Another dead end review

[N13]

Re the review for Hayden today. The rentman address does not have Hayden on it. Have emailed but don't really expect an answer.

 

We seem to have a number of 'dead end' reviews. What good are they if we can not research the escort? Notice a lot of them are from first time reviewers that give a rentmen address but the escort is not listed. Hmmmmm.

[+ not2rowdy]

I'm 90pct certain I saw his ad up either on RM or M4RN within the last few days. Maybe he's taking a break.

[BabyBoomer]

@N13 Did you try using the LV phone number listed in his first review?

 

~ Boomer ~

[down_to_business]

Just my 2cents... If an escort is going to put a skip tracing burden on the client to find them to make an appointment, they probably shouldn't wonder why they aren't getting the mainstream business.

[+ othermanc]

Thanks for the "like."

[m.yi]

Well said.. anyone in Hayden's shoes would do the same. Escorts have real lives too and events do happen. Let's not be quick to judge, know the facts. Kudos to you othermanc for standing up for him.

[Nvr2Thick]

Re the review for Hayden today. The rentman address does not have Hayden on it. Have emailed but don't really expect an answer.

 

We seem to have a number of 'dead end' reviews. What good are they if we can not research the escort? Notice a lot of them are from first time reviewers that give a rentmen address but the escort is not listed. Hmmmmm.

 

The review itself is not dead. The first review did link to Hayden's Rentmen ad which was no longer available at the time of the review. Rentmen will resolve to that escort's city page in that case. We do occasionally see that escorts retire or go on hiatus between the time of a reviewer's encounter and the date the review is published on Daddy's Reviews. Note the difference between these two links. The first link is an intentionally dead link and the second link is taken from the review in question.

 

http://rentmen.com/thisisnotanescort

http://rentmen.com/Haydensventure

[Haydensventure]

Hello everyone, this is Hayden. I want to apologize for any inconvenience I might have caused by taking a short break the past week and a half. I knew that I would not be able to answer emails, book any appointments, or even explain my self or situation to anyone. I'm not sure how its like for every other escort or guy advertising on sites but It gets very busy sometimes literally only replying back to the emails I've received. Even then I do not get the chance to connect or meet with every one of those gentlemen. Anyways guys I just wanted to get on here and let anyone know who is interested that I will be advertising back on RM by the end of this week, no worries . Until then and even afterwards you can reach me at haydensventure@gmail.com.

 

p.s. Thank you so much othermanc, you're amazing!

 

Thank you for your time, Hayden.

[Nvr2Thick]

I feel the need to expand my response to Nvr2Thick 's post, where he says "The first link is an intentionally dead link..." My review was written in early February when I contacted Hayden through the rentmen site on their email. We communicated only through that email until recently when Hayden emailed me and said we'd be using his personal email (haydensventure@gmail.com) and then we also exchanged phone numbers. I had no idea when I wrote that review that it would later be unavailable for a period of time (as I have explained in my previous post on this subject, Hayden intends to resume his advertising on rentmen soon; he stopped it temporarily for personal reasons) The later review (which appears first on daddys) was posted on April 5, much later than mine, by a gentleman who says:

 

"Hayden and I have met up on dozens of occasions over the past several months here in Las Vegas at the condo or camping in the woods."

 

His review provides Hayden's email address. Think about it: I'm a New Yorker who lives 2500 miles from Vegas and saw Hayden 3 times in February. I had never been given his personal email, as we didn't need it...we talked through rentmen. The other reviewer (Sea7man ) lives in Las Vegas, and has seen Hayden "on dozens of occasions over the past several months" so it would make sense

HE would probably have Hayden's personal email, while I used only the information that worked for me...right?

 

OK. I guess what has annoyed me about this topic is this: Why in the world would you think that ANYONE wants to deliberately post a "dead link"? Aren't we all on daddys for the same reason?

We're all looking for good escorts to help us fulfill our needs, and thank God there are many wonderful, non-judgmental escorts out there who help us find that experience.

