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Given how many gay men are in SF and how many escorts there seem to be, I'm surprised at how few postings there are for SF.

 

Here's what I'm looking for: I'm a very fit, middle aged bottom who (like so many of us) likes hot fit confident men with oversized genitalia. They should be able to hold a conversation and not be pretending to be tops, but to top from within (i.e. they were born to be aggressive), if you know what I mean. No drugs, no smoking, safe fucking.

 

If you've had experience in SF with someone who fits the above description, please let me know!

Lance_Navarro Proficient

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While I respect your feelings about what constitutes a "true top", I don't feel that aggressiveness is a component. To me, a good top knows when to be gentle and also when they can get more rough, and they also know what it's like to be on the other side. I top probably 90% of the time, but also have plenty of experience as a bottom. My experience as a bottom doesn't make me less of a top, and in fact it makes me a better top.

MPF_1966 Rising Star

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I do like the looks of MarkAlexander:):)

I have always wanted to try Mark Alexander. My one concern is that many of his pics are 10 years old and his advertised age has not changed much in the past decade either.

MPF_1966 Rising Star

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While I respect your feelings about what constitutes a "true top", I don't feel that aggressiveness is a component. To me, a good top knows when to be gentle and also when they can get more rough, and they also know what it's like to be on the other side. I top probably 90% of the time, but also have plenty of experience as a bottom. My experience as a bottom doesn't make me less of a top, and in fact it makes me a better top.

I suspect you are quite good at being a top.

HornyRetiree Mentor

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I have always wanted to try Mark Alexander. My one concern is that many of his pics are 10 years old and his advertised age has not changed much in the past decade either.

 

Guess I would have to ask for updated pic & info

LaffingBear Veteran

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There are very few true tops in San Francisco. The fog that rolls in each evening contains a mix of naturally occurring elements that:

  • Enourage tolerance
  • Make people self indulgent
  • Dampen routine and exacerbate unusual behaviors - the less mainstream the fetish, the more its stimulated by the fog, and
  • Convert 8 of every 10 tops into bottoms.

LaffingBear Veteran

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Given how many gay men are in SF and how many escorts there seem to be, I'm surprised at how few postings there are for SF.

 

Years ago, many escorts told me that SF was a horrible place for business. Perhaps thats still true.

Lance_Navarro Proficient

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Years ago, many escorts told me that SF was a horrible place for business. Perhaps thats still true.

 

It's my home and I'm busy enough to pay the bills and live comfortably. Of course I am more busy when I travel, but I think that is true for all.

Lou Smith Newbie

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So I posted the original ad:

 

1. Has anyone ever actually been with Mark Alexander? Ad does look great, but I agree, I've seen it before a few years ago.

2. James Rockhard looks handsome and hot, but as the poster above noted, genitalia looks rather...modest. (I've never paid for an escort, but if I'm gonna do so, I'll get in touch with my inner size queen.)

3. So NO ONE has experience with a great top escort in SF????

Funguy Grand Master

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Tho I'm not in SF, I can say that I have had experience with a great top who does live in SF, as stated above: Lance Navarro.

But, if you don't hire him that will leave him free to come down to my neck of the woods more often!

Lance_Navarro Proficient

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Tho I'm not in SF, I can say that I have had experience with a great top who does live in SF, as stated above: Lance Navarro.

But, if you don't hire him that will leave him free to come down to my neck of the woods more often!

 

Thanks for that hun! You make it so easy for me to love what I do. Unfortunately it seems, by the nature of the OP's comments, that to be versatile means I'm not a "true top". Oh well, more for you! ;)

Funguy Grand Master

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So I posted ... (I've never paid for an escort, but if I'm gonna do so, I'll get in touch with my inner size queen.)

3. So NO ONE has experience with a great top escort in SF????

 

I think that the OP just needs to open his eyes: just as in BDSM, often times the best Doms are those who have experience as Subs, the best Tops are often those who have experience as Bottoms.

As a bottom I have been with some escorts who are dedicated tops and some who are versatile and the experiences are significantly different!

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I am not sure if they qualify as tops for this poster's definition of a top but Steve Stacks, Nate Bruno and Meta Top, all of whom advertise on Rentmen, have fucked me long and hard. Each was very enjoyable in his own way.

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Given how many gay men are in SF and how many escorts there seem to be, I'm surprised at how few postings there are for SF.

 

Here's what I'm looking for: I'm a very fit, middle aged bottom who (like so many of us) likes hot fit confident men with oversized genitalia. They should be able to hold a conversation and not be pretending to be tops, but to top from within (i.e. they were born to be aggressive), if you know what I mean. No drugs, no smoking, safe fucking.

 

If you've had experience in SF with someone who fits the above description, please let me know!

 

True tops?

 

Thanks for that hun! You make it so easy for me to love what I do. Unfortunately it seems, by the nature of the OP's comments, that to be versatile means I'm not a "true top". Oh well, more for you! ;)

 

Best tops are the ones who every now and then bottom... A good top needs to know how it feels being in the other side to perfect his technique.

 

www.rentmen.com/brettholt

 

https://rentmen.com/TopSFstud

LaffingBear Veteran

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Depending on the week you're looking, and who's in town...

 

Your best choice might be drinks, dinner, or Sunday brunch at the TOP Of The Markthe-top-of-the-mark.jpg http://s3.amazonaws.com/trippy-media/54230a34e4b0eafc719cc63e_pm9.jpg?0

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