Slumber Party -. First Overnight

[rvwnsd]

...I've observed before that some of the cleanout rituals detailed hereabouts sound like the year-long Purification of the Vestals at the Temple of Artemis.

 

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But ya gotta admit, the flower maidens are awesome chanters.

[MikeyGMin]

I wonder if most escorts welcome overnight bookings, apart from the fee of course. For the client it must be that they enjoy the guy's company as well as the sex but from the escort's point of view I wonder if they wouldn't prefer to sleep in their own home/hotel after the shenanigans are over. I've planned to book an overnight but it seems such a minefield of etiquette etc I'm not sure. I would hate to think he was wishing he was somewhere else!

I think you can tell a lot by how he prices the overnight. If the rate is pretty favorable (no more than four times his hourly rate) than he probably enjoys overnights more than someone who prices at five or more times his hourly rate. To me that's a signal they find overnights a bit stressful.

[kewtex]

Should I relax? YES!

 

Frankie says relax. Who knew a t-shirt slogan could offer such good advice?

[wisconsinguy]

I'm celebrating three years being with the same escort. He was my first escort as well as being my first male/male experience of any kind. Add to that, I started hiring late in life.

It's funny when you mention being "clean." I was so anxious I didn't have to worry about that. I spent a lot of time sitting on the porcelain throne day's before.

I started out hiring for extended weekends. I have never regretted it. You mentioned you like and respect the gentleman. Have you spent time with him? Someone gave me advice which I took.

1) Take a chance and put yourself in his hands and follow his lead.

2) I wouldn't think it would be 12 hrs of unending raucous sex?. I would think you would have time for the other things you would like.

3) Do think about talking with him and going over your concerns. I did and it helped.

4) As far as sleeping arrangements. I book a room with two beds. I tend to snore at intervals. So he ends up being more tolerant than me. He also likes to sleep much later than me. So, I usually go and get coffee and people watch.

5) In any encounter, it breaks down to being tolerant and somewhat intuitive for the other person.

6) And, don't forget to keep you sense of humor!!!

You certainly can PM if you'd like. Can share a few things and some laughs! WG2

[Mo Mason]

"...wake him from a sound sleep at 2:30 AM and shout "MAY I FONDLE YOU?"

 

This is considered awkward? I do this regularly...

 

No wonder I never get repeat overnights.

[escortrod]

This is considered awkward? I do this regularly...

 

No wonder I never get repeat overnights.

Nor allowed back to many hotels one would imagine.

[rvwnsd]

This is considered awkward? I do this regularly...

 

No wonder I never get repeat overnights.

It is only awkward if you shout. Nothing awkward if you simply start caressing very gently and work up to a full-fledged fondle.

[spider]

In terms of the question about escorts enjoying it. It certainly depends. I recently booked one with a guy I’ve been with for shorter sessions several times, and the immediate response of YESSSS!!! And a bunch of smiley faces makes me believe he’s into it!