being a safe area, regardless of current gentrification. Sucks if he lied, but he could also driven through some not so nice parts to get where OP lived, and decided that either the client or area could put him in a compromising situation.

 

Tommy has a general good reputation, with an issue of being a flake twice, reported on these forums. If he truthfully, did not feel right in going to where OP lived, then it's pretty shitty of you guys to call him a racist prick, etc because he did not want to be in a situation or area that he did not feel comfortable being in. Escorts have just as much as right to feel safe and comfortable just like clients do.

[+ José Soplanucas]

You will never know. Regardless, that part of DC/Maryland still does not have a good reputation as being a safe area, regardless of current gentrification. Sucks if he lied, but he could also driven through some not so nice parts to get where OP lived, and decided that either the client or area could put him in a compromising situation.

 

Tommy has a general good reputation, with an issue of being a flake twice, reported on these forums. If he truthfully, did not feel right in going to where OP lived, then it's pretty shitty of you guys to call him a racist prick, etc because he did not want to be in a situation or area that he did not feel comfortable being in. Escorts have just as much as right to feel safe and comfortable just like clients do.

 

You are right about the racist thing. I apologize for that. I was frustrated, upset because of the situation, and I was not thinking clear. So I withdraw that comment. I do still stand for what I wrote in post #29.

You do not know the whole context of the story, something is not good about that kid.

By the way, I am not going to repeat in public the information I m receiving in private, but his reputation is not so clean as you think it is.

Anyway, my thoughts are now with Eli and XL.

[natmas02]

You are right about the racist thing. I apologize for that. I was frustrated, upset because of the situation, and I was not thinking clear. So I withdraw that comment. I do still stand for what I wrote in post #29.

You do not know the whole context of the story, something is not good about that kid.

By the way, I am not going to repeat in public the information I m receiving in private, but his reputation is not so clean as you think it is.

Anyway, my thoughts are now with Eli and XL.

 

I don't blame you for being upset, it is your time being wasted and when it comes to these arrangements, it can be extremely hard to find a replacement. I haven't had a chance to meet up with Tommy because I personally do not like hosting, but I hear good things about him as being an escort. I don't care about his personal life just as long as it doesn't harm me or if it effects his behavior or puts me in a compromising position if I were to spend time with him in the future. His personal life is his personal life.

 

I hope you wouldn't repeat private information about him if it's about his personal life. Grill him all you want as an escort, but if has private, personal issues he's going through, then that is his business. Discretion works both ways in this business, even though a lot of you seem to think otherwise.

[marylander1940]

You will never know. Regardless, that part of DC/Maryland still does not have a good reputation as being a safe area, regardless of current gentrification. Sucks if he lied, but he could also driven through some not so nice parts to get where OP lived, and decided that either the client or area could put him in a compromising situation.

 

Tommy has a general good reputation, with an issue of being a flake twice, reported on these forums. If he truthfully, did not feel right in going to where OP lived, then it's pretty shitty of you guys to call him a racist prick, etc because he did not want to be in a situation or area that he did not feel comfortable being in. Escorts have just as much as right to feel safe and comfortable just like clients do.

 

I never called him a racist prick.

 

Once a flake, twice a flake = always a flake.

[natmas02]

I never called him a racist prick.

 

Once a flake, twice a flake = always a flake.

 

OP called him racist.I know it's hard to understand nuance over text, but you should assume if I'm commenting or replying to certain things in my posts that you are not saying, that I'm making comments on other people's responses. Unlike the fact that you made a point to reply to me commenting that he was 30 minutes over his meeting time, even though there was nowhere in my posts that excused that behavior.

[marylander1940]

OP called him racist.I know it's hard to understand nuance over text, but you should assume if I'm commenting or replying to certain things in my posts that you are not saying, that I'm making comments on other people's responses. Unlike the fact that you made a point to reply to me commenting that he was 30 minutes over his meeting time, even though there was nowhere in my posts that excused that behavior.

 

I'm aware of it... I was just saying I didn't call him that.

 

Please take it easy!

[natmas02]

I'm aware of it... I was just saying I didn't call him that.

 

Please take it easy!

 

I can say the same for you, you were being a bit pointed in your replies earlier.

 

It's not a big deal either way, we're all here to help each other with information.

[+ José Soplanucas]

It looks like I am having problems with porn stars.

I will invest my bucks in the local talent.

[natmas02]

It looks like I am having problems with porn stars.

I will invest my bucks in the local talent.

 

The funny thing is - he IS local. I think he's based out in Virginia. I personally think he's one of the better looking local escorts here (for my taste, anyway). We got slim pickings in DC. Got a lot of visiting escorts though.

[+ José Soplanucas]

The funny thing is - he IS local. I think he's based out in Virginia. I personally think he's one of the better looking local escorts here (for my taste, anyway). We got slim pickings in DC. Got a lot of visiting escorts though.

 

I do find him attractive, and I like his performances in porn. It is very unfortunate this has happened. I wanted some cream in my coffee but the God I don't believe in said no, and sent me Eli.

 

http://24.media.tumblr.com/5d46e29828ddf2406d753d78cc6025d0/tumblr_muox38PeWS1sums1wo1_500.gif

[marylander1940]

It looks like I am having problems with porn stars.

I will invest my bucks in the local talent.

 

A "wise" poster once said they were over appreciated...

[marylander1940]

I can say the same for you, you were being a bit pointed in your replies earlier.

 

It's not a big deal either way, we're all here to help each other with information.

 

Exactly, we're helping each other on here.

[+ oldNbusted]

As I've said in other threads about escorts, Tommy Regan is a grown man and this is an open forum, he can come here and speak for himself, if he cares to.

[big-n-tall]

As I've said in other threads about escorts, Tommy Regan is a grown man and this is an open forum, he can come here and speak for himself, if he cares to.

 

He can if he wanted. He is a member of the forum. He's been so for a bit.

[+ oldNbusted]

He can if he wanted. He is a member of the forum. He's been so for a bit.

 

Thanks for the heads up, if I had realized I would have mentioned @Tommy Regan by handle, so I'll do it now,

[natmas02]

It's really not that big of a deal guys. Tommy no-showed because he didn't feel safe and he made a big error in not contacting his client. OP found a replacement that he really enjoyed. Tommy missed out on making some money and having a reliable client and has a nick on his reputation on these forums. That's it.

[BabyBoomer]

Tommy missed out on making some money and having a reliable client and has a nick on his reputation on these forums. That's it.

 

He also stood up @Truereview back in 2015.

 

~Boomer ~