Ageing

[Jock123]

Do you find the older You get the more Particular you become Sexually?

 

Me for example, A guy can be ripped, great face, personality etc...but if He has Troll(Gross) feet...Its a let down...and I make him wear Socks. I also feel that Porn makes us more Particular.

[Nvr2Thick]

I'm not more particular than I was 20-30 years ago; I just have some different tastes. I've always been a size queen. I used to be attracted almost exclusively to hairy men. Now I'm mostly attracted to black and dark-skinned men that are smooth or hairy. I used to think that sex wasn't sex unless someone (me) got fucked. Now I also love to provide oral service to completion. Kissing used to be a requirement, but now I look forward to a rough trade guy who doesn't care to kiss.

[Will Do]

I think, that while I enjoy porn, it's somewhat a bad thing (not in the Bible-thumper way, mind you.)

 

It shows a Disney-esque, fairy princess / knight in shining armor ideal that's not always attainable.

 

By that, I mean porn is usually well-staged, usually well-edited and usually well-directed.

 

It never shows the realness of getting tangled up in sheets and trying to get out of it during a roll-around, the oops-dammit of spilling to much lube, the accidental fart (ugh,) etc, etc.................

[+ bigjoey]

I think, that while I enjoy porn, it's somewhat a bad thing (not in the Bible-thumper way, mind you.)

 

It shows a Disney-esque, fairy princess / knight in shining armor ideal that's not always attainable.

 

By that, I mean porn is usually well-staged, usually well-edited and usually well-directed.

 

It never shows the realness of getting tangled up in sheets and trying to get out of it during a roll-around, the oops-dammit of spilling to much lube, the accidental fart (ugh,) etc, etc.................

 

One well known escort told me that he found some clients had unreal expectations about sex due to porn where everything was perfect.

[Will Do]

One well known escort told me that he found some clients had unreal expectations about sex due to porn where everything was perfect.

 

I certainly don't doubt that.

[marylander1940]

Do you find the older You get the more Particular you become Sexually?

 

Me for example, A guy can be ripped, great face, personality etc...but if He has Troll(Gross) feet...Its a let down...and I make him wear Socks. I also feel that Porn makes us more Particular.

 

The older you are the less picky you can be about sex, LOL.

 

Besides all of the sudden more and more guys seem to be younger, because they're.

[Bearofdistinction]

Do you find the older You get the more Particular you become Sexually?

 

Me for example, A guy can be ripped, great face, personality etc...but if He has Troll(Gross) feet...Its a let down...and I make him wear Socks. I also feel that Porn makes us more Particular.

 

No I find that I am more open to men across the spectrum of age and looks, and more open to all kinds of safer play.

 

It is especially HOT when 20-30 something puppies want a big daddy to serve and play with and they chase me

[Bearofdistinction]

Do you find the older You get the more Particular you become Sexually?

 

Me for example, A guy can be ripped, great face, personality etc...but if He has Troll(Gross) feet...Its a let down...and I make him wear Socks. I also feel that Porn makes us more Particular.

 

Oh and BTW --- Based on your Avatar, if that even is you --- YOU my dear are a we bitty puppy!

[gallahadesquire]

As I've gotten older, the younger studs seem to appeal to me less. I like a guy with some life experience, like Tristan Baldwin, Mike Gaite, and Chris Crawford. It kind of helps that I am told I look 10-15 years younger than I am.

 

I think some of that is from having been in Medical Education for way over my usefulness. My Personal Trainer has a protégé who just turned 21. The fact that he's built like Tim Tebow (but more like 5'10") doesn't hurt, but he's terribly naïve. I do try not to victimize him too much.

 

Certain equipment doesn't work as well as it might have in the past. However, I've found I'm a little more aggressive than I used to be. And having worked out three times a week for two years has definitely made me stronger. The "football glutes" that my Trainer (not the current one) promised me I'd get are really, really fun!

 

And I don't give a bloody shit about what other people think of me.

 

That's all, Doc!

[Lookin]

My youthful sex life was quite active

And my standards were set high

If a guy was not attractive

I would smile and pass him by http://redcafe.vn/diendan/images/smilies/cuoideu.gif

 

But now I’m older and less choosy

Guys who find me hot are few

And if I’m feeling slightly boozy

There is no one I won’t do http://kyle.myqnapcloud.com/gdb/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/072914_0756_2.gif

[big-n-tall]

My tastes in men and particulars about them haven't changed as I've gotten older. True I tend to lean toward certain types, but I don't discriminate. If a guy is fun to be around and a great kisser... everything else is icing on the cake. Hell there are a few guys I've met, around my age, and we've both agreed we'll be having old man sex together some day. Mainly because we click so well in and out of the bedroom.

 

Porn can be both a good and bad thing. Good because it can be helpful with certain people's sex lives. Also it can give you some idea of what the guy (if he does/did porn) you're meeting will be like. I think it's bad because some people can't or don't realize it's all fantasy. So they try to bring fantasy to reality, which often times doesn't work.

 

For me personally, if I've met a working guy who has done porn and we click... watching that guy's scenes thereafter turns me on even more. (Maybe because it triggers memories of us being together.) Then I tend to be even more turned on when we meet again. This hasn't happened for every porn actor I met, but definitely most of them.

[+ saminseattle]

I've always been picky about the torso and face, but can usually overlook everything else.

 

Side note: I notice you’re using the British English (ageing) rather than the American English (aging). A clue to your identity?

[MikeyGMin]

For me personally, if I've met a working guy who has done porn and we click... watching that guy's scenes thereafter turns me on even more. (Maybe because it triggers memories of us being together.)

 

Same here. For me, it's about the tastes and smells. Knowing what they taste like and how they smell amplifies the porn tremendously. Especially when they are doing a couple of my favorite things that are ingrained in my memory.

 

Regarding Jock's original question. My taste in men hasn't changed much at all, but what I like to do has narrowed considerably. There are things that are just more trouble than they're worth to me anymore. As much as I love it, porn has been a detriment to me. There are a couple of very specific acts that always trigger me and they don't always work out in real life.

[rvwnsd]

As I've gotten older my tastes in men have broadened. When I was younger, my tastes were limited to beefy, muscular, hairy men. Period. Now, I find myself attracted to lean/defined/swimmer guys, beefy and muscular guys, smooth guys, and hairy guys. Although still not a fan of shaving and manscaping, naturally smooth guys turn me on. A man's face has always been important to me. A naturally good-looking or handsome man is and always has been more appealing to me than an overly-groomed, primped guy.

[Kuriousity]

I've always been picky about the torso and face, but can usually overlook everything else.

 

Side note: I notice you’re using the British English (ageing) rather than the American English (aging). A clue to your identity?

 

Hey hey hey...we do not speculate on Jock's real world life here. It took forever for him to post an avatar...don't spook him.

[Brian Kevin]

When a man is comfortable in his skin, I feel it and love it. My point is, as I've said once and I'll say again, you're only as young as you feel! The inside doesn't age as quickly as the outside.

[Brian Kevin]

and I make him wear Socks

 

 

Come on jock let the man feel comfortable. He has troll feet, what about the clients shooting up or hiding their HIV status, those are the real trolls. If you got funky feet, I can fix them. Manicure, pedicure and estitician here. Let's get your skin, nails and body (hair) back on track. I just ain't a barber (yet)

[+ ArVaGuy]

Do you find the older You get the more Particular you become Sexually?

 

Me for example, A guy can be ripped, great face, personality etc...but if He has Troll(Gross) feet...Its a let down...and I make him wear Socks. I also feel that Porn makes us more Particular.

"Sorry Misha, not without socks."

[LADoug1]

Porn can be both a good and bad thing. Good because it can be helpful with certain people's sex lives. Also it can give you some idea of what the guy (if he does/did porn) you're meeting will be like. I think it's bad because some people can't or don't realize it's all fantasy. So they try to bring fantasy to reality, which often times doesn't work.

 

I would add that MORE often than not it doesn't work.

[jjkrkwood]

For me, just the opposite. I am much less picky. I really have nothing to be picky about... If a guy wants to give it to me, who am I to refuse ? I am just happy to see the dawn of a New day....