When you hire (or hook up) do you give or get head with a condom?

[marylander1940]

I am surprised at this Marylander…I thought you were the one who was adamantly pro-condom? True, the risk of HIV transmission from oral sex is minuscule, but there are a number of other STI’s out there that can be transmitted this way, some of which are not curable. And while it’s a risk most people are willing to take, I would be hesitant to criticize someone for erring on the side of safety. In any event, Aaron indicated in his response that this was a one-off thing for him, not a general policy, so I’m not sure what the big deal is.

 

I also note that most of his reviews have been very positive, and it seems to be universally acknowledged that he is as fit and muscular in person as his pictures would suggest.

 

Yes, I'm on the no condom side of this subject.

 

I'm glad to know I can still surprised yinz, after all I'm just a 76 y/o liberal, so redundant...

 

yes, I'm but not for oral.

 

Do you only give and receive head with a condom? or this...

 

http://helenvholmes.com/gifs/lolwhut/use-condoms.gif

 

http://i.imgur.com/gXvY5.jpg

 

One thing is safety, other thing is paranoia, not "having the stomach" to do this kind of business or simply attitude, specially on his reply. If you're paying someone to have sex with you and he has bad breath, just say it, it goes the same way the other way around. I'd rather feeling uncomfortable for a minute while rinsing instead of having an escort who's not engaged.

 

Silverdollar is a well-known reviewer and he used to post often in this forum.

 

 

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Actually, I usually do insist on condoms for oral sex. Granted, that is not as fun and doesn’t feel as good. On the other hand, I imagine that a case of throat chlamydia doesn’t feel great either.

 

Please don't slutshame for giving head without a condom... it's a joke, I know you're not doing it.

 

Let's open a thread about this subject and see if you're a 1% or a 5% on this subject.

[seaboy4hire]

NO

 

Hugs,

Greg

[beachboy]

Wanna taste cock not latex!

[AdamSmith]

WITHOUT!

[+ honcho]

without. but a bit nervous about having guys cum in my mouth.

[Brian Kevin]

I can show you guys alot better than I can sit up on this forum and tell you.

 

BOOM.

[beachboy]

Hands clapping waiting for the show!

[tyro]

I can show you guys alot better than I can sit up on this forum and tell you.

 

BOOM.

Teasing us again........really, BriBri?

T

[Brian Kevin]

It's a slow day for me, thank god, amen. I needed one. So I thought I'd stick my nose a couple places it didn't belong this afternoon before I go mia for awhile. Things have been really positive around here so I am trying to milk all the good personalities while I can engage in some friendly chatting. notice me notice you. Notice it all, besides the lurkers, we can't notice them, they only notice us. I like to be watched It's really rewarding.

[beachboy]

You are definitely being watched big man & deeply appreciated.

[Brian Kevin]

Prove it-- Come to Palm Springs

[beachboy]

I so wish!

[+ quoththeraven]

I don't use a condom for oral. I am more concerned about come tasting good enough to not make a face or want to spit it out than I am about STD transmission.

 

However, I make sure that any brushing of teeth or flossing occurs well in advance, and swallowing come isn't something that happens every time.

[MikeBiDude]

Yes, I'm on the no condom side of this subject.

 

I'm glad to know I can still surprised yinz, after all I'm just a 76 y/o liberal, so redundant...

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Please don't slutshame for giving head without a condom... it's a joke, I know you're not doing it.

 

Let's open a thread about this subject and see if you're a 1% or a 5% on this subject.

We agree!!!!!! No condom for oral...

[marylander1940]

without. but a bit nervous about having guys cum in my mouth.

 

do you like the taste of precum? I think it's delicious and it's a sign the guy giving head is doing a good job.

[seaboy4hire]

do you like the taste of precum? I think it's delicious and it's a sign the guy giving head is doing a good job.

 

I love precum! And if the guy is doing a stand up job I'm like a leaky faucet.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ quoththeraven]

Side fun fact: I was 36 when I first successfully gave head. I don't believe any of the three gentlemen I've blown (not to completion in one case) produced precome.

 

I had to overcome a gag reflex. I also had an innate aversion to fellatio at first because of my perception of the power dynamics, particularly the association with being on one's knees. Before I decided I wanted to give it more of a try, only one person asked me to do it -- someone I was enough attracted to that I did my best because he asked (and asked nicely) -- and he gave up because I was so horrible at it.

[tyro]

Side fun fact: I was 36 when I first successfully gave head. I don't believe any of the three gentlemen I've blown (not to completion in one case) produced precome.

 

I had to overcome a gag reflex. I also had an innate aversion to fellatio at first because of my perception of the power dynamics, particularly the association with being on one's knees. Before I decided I wanted to give it more of a try, only one person asked me to do it -- someone I was enough attracted to that I did my best because he asked (and asked nicely) -- and he gave up because I was so horrible at it.

How are you defining success? Didn't Woody Allen say that even a bad BJ is right up there?

T

[marylander1940]

I love precum! And if the guy is doing a stand up job I'm like a leaky faucet.

 

Hugs,

Greg

 

Damn!

 

You're in the right business!

[seaboy4hire]

Damn!

 

You're in the right business!

 

Hahaha I've taken a step back from working for the time being.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ glennnn]

Without! The taste and the feel of bare cock on my tongue are the whole point for me..... And the precum and cum , of course. Some risks are just worth it.

[+ saminseattle]

Actually, I usually do insist on condoms for oral sex. Granted, that is not as fun and doesn’t feel as good. On the other hand, I imagine that a case of throat chlamydia doesn’t feel great either.

 

How many people actually are ok with that if you don't mind me asking? I'm pretty sure my sex life would go down to zero if I started making that a requirement. Over many years I've sucked and been sucked more times then I care to mention and never once have I gotten throat chlamydia. Not saying it can't happen though. Maybe if I ever decide to become a bath house betty I'll rethink it.

 

If people aren't ok with it, we don't go there. There are plenty of other fun activities imho, though I realize this is a big one for most folks. Anyway, I know I'm in the minority on this, and I will admit that I occasionally make exceptions myself. But when I do so, I recognize that I am taking a risk. I believe it is up to each individual to decide how much risk they're willing to accept when it comes to their own body and health. Hopefully, the decision is made based on the best available information and is not the result of impaired judgment or social pressure.

[caliguy]

If people aren't ok with it, we don't go there. There are plenty of other fun activities imho, though I realize this is a big one for most folks. Anyway, I know I'm in the minority on this, and I will admit that I occasionally make exceptions myself. But when I do so, I recognize that I am taking a risk. I believe it is up to each individual to decide how much risk they're willing to accept when it comes to their own body and health. Hopefully, the decision is made based on the best available information and is not the result of impaired judgment or social pressure.

Personally, I'd be shocked if someone made that a requirement. I probably would just call it off. As long as they're aware of your limitations beforehand I don't see that as a problem though.

[+ quoththeraven]

How are you defining success? Didn't Woody Allen say that even a bad BJ is right up there?

T

 

As I recall, the guy I tried it with in my 20s (in college) never got to the point of being hard. I had no idea what I was doing and he didn't instruct me, probably because of how much of a struggle he could tell it was for me.

 

That he didn't get hard would be my criterion for not a success.

[+ Charlie]

I would never put a condom in my mouth. It's just so....gross!