Now Tell the Truth !

[jjkrkwood]

We've discussed this a gazillion times, but Do You really, REALLY Care if they are DUMB ???

 

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KUP0vukGeh0/VSBtNoHMRCI/AAAAAAADg-A/T1rft2nvpUM/s1600/13-Some-Gorgeous-Naked-Hunks-For-You-7.jpg

[+ WmClarke]

Yes, I do. Good conversation turns me on.

[jjkrkwood]

Yes, I do. Good conversation turns me on.

 

 

I should have realized that from the Scrabble board....

 

But how much talkin are you really gonna do in an hour ???? you'll need at least a weekend for that !

[+ Rickee]

But how much talkin are you really gonna do in an hour ???? you'll need at least a weekend for that !

That's part of the reason why an hour typically isn't long enuf, at least for me. I've found that a companion's intellect is directly--and sometimes exponentially--proportional to his abilities and instincts when it comes to showing me a great time. Brains and brawn: what a combo!

[marylander1940]

We've discussed this a gazillion times, but Do You really, REALLY Care if they are DUMB ???

 

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KUP0vukGeh0/VSBtNoHMRCI/AAAAAAADg-A/T1rft2nvpUM/s1600/13-Some-Gorgeous-Naked-Hunks-For-You-7.jpg

 

I don't care if he's dumb.. I'm ok hiring 9/11 truthers, conspiracy theorists and others, I wouldn't hire racist or homophobic (ungrateful) escorts. Those are turn offs for me!

[+ WmClarke]

I should have realized that from the Scrabble board....

 

But how much talkin are you really gonna do in an hour ???? you'll need at least a weekend for that !

I prefer a two hour minimum. The pre-sex chat really helps set a great mood. For me, anyway.

[+ Rickee]

I prefer a two hour minimum. The pre-sex chat really helps set a great mood. For me, anyway.

Agreed! ... and who's to say that the "pre-sex chat" can't be mighty physical and sexy?!

[mike carey]

We've discussed this a gazillion times, but Do You really, REALLY Care if they are DUMB ???

 

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-KUP0vukGeh0/VSBtNoHMRCI/AAAAAAADg-A/T1rft2nvpUM/s1600/13-Some-Gorgeous-Naked-Hunks-For-You-7.jpg

I have to say that if a man wears a 'dumb jock' singlet, he is probably guilty of deceptive advertising. I doubt dumb jocks realise they are dumb. To me wearing it shows a certain level of self-awareness and of irony.

[jjkrkwood]

I guess I'm easy that way.... All I want to hear them say is "SUCK IT", in any language they choose...

[TruthBTold]

Not with this guy. He's got so much else going on (handsome, built, nice cock) that it would be OK for me to make up my Stephen Hawking hour some other time. It will be a struggle I know. But then I figure he probably has sworn to himself that he will make up his Jon Hamm hour.

[rocky]

Give me your dumb, your hung, your hunks...yup I don't give a damn if they don't know

who is running for President, I don't care myself

[+ Lance_Navarro]

I'm glad to see at least a few of you on here recognize that the brain is in fact the largest sexual organ!

[+ WmClarke]

I'm glad to see at least a few of you on here recognize that the brain is in fact the largest sexual organ!

Fuck yeah! Omedulla oblongata for the win!

[whipped guy]

Well! Al Bundy used to say:

 

Hooters hooters!

Yum yum yum!

Hooters hooters!

On a girl that's dumb!

 

However, I agree whole heartedly with @Lance_Navarro and @WmClarke that the brain is the largest and most important sexual organ. Definitely my best experiences have been with guys who have not only been smart but are members of the Mensa sexual hall of fame as well! Plus, it is so amazing how guys can be astute and bright in so many ways. A good brain really adds immeasurably to the totality of the experience.

 

Still, I'm not totally brain dead myself and if a guy is a smoking hot dumb dick head I would never think of throwing said less than erudite guy out of bed! Hardly! At times it's not a bad thing to think with the wrong head and especially when the other guy has only one head with which to think! Think about it!

