Escorts & Blow Jobs

[TruHart1]

well sex wise, I want to make sure first the client is enjoying himself, so when he does, thats when I do too. I want to please them, but some clients no matter how much you want to please them, they just want to please you and see you get off hehe

As for the person, you can't know them much from one meeting, so overtime if I see them over and over again, we develop a bond and friendship and its more than just sex at that point. I'll be honest I developed little crushes on my regulars, especially one who I flirt with back and forth here and there when we are not meeting up .

 

utter bs...

 

I'm sorry to say, @GeorgeGG, you sound like a very unhappy client who cannot accept what the best escorts in the business can give you. Perhaps hiring is not for you if it is so unfulfilling for you. Everyone is different. Escorts are people too, so why doubt the sincerity of [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER]? I have escorts I see on a regular basis and if they aren't enjoying the sex with me, they are Academy Award winning actors when we interact!!! JMHO!

 

TruHart1

[marylander1940]

not even with a flavored condom?

wouldn't you want to taste a caramel flavored cock

 

no, it's beyond hypochondriac

 

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[caliguy]

?? Excuse me! Care to explain?

In fairness I think ol George was just thinking of himself. I can't imagine anyone with such a shitty attitude would get much out of any encounter. Well, maybe for the other person. Some relief seeing George walk out the door.

[marylander1940]

I've posted about this before and quite extensively, so I'll try to be brief here.

 

EVERY known STD and STI is transmittable via unprotected oral sex. The probabilities vary since the mouth isn't an ideal environment for some infectious agents.

 

HIV can be transmitted via oral though it's considered low risk so long as no cuts, open sores, etc. exist in the mouth/throat and on the penis.

 

Gonorrhea and Chlamydia are very easy to catch via unprotected oral sex. Even worse, they are able to establish localized colonies in the throat or anal cavity such that they do not show up on standard STD/STI screening without swabs being taken of the areas. That's why it's important to be tested for all STDs/STIs regularly AND mention that you have unprotected oral and/or anal sex so that the swabs are also done.

 

Syphilis is easily communicable via unprotected oral sex.

 

Herpes is easily communicable via unprotected oral sex.

 

HPV is easily communicable via unprotected oral sex and is the most common STD on Earth. Further, there has been a significant increase in throat and oral cancers in America and early indications may tie much of the increase to the misplaced belief that oral sex is safe sex.

 

Hepatitis is more complicated. Hep A may be communicable if you rim or you enjoy unprotected A2M (Ass to Mouth) oral sex. Hep B & C are mostly via blood, so open sores, cuts, etc. are of concern.

 

There are many other STDs/STIs to consider, but generally speaking, they're low-risk for unprotected oral sex.

 

Good hygiene matters. Regular testing matters. Taking care of your teeth. Gargling with an alcohol based mouthwash after oral sex is important. Urinating and washing your penis thoroughly, especially if you're not circumcised, is very important. Regular and frequent comprehensive STD/STI screening is very important. Basic common sense matters. Good luck!

 

It's not a magical cure but it might be helpful reminding yinz of this previous thread.

 

Thoughts?

 

Could mouthwash combat gonorrhoea?

http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/health-36765167

 

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/a-gargle-a-day-keeps-gonorrhoea-away.117165/#post-1145855

[nynakedtop]

In fairness I think ol George was just thinking of himself. I can't imagine anyone with such a shitty attitude would get much out of any encounter. Well, maybe for the other person. Some relief seeing George walk out the door.

This from the person who in another thread from earlier today said that he would "prefer a young good looking racist than the usual middle age ugly escorts".

 

He would certainly be shown my door quickly!

[TruHart1]

This from the person who in another thread from earlier today said that he would "prefer a young good looking racist than the usual middle age ugly escorts".

 

He would certainly be shown my door quickly!

OK, @nynakedtop...this statement allows me to label @GeorgeGG for what he actually is: A TROLL! It's always best to simply ignore trolls! :rolleyes:

 

TruHart1

[+ glennnn]

One of my regular escorts breaks out the Listerine as we climb into the shower at the end of our anal and oral play to gargle while we scrub each other. Feels good to be taken care of and it certainly couldn't hurt. I always swallow some of it all the way down with the cum I've swallowed.

