Is escort playing me?

[+ José Soplanucas]

wow. 23 years old? This "kid" looks older than I do, and I am 54.

[+ HornyRetiree]

LOL -- if it is, he will be kept busy as everyone clicks your links and checks him out !!!!

 

Had mail this morning in my rentmen acct

[Jose305]

Thanks guys for all your input. I'm green to all this and since you read bad shit about escorts throughout these forums you become apprehensive. I know who wrote the lengthy reply here and he is the one who recommended this escort to me. I know you're protective of him. This was not an attack on him. This is by no means a "bad review" of him at all, in fact he's a wonderful guy. I don't know much about his personal life and that he's in such a financial hardship - I have no idea. Since I don't have another point of reference I asked this question.

[Mount N Do]

Thanks guys for all your input. I'm green to all this and since you read bad shit about escorts throughout these forums you become apprehensive. I know who wrote the lengthy reply here and he is the one who recommended this escort to me. I know you're protective of him. This was not an attack on him. This is by no means a "bad review" of him at all, in fact he's a wonderful guy. I don't know much about his personal life and that he's in such a financial hardship - I have no idea. Since I don't have another point of reference I asked this question.

All good brother. Like I said, genuinely didn't want to come off as harsh, just offering a little perspective. And without knowing the balance in his checking account, I wouldn't characterize his situation as dire. Kid Is gainfully employed but just had unexpected expenses recently. The point really is that, and I personally apply this to life in general, when one is in the position to help someone who has served you well, throw them a bone. That's all...

[+ WilliamM]

I don't know much about his personal life and that he's in such a financial hardship - I have no idea. Since I don't have another point of reference I asked this question.

 

Even though you have more information, a client should never feel obligated to help financially.

[+ goosh69]

Yeah. In my post I was saying I never have such FREQUENT texts from escorts, but many escorts do bug me to see them again. It's fine but hey they want money just like when you get emails from companies that want you to buy stuff.

[MiamiLooker]

...a client should never feel obligated to help financially.

I agree. Nor should a client feel obligated to promote an escort.

[instudiocity]

Yeah. In my post I was saying I never have such FREQUENT texts from escorts, but many escorts do bug me to see them again. It's fine but hey they want money just like when you get emails from companies that want you to buy stuff.

I purchased my cat's drugs online at 800-Pet-Meds. I bought a year's supply of the only drug my pet needs.

 

I marked the box for do not send me email offers. In the last two weeks, I have had 7 emails encouraging me to buy again before the 15% off discount expires. I only needed the one 'script and now I'm set for a year. But 800-Pet-Meds is still petitioning me TO SAVE MONEY! I recognize that saving money by their definition is my paying 85% of what they normally charge for the same products, but I don't need any for about 15 more months.

 

I said all this to say, every provider of goods and services needs more $ale$ and who better to ask to buy more than those who have already bought, identifying themselves as patrons. That's why I made reference to the first of the month and rent coming due. Ask yourself, "Where can I find extra money?" If you put yourself in the position of a young male escort, you'll answer, "From the men who already know and like me."

 

Reading anything more into this escort's behavior is just assigning your perspectives to another's actions. You aren't being honest if you can't see that you're imposing your fears, perspectives and assumptions onto another person.

 

@Jose305, you wrote, "I'm green to all this and since you read bad shit about escorts throughout these forums you become apprehensive." What you really meant to say is "... since I read bad shit about escorts throughout the forums." Sorry, you missed a huge part of the forum and all the good shit about escorts.

[Mount N Do]

I agree. Nor should a client feel obligated to promote an escort.

I agree as well. I think the key words are "feel obligated".

[Mount N Do]

I agree. Nor should a client feel obligated to promote an escort.

And isn't that what we do here really? Escorts are frequently promoted or exposed as the case may be. Much as if we were on a dining forum. Safe to say that we would promote a fine restaurant if they deserved it, without feeling obligated. Now... if an escort request that I "like them on Facebook", that would feel like an obligation.

[UpDownUnder]

Actually I had great time with him was planning definitely see again but was not expecting this type of communication so fast afterwards and the tinge of desperation of wanting to meet so fast again. He's a "niche" escort for he's a bearish hairy cub type guy and probably doesn't attract a wider mainstream clients so maybe making less money - saw me who likes his type and Ching Ching $$$

 

Based on your description of the escort being a niche provider, he may not be getting a ton of business and so may be particularly appreciative to have gotten your business and is just hoping to drum up some more - maybe because money is tight, maybe because he likes you as a client, maybe a combo of the two, or maybe some other reason. Putting aside the issue of his follow up calls making you a bit uncomfortable, I'm not sure that I'd necessarily view them as being an attempt to "play" you. Now if he starts sending you links to his Amazon wishlist, that's likely another story.

[Jose305]

I'm pretty good at reading people and this guy didn't give me the "con artist" vibe.

I just wanted to know if this quick contact from an escort was something common or something you guys experienced.

Just an FYI, I live in South Florida (Miami) we are known as ground zero for fraud and a haven for con artists so I'm naturally suspicious. No doubt if I received an Amazon wishlist link immediately - he will be long gone - I'm also on Twitter and tons of gay porn stars have Amazon wishlist links in the profiles but that's a different story :D lol

[+ HornyRetiree]

I have looked at his rentmen page and communicated with him and I look forward to seeing him on my way to Key West next Jan or Feb (2018) -- I don't consider him a niche provider but then I like young slender Otters and borderline Cubs --- I expect to have a grand time.

[+ WilliamM]

I just wanted to know if this quick contact from an escort was something common or something you guys experienced

 

I have never experienced it unless I have asked the guy to call me. Put me down as surprised by his bothering you.

[nynakedtop]

I have never experienced it unless I have asked the guy to call me. Put me down as surprised by his bothering you.

There is a real difference from a polite thank-you-I'd-like-to-see-you again.... and being stalked and/or spammed by a casual acquaintance. I sincerely appreciate the former... a just get weirded out by the latter! (reference the situation I alluded to earlier on in this thread...)

[Jose305]

I have looked at his rentmen page and communicated with him and I look forward to seeing him on my way to Key West next Jan or Feb (2018) -- I don't consider him a niche provider but then I like young slender Otters and borderline Cubs --- I expect to have a grand time.

Good for you:cool: