How do you handle "let's discuss in person" escorts

[rvwnsd]

I've noticed an annoying trend in some escort ads.

 

The ads read something like this:

 

"Please text me to set up an appointment. Please do not mention anything sexual. My fee is for my time only. We can discuss the details and specifics in person when we meet."

 

What would do if you'd like to pursue this escort?

 

Well, that depends. I had a guy who's ad said something like "no explicit emails," but after a couple of pleasant emails I said "look, I don't want to waste your time or mine - how would you like to discuss what I'm looking for?" He said we could discuss via email, given we had exchanged a few emails already. Other times I just move on.

[Hungmixedboi88]

I am one of those who are more than happy to establish general compatibility, but if pressed with a "But will you fuck me for three hours non-stop and come three times?" I clarify that I charge only for my time. Nothing else is bought, negotiated or expected.

 

This is not a naive plot to keep law enforcement away, it's just a clear way to say that I am human being, that many factors enter the equation, that I will not promise, sell or negotiate sex acts or bodily fluids because the kind of service I provide is an organic, human, non-machinistic, intimate service. If my prospective client is looking for someone to piston for three hours and cum three times on cue as negotiated, then I urge him to look for a better match.

 

Of course, more often than not, when the prospective client books the session with me, honouring my human nature and my personal boundaries, it turns out that we can have an incredibly satisfying interaction.

 

But that's just the way I do it. There's many others.

I agree with this line of thinking and this is how I approach the situation as well. If both parties remembered more often that the client isn't just a green cash machine and the companion isn't just a pair of cock and ass sex machine then negative interactions and misunderstandings might not happen as much. We're all human here

 

I don't know if those statements in the ads are a loophole or not.

[robberbaron4u]

Over lunch. . .