411 on Vince Williams Washington DC

[DenverTom]

I'm schedule to see Vince Friday for an overnight. We originally set up earlier in the week but the day of, he text me and backtracked on some things he had agreed to the day before, bottoming and public displays of affection. I cancelled because it seemed I was being hustled, however since he's been texting me and swearing he is into both. Today he asked for a deposit and photos to make sure I'm real. Im married, I told him that and had sent him a photo earlier in the week. He's been very insistent on me proving to him the appointment is going to happen... Almost to the point of obsessiveness. Any one out there with experience with this guy? He swears he has outstanding reviews but most here are short or old. He has a negative overnight review on Rentmen... Does this guy really bottom? Is he good at it? Is he just going to grab my money and run? An escort I saw earlier this week bad mouthed Vince too saying he was on drugs and on parole. He's a handsome guy, my type if he's really a bottom... Help?

[BabyBoomer]

I can't find a link to his RM ad.

 

~ Boomer ~

[+ ArVaGuy]

Welcome to the forum.

 

You are taking some risk with a first time hire for an overnight. You would do better to hire for a shorter time to see if you are compatible. Already your post indicates there are issues hiring Vince.

 

He has backed out on what he said he would do during your session. He's asked you for photos which make you uncomfortable. Then he says he wants a deposit and will provide the services you requested originally. None of this is a good sign for a positive experience.

 

Your first instinct to cancel was the correct course IMO. I get that you are attracted to his looks and the anticipation of a wild night of carnal bliss. However, you are likely not going to be as pleased with the session as you imagine due to the very issues you raised in your post.

 

My practice is to hire a guy for a short period and then build up to an overnight or longer hire. Compatibility is key in these situations. It's not wise to go straight to the longer session right off the bat.

 

Don't let the little head do all the thinking.

[Despardo]

I'm schedule to see Vince Friday for an overnight. We originally set up earlier in the week but the day of, he text me and backtracked on some things he had agreed to the day before, bottoming and public displays of affection. I cancelled because it seemed I was being hustled, however since he's been texting me and swearing he is into both. Today he asked for a deposit and photos to make sure I'm real. Im married, I told him that and had sent him a photo earlier in the week. He's been very insistent on me proving to him the appointment is going to happen... Almost to the point of obsessiveness. Any one out there with experience with this guy? He swears he has outstanding reviews but most here are short or old. He has a negative overnight review on Rentmen... Does this guy really bottom? Is he good at it? Is he just going to grab my money and run? An escort I saw earlier this week bad mouthed Vince too saying he was on drugs and on parole. He's a handsome guy, my type if he's really a bottom... Help?

Your description of your interaction with him so far sends, in my opinion, a clear signal that you should cancel, move on and not look back. I don't wish to seem rude, but how many red flags do you need? If you read your post objectively, I think you will see that you have answered your own question. This guy has trouble stamped all over him.

[Despardo]

Welcome to the forum.

 

You are taking some risk with a first time hire for an overnight. You would do better to hire for a shorter time to see if you are compatible. Already your post indicates there are issues hiring Vince.

 

He has backed out on what he said he would do during your session. He's asked you for photos which make you uncomfortable. Then he says he wants a deposit and will provide the services you requested originally. None of this is a good sign for a positive experience.

 

Your first instinct to cancel was the correct course IMO. I get that you are attracted to his looks and the anticipation of a wild night of carnal bliss. However, you are likely not going to be as pleased with the session as you imagine due to the very issues you raised in your post.

 

My practice is to hire a guy for a short period and then build up to an overnight or longer hire. Compatibility is key in these situations. It's not wise to go straight to the longer session right off the bat.

 

Don't let the little head do all the thinking.

ArVaGuy, your post was very diplomatic. Mine was more blunt which is frankly what I intended. We are, however, saying exactly the same thing.

[+ WmClarke]

Too many red flags. Cancel and hire someone else.

[+ ArVaGuy]

ArVaGuy, your post was very diplomatic. Mine was more blunt which is frankly what I intended. We are, however, saying exactly the same thing.

 

Yes, we are both in agreement.

 

 

Here's the link to his profile. He is kinda purdy to look at with a big dick.

https://rentmen.com/VincentWilliams

 

One of the photos appears to be from Chaos Men. I wonder what his name is on that site?

[instudiocity]

I am a charming and energetic American guy...

Manners make the man and I am one for making my company feel genuinely comfortable...

Flexible availability

Humble personality with great attitude

Young, professional and eloquent.

Well-groomed, hygienic and well spoken.

Very private and discreet

Above is text copied from Vince's RM ad. Look at the bold italicized words while asking yourself the question, "Are these words an accurate description of the man with whom I am communicating?"

My guess they are not. But really it's up to you to decide if you're just nervous or he's not who he says he is.

[DenverTom]

He was Christian on Chaosmen. He also told me he was bi but his reviews mostly say straight!

[big-n-tall]

I met him years ago, not long after he first had an ad up on planetjockboys. He is a sweet guy, very eager to please, and a very good kisser. He did bottom. Although after awhile we had to stop. It's seemed I was too much for him.

