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LoveNDino Grand Master

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Yes, that's a nice thought, but I couldn't be so aggressive. It'll work out. I'm really not averse to spending my first time talking.

You better do more than just talk! Do it for all of us. No presh! But seriously, if the escort is any good, he's going to want you to come back for more!

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I could not be that forward.

 

Yes, that's a nice thought, but I couldn't be so aggressive. It'll work out. I'm really not averse to spending my first time talking.

 

Shoot! While a pre-session discussion to break the ice is always a good first time thing as that will help the escort know your headspace, I can guarantee when you see him in front of you talking will be the last freaking thing on your mind! Plas, as I ssid the good ones will know what you NEED and make it happen. Damn just thinking about what might happen... well it's getting me... gotta run now... talk more later...

 

Yeah that's it save most of the the talk for later... plus talk is cheap... and these guys are pros... let him show you what he's got and then let it flow naturally. You will walk outta there feeling like a a super hero ready to conquer the world! Of that I'm sure!!!!

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I would tell him prior to your meeting that you're shy and inexperienced and that you are very open to any verbal or physical suggestions that will help make this a fulfilling, intimate, memorable experience.

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Okay... I'm an upfront guy, and I posted this before. I was so scared my first time... of course it was for a BDSM session... that I canceled saying that there was a problem with my schedule! I then had a totally empty feeling and knew that I did the wrong thing. I contacted the escort what on would have been the day of the appointment and fortunately he was not able to pencil anyone else in. He knew I was terrified and put me totally at ease. The rest is history...

 

Believe me the empty feeling was worse than any nervousness that I had experienced. So deep six the nerves!

 

Now off to attend to something... finally... ;)

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As i said before, be clean (don't use deodorant!!!!), brush your teeth, comb your hair, put on your genuine smile. These guys know what to do to relax you if they know your are shy and inexperienced. Just let it flow. But don't waste it - let him move you to the bed, or just make out a bit on the couch or even while you are standing at the door (I love to do that!). Ask him if he minds if you undress him, slowly - that will get a rise out of you both.

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As i said before, be clean (don't use deodorant!!!!), brush your teeth, comb your hair, put on your genuine smile. These guys know what to do to relax you if they know your are shy and inexperienced. Just let it flow. But don't waste it - let him move you to the bed, or just make out a bit on the couch or even while you are standing at the door (I love to do that!). Ask him if he minds if you undress him, slowly - that will get a rise out of you both.

Oooh, hot!

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I hope this is the right forum. My apologies to admin if it is wrong. I hate to ask a question that has been answered ad nauseam here, but I cannot find the excellent threads that were posted about the subject before. At the time, I didn't think I would need the info, but it seems as though one of the two guys I felt I could spend some time w/comfortably is coming to Atlanta. I’d hate to screw this up. What is the protocol re: contents of email vs. phone call? Text should be rates for time spent and phone call should discuss mutually agreed upon activities? During the phone calls, are you very detailed?

 

Again, I am very sorry for the repetition.

 

Thank you!

 

You do not need to apologize. I guess it is always good to be kind, and opening with an apology a post you think may be repetitive is always good. But you do not need to also close your post with another apology. It sounds like you are afraid of pissing someone and you should not be. I apologize if we the veterans now and then overreact to new members, but it is our bad, not yours.

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As i said before, be clean (don't use deodorant!!!!), brush your teeth, comb your hair, put on your genuine smile. These guys know what to do to relax you if they know your are shy and inexperienced. Just let it flow. But don't waste it - let him move you to the bed, or just make out a bit on the couch or even while you are standing at the door (I love to do that!). Ask him if he minds if you undress him, slowly - that will get a rise out of you both.

 

I'll add that you should allocate enough time to thoroughly douche so that you are prepared for all eventualities. The ritual tasks of preparing for the encounter will put you in the right mindset. Also being prepared builds confidence.

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I'll add that you should allocate enough time to thoroughly douche so that you are prepared for all eventualities. The ritual tasks of preparing for the encounter will put you in the right mindset. Also being prepared builds confidence.

You should start an instructional thread on how to douche. I'd like to learn!

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As i said before, be clean (don't use deodorant!!!!), brush your teeth, comb your hair, put on your genuine smile. These guys know what to do to relax you if they know your are shy and inexperienced. Just let it flow. But don't waste it - let him move you to the bed, or just make out a bit on the couch or even while you are standing at the door (I love to do that!). Ask him if he minds if you undress him, slowly - that will get a rise out of you both.

 

I will be clean and pressed but there is no way I'm initiating anything physical. It's really ok w/me if I don't have sex.

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I would tell him prior to your meeting that you're shy and inexperienced and that you are very open to any verbal or physical suggestions that will help make this a fulfilling, intimate, memorable experience.

He knows. I think I've somehow misled you all. I'm not a virgin by any stretch of the imagination. I've just never hired.

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You do not need to apologize. I guess it is always good to be kind, and opening with an apology a post you think may be repetitive is always good. But you do not need to also close your post with another apology. It sounds like you are afraid of pissing someone and you should not be. I apologize if we the veterans now and then overreact to new members, but it is our bad, not yours.

No one here has treated me poorly. I just want to be sure I'm following the rules.

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