Rimming reciprocity

[+ Steve yabsley]

a motto for many quality (professional / talented) Top guy escorts - "eat it, then fuck it"

 

I like those with this motto......

[BaronArtz]

This is purely coincidental, and with the risk of appearing politically incorrect, I find that black escorts (and black gay men, in general) are more eager and far better at rimming than anybody else ...

 

I don't know why that is, but it is my observation sleeping around in NYC for the past 20 years.

[Chuckball]

I love getting rimmed. But I am always worried that I may not be perfectly clean. I always shower before meeting an escort but I think I would be totally humiliated if my escort told me I had a problem. So I just never ask.

[handiacefailure]

She says, " you sort of whisper with your hot breath into his ear and say, "turn around" to do it."

If you want it done to you, just turn around and spread 'em. If it's a no-go, he'll tell you; otherwise, hang onto your cheeks and moan.

 

I'll have to try that next time lol.

[TruthBTold]

I love to rim and like several people here can do it for hours. What I do just to make sure that everything is A-OK in the cleanliness department is to get close by paying attention (licking, very light biting) to the butt and taint areas and if they seem clean then I just go for the gold. I start out superficial and then get my tongue deeper and deeper into the act. At some point I get the guy to help me by pulling his cheeks apart, both because it lets me get in deeper and because they seem to like being part of the process. If, however, I do the initial process and I think, "No way my tongue is going anywhere near that," I then do the superficial act of licking/biting and then just take my hard cock and rub it against his hole (by this time it is always hard). If he then asks me to do it I simply say, "Not today, baby." It seems to make it more about my desire for the day rather than anything about him. I always clean myself for the encounter because I figure he has a somewhat similar routine. Even if I didn't want to be rimmed (which I always do) I can't see a reason not to be clean. I assume you are going to be near that area one way or another.

 

This is purely coincidental, and with the risk of appearing politically incorrect, I find that black escorts (and black gay men, in general) are more eager and far better at rimming than anybody else . I don't know why that is, but it is my observation sleeping around in NYC for the past 20 years.

 

I don't live in NYC but nonetheless where I do live black guys tend to have really, really nice butts and the ones that I have been fortunate enough to hook up with have really, really liked to get rimmed. I mean that as a compliment so I hope it is not politically incorrect. Just my lucky, lucky experience. As a matter of fact, in general, when a white gentlemen has a tight, round, full butt they are always compared to a black gentleman as a compliment. Also, as you note, when they are the rimmer, for some reason they have been really, really adept. Not sure if that is because they had more ability to practice or if again I have just been lucky in that regard.

[TruthBTold]

I love to rim and like several people here can do it for hours. What I do just to make sure that everything is A-OK in the cleanliness department is to get close by paying attention (licking, very light biting) to the butt and taint areas and if they seem clean then I just go for the gold. I start out superficial and then get my tongue deeper and deeper into the act. At some point I get the guy to help me by pulling his cheeks apart, both because it lets me get in deeper and because they seem to like being part of the process. If, however, I do the initial process and I think, "No way my tongue is going anywhere near that," I then do the superficial act of licking/biting and then just take my hard cock and rub it against his hole (by this time it is always hard). If he then asks me to do it I simply say, "Not today, baby." It seems to make it more about my desire for the day rather than anything about him. I always clean myself for the encounter because I figure he has a somewhat similar routine. Even if I didn't want to be rimmed (which I always do) I can't see a reason not to be clean. I assume you are going to be near that area one way or another.

 

This is purely coincidental, and with the risk of appearing politically incorrect, I find that black escorts (and black gay men, in general) are more eager and far better at rimming than anybody else . I don't know why that is, but it is my observation sleeping around in NYC for the past 20 years.

 

I don't live in NYC but nonetheless where I do live black guys tend to have really, really nice butts and the ones that I have been fortunate enough to hook up with have really, really liked to get rimmed. I mean that as a compliment so I hope it is not politically incorrect. Just my lucky, lucky experience. As a matter of fact, in general, when a white gentlemen has a tight, round, full butt they are always compared to a black gentleman as a compliment. Also, as you note, when they are the rimmer, for some reason they have been really, really adept. Not sure if that is because they had more ability to practice or if again I have just been lucky in that regard.

[LADoug1]

I enjoy a nice butt and never ask for reciprocity. But would like to know of escorts who enjoy reciprocating with clients. Thank you for your response!

If you're looking for specific recommendations you might want to post this thread in The Deli.

[LADoug1]

I enjoy a nice butt and never ask for reciprocity. But would like to know of escorts who enjoy reciprocating with clients. Thank you for your response!

If you're looking for specific recommendations you might want to post this thread in The Deli.

[+ Keith30309]

I would gladly help you out.

 

Love to give and receive - kissing after isn't a problem at all.

 

@OliverSaks , @AlexThomas & [uSER=12528]@FTM_Twink[/uSER] - since you went there.... do you automatically assume that a client would enjoy it or do you wait to be asked? (assuming a client has just stepped out of a long, thorough shower and there's no hygiene anxiety)?

[+ Keith30309]

I would gladly help you out.

 

Love to give and receive - kissing after isn't a problem at all.