As in anything, there are a few not-so-good ones, but I feel that the majority of escorts understand our needs and try hard to accommodate us.

 

As for us "clients," we should be more understanding of each other. Frankly, to suggest, sir, that you have been deliberately led to a "dead link" says more about you than it does the "reviewers."

 

I hope this clears up the question as to why Hayden's rentmen connection didn't work for a while, (because it was down, temporarily,) and why the 2nd reviewer had better contact info,( after "dozens " of visits with Hayden

and they're both in the same town.

 

That being said, let me preach a little bit:

 

I find myself in this sub-culture with both feet these days. I have been with escorts over the years but only on business trips away from home, while in a heterosexual marriage. I never cheated on my wife with another woman, but I did need to be with men, and that is something, in spite of our great love, she could not provide for me. My wife passed away over 5 years ago and I began to re-explore my gay side. Escorts have helped me understand that part of myself without guilt. And Hayden, particularly, has been a joy in this quest of mine.

 

I hope all of us "clients" can be cool with each other and like any human endeavors, give the benefit of the doubt in situations that require it.

 

I remain,

Respectfully yours,

othermanc@aol.com

 

I posted two examples: One is of a link I intentionally created as dead, to show that Rentmen will put up a 404 page. The other was the link from your review, which shows up as a valid Rentmen link that resolves to the escort's city.

 

My post was a response to the OP, who suggested that your review was dead. I noted that it was not, and that the problem was probably that the escort went on hiatus. As I said,

 

"The first review did link to Hayden's Rentmen ad which was no longer available at the time of the review. Rentmen will resolve to that escort's city page in that case. We do occasionally see that escorts retire or go on hiatus between the time of a reviewer's encounter and the date the review is published on Daddy's Reviews."

 

I'm sorry that you're bugged by this, but you're quoting me way out of context. Calm down. I did say that the second link was taken from your review.

[Despardo]

WOW! What a lot of verbiage simply because one escort took some time off and temporarily withdrew his ad. I keep looking for an issue here, but haven't found one.

[stop]

WOW! What a lot of verbiage simply because one escort took some time off and temporarily withdrew his ad. I keep looking for an issue here, but haven't found one.

 

A meltdown a day keeps the doctor away....

[jimboivyo]

jesus christ. these lengthy posts by so many folks here. I need a nap in the middle of reading them

[down_to_business]

"In general" overzealous fan boys do not help their escorts. One might wonder if they hire poor Hayden when othermanc might unexpectedly pop out of the closet during their session

 

My original comment was a general comment but as it is posted under a thread dedicated to Hayden, I can see how it could be taken as a knock against him. I have no complaint against Hayden personally or begrudge him for needing to take personal time off.

 

Glad to hear that the personal issues are take care of and that Hayden is back in business. Wishing you much success.

[+ othermanc]

I guess I seemed over protective of Hayden but I didn't like the insinuations I perceived. I hope I'll be forgiven for trying to help the guy.

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down_to_business it's all good. Sure, come to the defense of someone you care about. Just be careful not to overdo it would be my only advice. Feel free to take that advice or not.

 

 

othermanc

I know what you mean and I appreciate your tell me that. I can over do things. I let my emotions push me sometimes and good intentions might lead to other problems. You're wise, sir. Thanks

 

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[+ othermanc]

Falling in love with a certain escort can be hazardous to your well-being. I learned, the hard way, I guess, that sometimes one can create a scenario that is pleasant but not reality. I found that to be true recently. So my humble advice, especially to newbies like myself, is be careful! You may think you favorite escort is returning your affections but more likely he's a very good actor. It's what we pay for. But if we begin to believe it ourselves, we are are in for a rude awakening. It ain't real, pal. It's "all about the Benjamins" after all. Should be obvious, but sometimes you can look reality in the blues and not see it at all! That's what happened to me!

Well, that's it for me on this subject. Sadder but, I hope, wiser from the experience. I know better now what they mean when they say: "there's no fool like an old fool." That's me today. Thanks for listening.

[+ othermanc]

Down_to_business: you warned me!