 

With that said he was very difficult to schedule with. He didn't ask for a picture but there was a lot of back and forth over text. He was delayed when we were supposed to meet up, but we did finally meet.

 

Every time I've tried to meet him since, there was always a reason he couldn't. I think he had a roommate so his window to meet was a small one. If I could ensure we could work out a time and place and he'd stick to it... I would see him again. However since it's a bit of a chore I tend to bypass him for others.

[+ azdr0710]

very strongly suggest you go for a two-hour meet and be ready for tardiness and hemming and hawing....BNT's post above is very encouraging, but the already-existing hesitancy is a concern

 

be polite and discreet....

[DenverTom]

BNT are you large? Is that why you were too much for him? He suggested raw.. I'm on PrEP so he suggested I suppose

[big-n-tall]

BNT are you large? Is that why you were too much for him? He suggested raw.. I'm on PrEP so he suggested I suppose

 

Not that I'm hung down to the floor, but I do ok. But yes, after topping him for awhile, he asked could we stop because he couldn't handle it any more. We played safe btw.

[marylander1940]

I'm schedule to see Vince Friday for an overnight. We originally set up earlier in the week but the day of, he text me and backtracked on some things he had agreed to the day before, bottoming and public displays of affection. I cancelled because it seemed I was being hustled, however since he's been texting me and swearing he is into both. Today he asked for a deposit and photos to make sure I'm real. Im married, I told him that and had sent him a photo earlier in the week. He's been very insistent on me proving to him the appointment is going to happen... Almost to the point of obsessiveness. Any one out there with experience with this guy? He swears he has outstanding reviews but most here are short or old. He has a negative overnight review on Rentmen... Does this guy really bottom? Is he good at it? Is he just going to grab my money and run? An escort I saw earlier this week bad mouthed Vince too saying he was on drugs and on parole. He's a handsome guy, my type if he's really a bottom... Help?

 

If I was you I'd move on.

[Guest]

I've met with Vince before for an outcall. Not sure about the drugs and parole part, but he is a really nice guy, has a "normal" job that is beneficial to the career goals he's set for himself, and was eager to please.

 

He was a little late to our outcall but not by much. He was also very happy and willing to indulge my frat boy baseball fantasy, which he executed perfectly and it was hot. He does have a great dick and does bottom, but I agree with the above poster that he wasn't able to take it for tooo long. It wasn't just a minute but he couldn't last as long as I normally want but we agreed to work on it. Scheduling an incall makes it harder to get something on the books, so I agree that you should do a shorter outcall before doing an overnight.

 

PM me if you want more details!

[Despardo]

I've met with Vince before for an outcall. Not sure about the drugs and parole part, but he is a really nice guy, has a "normal" job that is beneficial to the career goals he's set for himself, and was eager to please.

 

He was a little late to our outcall but not by much. He was also very happy and willing to indulge my frat boy baseball fantasy, which he executed perfectly and it was hot. He does have a great dick and does bottom, but I agree with the above poster that he wasn't able to take it for tooo long. It wasn't just a minute but he couldn't last as long as I normally want but we agreed to work on it. Scheduling an incall makes it harder to get something on the books, so I agree that you should do a shorter outcall before doing an overnight.

 

PM me if you want more details!

From the 2 positive posts, it would seem that this guy is OK, but needs to polish his communication skills in setting up appointments with clients.

[Becket]

run. Run. RUN!

[+ ArVaGuy]

His profile has recently expired on RM.

[DenverTom]

He did not show.. He text me when I told him I'd be away from the phone and asked if we were still meeting. Then I got text 10 minutes before we were suppose to meet. Then he proposed a new time and I told him to forget it. He text today asking if I wanted to meet up, I said no, he sai "I knew you were fake". Sounds he has mental issues, since he stood me up.

[BasketBaller]

His ad is back on RentMen, but it says to text him-- and the ad has no number. So communication still seems to be a stumbling block.

 

https://rentmen.com/VincentWilliams

[+ Truereview]

Vince is cute but erratic. If you need further detail, PM me.

[gallahadesquire]

His ad is back on RentMen, but it says to text him-- and the ad has no number. So communication still seems to be a stumbling block.

 

https://rentmen.com/VincentWilliams

 

The phone number is up now.

[BasketBaller]

The phone number is up now.

That was quick. I wonder if he read my post? LOL

[Pocketdaddy]

So did you manage to meetup with Vince? I was the guy who stupidly handed him $300 up front only to have him disappear somewhere in the large house where he lives only to text me to let me know his landlord was home and wanted me to leave. Other escorts in DC (who are professional stand-up guys) have said to steer clear of him. He's random and a drug addict....just look at his teeth in person.

 

One more thing: this site has a lot of concern trolls who clutch their pearls at the thought of outing escorts who are unethical crooks. He's a thief. I've hooked up with three other escorts in DC recently...all well-reviewed and great guys. The only reason I posted about Vince was because there were enough questions from users to give me pause.

[davis]

Similar experience with @DenverTom. Sent a quite a few texts as to if we were meeting, and 10 minutes after the scheduled start time, sent a text saying he was in a town miles away and couldn't make it.