 

@OliverSaks , @AlexThomas & [uSER=12528]@FTM_Twink[/uSER] - since you went there.... do you automatically assume that a client would enjoy it or do you wait to be asked? (assuming a client has just stepped out of a long, thorough shower and there's no hygiene anxiety)?

[+ OliverSaks]

@OliverSaks , @AlexThomas & [uSER=12528]@FTM_Twink[/uSER] - since you went there.... do you automatically assume that a client would enjoy it or do you wait to be asked? (assuming a client has just stepped out of a long, thorough shower and there's no hygiene anxiety)?

I usually go based on feel, starting with oral, moving to balls, then downward if I get the feeling they would like to go there.

 

Many people will mention it beforehand during our initial contacts, which is very helpful.

[+ OliverSaks]

@OliverSaks , @AlexThomas & [uSER=12528]@FTM_Twink[/uSER] - since you went there.... do you automatically assume that a client would enjoy it or do you wait to be asked? (assuming a client has just stepped out of a long, thorough shower and there's no hygiene anxiety)?

I usually go based on feel, starting with oral, moving to balls, then downward if I get the feeling they would like to go there.

 

Many people will mention it beforehand during our initial contacts, which is very helpful.

[handiacefailure]

If you're looking for specific recommendations you might want to post this thread in The Deli.

 

Do you have a link to the thread. Would love recinebxatuons in escorts that Re into this and good at it:).

[handiacefailure]

If you're looking for specific recommendations you might want to post this thread in The Deli.

 

Do you have a link to the thread. Would love recinebxatuons in escorts that Re into this and good at it:).

[AlexThomas]

@OliverSaks , @AlexThomas & [uSER=12528]@FTM_Twink[/uSER] - since you went there.... do you automatically assume that a client would enjoy it or do you wait to be asked? (assuming a client has just stepped out of a long, thorough shower and there's no hygiene anxiety)?

 

I usually wait and see what happens, some clients will ask me to, others will ask me if i like to get rimmed. Thats when i will ask if they also enjoy it. Some clients will just go straight for my ass and I will just play with theirs while they go to town. Start with a finger or two move into tongue and lips eventually eating if their body language tells me yes. I am usually pretty good at reading body language so I use that to my advantage on whatever the encounter may be.

[LADoug1]

I always have escorts who love receiving AND giving, and kissing. We are always both clean and tasteless (well, you know what I mean).

 

Hopefully Miss Manners and Emily Post would find your proclivity quite tasteful.

[+ glennnn]

You swallow his cock, roll him up on his shoulders to lick his taint, then just naturally start to eat the next thing you find- his asshole. Just like A, B, C, or 1, 2, 3. Nothing could be easier.....Or more fun.

[MartyB]

This is purely coincidental, and with the risk of appearing politically incorrect, I find that black escorts (and black gay men, in general) are more eager and far better at rimming than anybody else ...

 

I don't know why that is, but it is my observation sleeping around in NYC for the past 20 years.

You are absolutely correct. I love to rim but I make sure I'm absolutely clean when I see my current escort because he reciprocates. It's not a deal breaker if we don't rim but when the mood and hunger sets in its awesome. It seems that once we rim we go straight to fucking. I can't remember if we kiss. LOL

[AndreFuture]

@OliverSaks , @AlexThomas & [uSER=12528]@FTM_Twink[/uSER] - since you went there.... do you automatically assume that a client would enjoy it or do you wait to be asked? (assuming a client has just stepped out of a long, thorough shower and there's no hygiene anxiety)?

 

I usually wait for a suggestion/sign that that's what he wants. Sometimes, I lick the taint or around the hole and see what kind of reaction I get. If there's no reaction, I don't go any further. But if there is...

[ChrisWydeman]

When an escort lists rimming under preferences is the assumption he is willing to perform rimming or just receive it?

When in doubt ask your escort :-)

[SuperJunior]

My experience is that the ratio of receivers to givers is about 90/10.

 

"Some men see a world of butts as they are and ask Why Rim. I dream of a world of butts and ask Why Not Rim."

paraphrased

 

That's going on a t-shirt right now!

[+ tylerthebadwolf]

It is sorta on topic, and not on topic. I do love to rim, and I love getting rimed. But one of the best things I ever did was put in a bidet. U stay a whole lot cleaner

 

 

http://rs270.pbsrc.com/albums/jj91/ccll1957/trcp.gif~c200

HERO.

 

I wrote a whole thing about this. How to install a home sprayer/bidet is Part 2!

 

 

-t

[+ Funguy]

When in doubt ask your escort

 

You could put this on a t-shirt, too!

[+ WmClarke]

http://rs270.pbsrc.com/albums/jj91/ccll1957/trcp.gif~c200

HERO.

 

I wrote a whole thing about this. How to install a home sprayer/bidet is Part 2!

 

 

-t

When do we get part 2? Bought a bidet attachment but haven't installed it yet....

[MartyB]

I would gladly help you out.

 

Love to give and receive - kissing after isn't a problem at all.

My kind of man! I luv the smell of ass when it's clean of course. Its so hot. I don't rim for every escort but I do for the one I'm seeing now & he reciprocates. I'm a lucky man. Its a part of sex I never thought I would enjoy. Go figure.