 

So if given the opportunity and a guy is hot as hell I would be singing the same song as good ol' Al. Of course modified as follows:

 

Pecs and nips!

Yum yum yum!

Pecs and nips!

On a guy that's dumb!

[tyro]

Mizz T always wants the smartest man in the room.

Unless he's uber-fat or stinky.

T

[whipped guy]

As an addendum to my above post I need to mention that one of the smartest individuals who I have ever met is an escort. You name it and he is knowledgeable regarding the subject be it literature, music, culinary skills, gardening, nutrition, medical issues, and I could go on. Others have been smart in ways that are less learned and that is refreshing as well. It is amazing how many escorts have college degrees and graduated cum laude. Many have or are working on post graduate degrees! I have hired more than one escort who has a law degree. While I have never hired him there is one escort that even has a dental degree! Yes, there are a lot of smart dudes who have worked or currently work in the profession. Kudos to them all!

[bostonman]

All I want to hear them say is "SUCK IT", in any language they choose...

 

I think that can be hot in a fantasy situation. But I tend to be more comfortable when I know a guy is actually more articulate in real life.

 

When I look at an escort's ad and I see fabulous pics and stats, but the ad is full of bad spelling/grammar etc, I tend to think "well, that's too bad - he might have been fun." Now I do appreciate that some very intelligent people just can't spell well (I work often with a very accomplished artist who has atrocious spelling), or that people can't always express themselves in writing the way they can in person. But still...

 

Though, that reminds me of 2 stories of exchanging emails with escorts. I'm thinking both of these guys were off of Backpage (go figure lol) - one had a very friendly, articulate-sounding ad, but his email responses to me sounded more like a young teen doing "phone speak" - all those stupid abbreviations and also a very terse, almost impatient-sounding tone. Red flags went up. I emailed back and asked (nicely) why he seemed to be such a different person than the one I sensed from the ad. Never heard back.

 

The other one was even odder. responding back to me at first, this other guy seemed ok, but I ultimately decided that there were things about him that weren't matching up for me. I wrote him back and explained that respectfully and politely. I got back a rather rant-y response that again, belied his previous writing style, but that also said something to the effect of "I'm not trying to be a pre-madonna, but..."

 

Pre-madonna? Did he mean the singer or Jesus' mother?

 

At that point I gave up. I figured if he didn't even know it was "prima donna," what's the point?

[caliguy]

I don't understand how anyone could get turned on with someone that's incapable of intelligent conversation. Like that saying. He fucked fucked my brains out.

[whipped guy]

Once I hesitated hiring a guy because he was younger than someone with whom I would normally feel comfortable. However, when he responded via email he actually used complete sentences that were well organized into paragraphs! It blew my mind (and eventually more than that as well) and that's what sealed the deal. I even mentioned it in my review.

[gallahadesquire]

P.D.Q. Bach was married to two women named Vera. One of his works, dedicated to "Prima Vera", is obviously a reference to his first wife.

 

http://www.uffizi.org/img/artworks/botticelli-primavera.jpg

 

I think that can be hot in a fantasy situation. But I tend to be more comfortable when I know a guy is actually more articulate in real life.

 

When I look at an escort's ad and I see fabulous pics and stats, but the ad is full of bad spelling/grammar etc, I tend to think "well, that's too bad - he might have been fun." Now I do appreciate that some very intelligent people just can't spell well (I work often with a very accomplished artist who has atrocious spelling), or that people can't always express themselves in writing the way they can in person. But still...

 

Though, that reminds me of 2 stories of exchanging emails with escorts. I'm thinking both of these guys were off of Backpage (go figure lol) - one had a very friendly, articulate-sounding ad, but his email responses to me sounded more like a young teen doing "phone speak" - all those stupid abbreviations and also a very terse, almost impatient-sounding tone. Red flags went up. I emailed back and asked (nicely) why he seemed to be such a different person than the one I sensed from the ad. Never heard back.