[caliguy]

This from the person who in another thread from earlier today said that he would "prefer a young good looking racist than the usual middle age ugly escorts".

 

He would certainly be shown my door quickly!

OK, @nynakedtop...this statement allows me to label @GeorgeGG for what he actually is: A TROLL! It's always best to simply ignore trolls! :rolleyes:

 

TruHart1

Thanks. I went and looked. George also went by youngster. Same MO. Attacks anyone for being too old. Meanwhile she's a true beauty according to her. Lol There's also another troll attack on the Mr Olympia Thread too. Same MO with that one too. I guess he wears the troll name out and time for the new identity.

[LivingnLA]

It's not a magical cure but it might be helpful reminding yinz of this previous thread.

 

 

 

 

http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/a-gargle-a-day-keeps-gonorrhoea-away.117165/#post-1145855

 

Thanks! I guess you missed the last paragraph of my post.

 

Good hygiene matters. Taking care of your teeth matters. Gargling with an alcohol based mouthwash after oral sex is important. Urinating and washing your penis thoroughly, especially if you're not circumcised, is very important. Regular and frequent comprehensive STD/STI screening is very important. Basic common sense matters. Good luck!

 

One of my regular escorts breaks out the Listerine as we climb into the shower at the end of our anal and oral play to gargle while we scrub each other. Feels good to be taken care of and it certainly couldn't hurt. I always swallow some of it all the way down with the cum I've swallowed.

 

Please don't swallow mouthwash, some of the chemicals in it are not safe for ingestion. Plus, it's highly unlikely you'd swallow enough to coat your throat without making yourself ill.

[GeorgeGG]

No I am not trolling. I am just speaking my mind. I presume I am allowed to do so.

 

I find [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] 's declaration of preference for his older clients a cheap PR exercise.

 

Regarding my comment on racism, I am absolutely not a racist. BUT when I hire an escort I am looking at physical appearance and charmness. Not at his political beliefs.

[TruHart1]

This from the person who in another thread from earlier today said that he would "prefer a young good looking racist than the usual middle age ugly escorts".

 

He would certainly be shown my door quickly!

No I am not trolling. I am just speaking my mind. I presume I am allowed to do so.

 

I find [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] 's declaration of preference for his older clients a cheap PR exercise.

 

Regarding my comment on racism, I am absolutely not a racist. BUT when I hire an escort I am looking at physical appearance and charmness. Not at his political beliefs.

Certainly opinions are encouraged on this forum, but your statement that you would "prefer a young good looking racist than the usual middle age ugly escorts" seems quite harsh, especially since many "middle age" escorts (who are in no way ugly) maintain their bodies and are very attractive to many of us. Racism itself is an ugly word, whether describing a good looking man or an "ugly escort." In my experience, what [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] expresses describes the opinions of every excellent (and, BTW, hot, sexy and good-looking young or more mature) escort I have ever hired myself and is not necessarily even a PR exercise on his part, except in perhaps solely your opinion.

 

We all have different tastes and I have met quite a few escorts who are successful in this business expressly because older men have always been sexually attractive to them. A few escorts have even expressed to me that they usually do not like being hired by men in their mid or early 20's and avoid those younger, often more immature clients as a rule. Perhaps you are not trolling here but I would suggest you make the attempt to think before posting and employ a bit more tact before expressing your opinion using "hot button" terms such as racist, etc.

 

That's just my humble opinion.

 

TruHart1

[TruthBTold]

I relate to what Dominiking said in that I have always wanted to please the escort when I hire them. I presume that is in my nature and really has pervaded all my relationships, escort or not. Luckily the escorts I have seen have had similar attitudes toward me. Moreover, it has turned out that most of them have been closer to my age or rather, not been young. It has not been planned but has turned out that way. Perhaps their profiles have portrayed someone that is out to please me. Then the situation has turned out that they have allowed me to please them also.

[mike carey]

I totally accept [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER]'s description of what he likes, he has said it often enough in here. Whether others who are visiting the forum believe him or not is neither here nor there. They can believe whatever they wish.

