Am I Being Too Sensitive?

[escortrod]

Again, you didn't understand and you still don't. Sigh...

My understanding was in line with Sync's. Maybe you could restate your point to help us slow learners understand properly.

[Eight by Six]

I'll be honest. The best escorts I've hired are trusting and don't count it.

I understand some escorts may be paranoid. I think lack of trust breeds lack of trust. Don't be offended though. It probably says more about him.

[+ friendofsheila]

Long time forum reader...first time poster.

 

Having hired many times over the past two years, I had something occur recently that I do know what to make of (since its never happened to me before).

 

Recently, at the conclusion of a first time meeting with a NYC escort, I gave him the envelope with his donation and he took it out and proceeded to count it right in front of me. I felt insulted by such behavior. Am I off base?

 

What do you think?

 

Hey, how has this gone for you on your hires since, RealNowhereman?

[LADoug1]

if the escort was smart, he should have asked to go to the bathroom before he left if he wanted to count it there privately

 

but the escort may have had prior bad experience before with money so we don't know. I mean it was his first time with you plus you can't see money in the envelope Im sure if you see him again he won't do it probably as you'll have some form of trust

 

I personally don't count the money as I like to believe everyone is honest, so I dont, I have been shorted before but very rarely.

 

I prefer the escort count the money in front of me. If they do it privately they might pocket some of it and then claim I short changed them.

Edited January 1, 2018 by LADoug1

[LADoug1]

Once I left an escort’s donation in my car. When it came time to leave I realized this. I left my wallet with him for his security and went and got the money. Didn’t want him to think I’d bail and not pay. He said the wallet was unnecessary but I insisted. I would never do this with a new hire but he was a repeat so I trusted him. In retrospect it was an incredibly stupid thing for me to do regardless of the situation.