 

The other one was even odder. responding back to me at first, this other guy seemed ok, but I ultimately decided that there were things about him that weren't matching up for me. I wrote him back and explained that respectfully and politely. I got back a rather rant-y response that again, belied his previous writing style, but that also said something to the effect of "I'm not trying to be a pre-madonna, but..."

 

Pre-madonna? Did he mean the singer or Jesus' mother?

 

At that point I gave up. I figured if he didn't even know it was "prima donna," what's the point?

[jjkrkwood]

I don't understand how anyone could get turned on with someone that's incapable of intelligent conversation. Like that saying. He fucked fucked my brains out.

 

 

If I'm in a relationship with an individual, of course I would want a person that interests and stimulates me intellectually. For a one hour session where he is shoving his cock down my throat, I really dont give a fuck if he cant articulate his name....

[whipped guy]

 

The other one was even odder. responding back to me at first, this other guy seemed ok, but I ultimately decided that there were things about him that weren't matching up for me. I wrote him back and explained that respectfully and politely. I got back a rather rant-y response that again, belied his previous writing style, but that also said something to the effect of "I'm not trying to be a pre-madonna, but..."

 

Pre-madonna? Did he mean the singer or Jesus' mother?

 

At that point I gave up. I figured if he didn't even know it was "prima donna," what's the point?

 

Along these same lines Vivaldi wrote a composition entitled Pre-Mavera. The composer slyly dedicated it to the owner of a famous restaurant in Venice where the Pre-Madonnas (mostly castrati by the way) who sang at the Teatro San Benedetto often gathered for their pre-performance supper. The establishment still exists to this very day and their signature dish actually dates back to the early 18th Century and was a tribute to that infamous Vivaldi composition. That's right! You guessed it! Pasta Pre-Mavera. What else! So now you know the rest of the story...

 

 

 

Here's the recipe. I kid you not! Yes! referenced as pasta premavera!

 

https://www.caloriecount.com/pasta-premavera-recipe-r973349

[wisconsinguy]

Well! Al Bundy used to say:

 

Hooters hooters!

Yum yum yum!

Hooters hooters!

On a girl that's dumb!

 

However, I agree whole heartedly with @Lance_Navarro and @WmClarke that the brain is the largest and most important sexual organ. Definitely my best experiences have been with guys who have not only been smart but are members of the Mensa sexual hall of fame as well! Plus, it is so amazing how guys can be astute and bright in so many ways. A good brain really adds immeasurably to the totality of the experience.

 

Still, I'm not totally brain dead myself and if a guy is a smoking hot dumb dick head I would never think of throwing said less than erudite guy out of bed! Hardly! At times it's not a bad thing to think with the wrong head and especially when the other guy has only one head with which to think! Think about it!

 

So if given the opportunity and a guy is hot as hell I would be singing the same song as good ol' Al. Of course modified as follows:

 

Pecs and nips!

Yum yum yum!

Pecs and nips!

On a guy that's dumb!

I very much like to be in the company of bright people. I also am not threatened by individuals that are brighter than myself. They are challenging in their thoughts and actions. I find that very stimulating. My former wife was a Mensa member, and also one of the most logical, sensible individuals I know. As stated, intelligence is really sexy. Oh, WG1. Dentists really aren't doctors are they? WG2

[+ nycman]

On the contrary.....I prefer them a little dense.

 

Smart guys often have a hard time getting their big heads out of the way of their small heads....which...ironically...is just dumb.

[whipped guy]

I very much like to be in the company of bright people. I also am not threatened by individuals that are brighter than myself. They are challenging in their thoughts and actions. I find that very stimulating. My former wife was a Mensa member, and also one of the most logical, sensible individuals I know. As stated, intelligence is really sexy. Oh, WG1. Dentists really aren't doctors are they? WG2

Well I always considered myself as being a doctor of sorts. My degrees were a BA and a DMD. I won't even address the FAGD part!!! That made me a BAD MD. Well this former dentist ain't a doctor no more! I had everything that had doctor on it removed from everything. As I have said, "That was a long time ago in a galaxy far far away!" Time to move on...