[+ glennnn]

I wrote a post quite a while back about the "love making" aspects of our hobby. I consider my time with each very excellent escort to be making love, although I am not "In Love" with him. It's usually the Boyfriend Experience I'm seeking, and that involves kissing, hugging and cuddling -displays of affection- as well as sucking and fucking. Today, I hope, "making love" means pleasing your partner no matter what genders are involved.

 

I grew up with love and sex separated- love and affection were only to be given to a female. I only desired sex with males, but there was No Affection allowed in the transaction; a quick hand job and an immediate retreat from the scene of the crime. Having sex was "exploration"; kissing or hugging was Queer. Thank the gods we are (temporarily?) past those heartless years and I can hire a man to please, to make love with, to share both sex and affection. The first time I ever really kissed a man was a year ago. I knew he didn't love me and I didnt love him, but we shared some affection and no one was hurt. It was a fantasy. As one of the elders here, I can tell you that life without fantasy is harsh.

 

@GeorgeGG , of course you can state your opinion. You have that right, but do you have that need? I notice that although you have been a member of the forum since 2012, you have posted only 23 messages. Why? Are you a part of the forum? We are a friendly, supportive, intelligent, talented, hilarious, over sexed and protective group. Join us or don't join us. But don't attack us. I love and need my fantasies. I choose to believe, and honor, [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] and all the others. They make me happy.

 

You seem unhappy. If I could help in some way, PM me.

[Hornplatz]

Also - is there anyone out there who views this as a deal-breaker and would not hire an escort with this policy?

Sucking a condom would be a deal-breaker for me, I don't like it. I would much rather have a slow edging/handjob.

[TopTierTop]

I recently hired an escort who surprised me when we met.

 

As usual, before we met, I told him what I was expecting - including mutual oral. He said that was fine.

 

When we got started and reached the oral part of our encounter - he looked at me and said he only performs oral on someone wearing a condom and only receives it if he is wearing one as well. That is not a worthwhile experience for me, so all of a sudden we had a lot less to do.

 

I was annoyed by this. Clearly, he should have told me beforehand - but the bigger question is - Do you find this is a common practice with escorts you've hired? I'm well-aware of safe sex practices, but for me, this version of oral sex is pointless and I would avoid hiring an escort with this policy altogether.

 

I have hired many escorts - and he was the first to ever say this. (Note: He is an established escort with years of escorting under his belt).

 

Is this becoming something more common among escorts?

I have heard this before. Absolutely, you should be told in advance if this is going to be the case. To me, it is a sign that the escort doesn't care about the impression he makes once he meets you. He only cares that he gets the booking and gets paid. My clients can always assume that if we have sex, my goal is to do everything I can to leave knowing it was everything he was hoping for and more.

 

My advice to other escorts would be if you are uncomfortable with certain acts, that is fine, but you know what the client is expecting. You should be very clear if anything could potentially be a disappointment to them. Have some integrity in your work. Your job is to satisfy your clients desires. If that is not your motivation, you are not providing a valuable service, you are running a scam.

[Guest]

The talk of drug-resistant STI's, especially ghonorrhea is nothing new. The treatment of ghonorrhea has changed many times over the years as it has evolved and developed resistance.

 

What's new is that there are no new antibiotics coming down the research pipeline. The treatment for GC has changed in that the number of antibiotics available to treat it has decreased, and that number is now down to one. There used to be a number of oral medications for GC, and now the only effective treatment is an injection of ceftriaxone.

https://www.cdc.gov/nchhstp/newsroom/2016/2016-std-prevention-conference-press-release.html

Drug companies don't want to dedicate their research dollars on antibiotics, because these medications are needed fairly rarely, and then usually only needed for 7 to 10 days. There is much more profit to be made developing a medication for chronic health problems which must be taken for years on end: diabetes, hypertension, heart failure, arthritis, osteoporosis, acid reflux, and so on. Most of these conditions are associated with the obesity epidemic ravaging this country. All of this legal pot is going to cause this obesity epidemic to balloon, although maybe the incoming attorney general will put his fist down, even for states which have "legalized" it.

