Put a ring on it

[Mount N Do]

https://rentmen.com/hamsummuscles

 

Tell me how I contact this kid when his ad first surfaced, we exchange a few emails, and he says:

"I'm only interested in seeing you if you want to pursue an LTR"

I tell the kid I was flattered, but wondered if perhaps he'd want to at least meet me first? Lol

 

Anyone ever had that condition dropped on them, before meeting?

[m.yi]

He must be looking for an instant sugar daddy. And oh, make sure you got that pre-nup ready!

[MscleLovr]

That condition doesn't bother me. I assume the kid means that he prefers to find someone as a long-term client/boyfriend. I understand and share that preference. It doesn't rule out having fun while you interview guys to find someone compatible for an LTR.

[Kuriousity]

That seems...unusual...to me. He hasn't even met you and wants to lock in an extended business deal. It makes one wonder--if his condition is met, will he continue to escort? Will he agree to exclusivity? Is this just a financial deal on his point, and once the money well is dry, does he just move on? The "Bisexual" tag in his ad seems a flashing yellow light from my perspective.

[Mount N Do]

That condition doesn't bother me. I assume the kid means that he prefers to find someone as a long-term client/boyfriend. I understand and share that preference. It doesn't rule out having fun while you interview guys to find someone compatible for an LTR.

Plausible. Still... How would one commit to that condition without even uttering "hi" in person?

[MscleLovr]

I guess I feel he's just stating what he would prefer. I often state it before going on a date with a non-working guy; it's just a way of saying I don't like random hook-ups. I don't feel I have to commit at once, but I like to know the other guy has a similar preference/objective.