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2016/11/18/trumps-pick-for-attorney-general-good-people-dont-smoke-marijuana/

[Guest]

... I can't remember the last time I've had sex with someone who isn't a client.

 

Yikes! You're all of 21 and can't remember the last time you had sex with someone who wasn't a client? :eek: Kind of young to be getting dementia, aren't you? ;)

http://alznet.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/Dementia.jpeg

I feel a song coming on...

[+ Lance_Navarro]

of this legal pot is going to cause this obesity epidemic to balloon, although maybe the incoming attorney general will put his fist down, even for states which have "legalized" it.

 

I agree with you entirely about pharmaceutical companies not being interested in investing in things like bacterial and viral infections. This creates the potential for a huge epidemic with no cure. I take serious issue however with the association you're making with pot consumption and obesity. I feel that the stereotype of the fat and lazy pot head is just that, a stereotype and the problem with stereotypes is not that they are inaccurate but that they are incomplete. For many (including myself) pot aids in a healthier and happier life.

[Jbdesc]

Smoking weed and being obese? That's quite the stretch. It was just legalized in my state so I'll probably start smoking it more often for various benefits I've found it to have - ie. getting a better night's sleep.

 

If you are curious as to the current obesity epidemic and its primary culprit - I'd suggest you watch the movie 'Fed Up'.

[+ glennnn]

I agree with you entirely about pharmaceutical companies not being interested in investing in things like bacterial and viral infections. This creates the potential for a huge epidemic with no cure. I take serious issue however with the association you're making with pot consumption and obesity. I feel that the stereotype of the fat and lazy pot head is just that, a stereotype and the problem with stereotypes is not that they are inaccurate but that they are incomplete. For many (including myself) pot aids in a healthier and happier life.

 

Agreed! I've been smoking pot since 1966 along with a group of about 12 college friends. All of us finished college, most have a master's degree, all are now retired from very successful careers, all raised decent children, contributed to society and only two are fat, and they were always chubby. None of us are alcoholics.

[+ quoththeraven]

Agreed! I've been smoking pot since 1966 along with a group of about 12 college friends. All of us finished college, most have a master's degree, all are now retired from very successful careers, all raised decent children, contributed to society and only two are fat, and they were always chubby. None of us are alcoholics.

 

Pot has its health hazards, but it does not foster the aggressiveness and anti-social behavior alcohol fosters in some, men especially. It can help tightly wound people relax and is in my opinion on the evidence of which I am aware overall less dangerous to health and society than alcohol or tobacco, both of which remain legal.

[caliguy]

Pot has its health hazards, but it does not foster the aggressiveness and anti-social behavior alcohol fosters in some, men especially. It can help tightly wound people relax and is in my opinion on the evidence of which I am aware overall less dangerous to health and society than alcohol or tobacco, both of which remain legal.

It's now as legal or soon to be as alcohol in CA btw.

[+ quoththeraven]

It's now as legal or soon to be as alcohol in CA btw.

 

So I've gathered. Also true already in WA and CO, right?

 

This is why I can't get all exercised about sanctuary cities. This is part of the great American experiment: that some states can tell the federal government to go pound salt on a specific issue.

 

Also true with regard to end-of-life decisions in OR and decisions as to arrest and prosecution for certain marijuana offenses in NYC and DC.

 

There is a place for states' rights in federalism, as there is for state constitutions that either have more expansive rights than the federal one or whose rights are interpreted more expansively. It's not all a conservative or a liberal issue.

[caliguy]

So I've gathered. Also true already in WA and CO, right?

 

This is why I can't get all exercised about sanctuary cities. This is part of the great American experiment: that some states can tell the federal government to go pound salt on a specific issue.

 

Also true with regard to end-of-life decisions in OR and decisions as to arrest and prosecution for certain marijuana offenses in NYC and DC.

 

There is a place for states' rights in federalism, as there is for state constitutions that either have more expansive rights than the federal one or whose rights are interpreted more expansively. It's not all a conservative or a liberal issue.

Yep but I think even in WA or CO there are still a few restrictions like how much you can buy.