Whats the Longest You've gone seeing an Escort?

[Jock123]

I can Honestly say that a Majority of my Experiences have been Amazing so Far. When I first Entered the Escort world I Assumed alot of things. What I wasnt expecting was the Closeness I developed with certain clients. So much so I now consider them really Great Friends. One in Particular I see for Weeks at a time. Most of our Days are spent Talking about Life etc etc etc. I've really opened up to him In a way that makes me look at my "Job" Differently. There are those rare people In the world...whom You Just connect with...You're not sure why/how...You just DO. There are certain Clients I plan on continuing seeing after I "Retire".

 

 

My question for Clients is Whats the Longest You've seen an Escort? Whats been Your experience with seeing a guy for a long period of time? I've heard from clients often How Escorts come and go. You'll be seeing someone for 5 Years and then one day...They just Dissappear.

 

 

I think Naturally some Escorts do their best to not get "Attached". Lets be Honest, Theres always going to be some new fresh, clean cut hottie. After seeing someone for a long period of time do You find the thrill Fading?

[+ Gar1eth]

Do you mean longest at one time or do you mean repeated meetings over the years?

 

If at one time, the longest is probably about 4 days. I'm not hiring now. But if you mean repeated contacts, I'm a Facebook friend of someone I hired about 10 years ago. We don't converse a lot. But I'm fairly sure he knows who I am and how he knows me. I'm also Facebook friends with a few others. I've obviously never mentioned on their Facebook pages how we know each other.

 

Gman

[Zman]

Personally, I stick with a good escort when I find one. I prefer long term arrangements in fact. It's not something that can be forced though. You have to connect and both be interested in a sustained (professional) relationship. I've seen one escort for over three years. Happily, it's been getting better with time and hotter. I'm sure many on here have similar experiences.

 

A long term arrangement hasn't always meant that the escort and I were "friends". But sometimes we've become friends which adds to the pleasure of it.

[Jock123]

Do you mean longest at one time or do you mean repeated meetings over the years?

 

Im sorry! To Clarify I meant how Long have You known them/seen them again etc. I didnt mean how long of a session You've booked someone.

[AdamSmith]

A decade.

[big-n-tall]

There are a number I've seen when I first started this hobby (about 5-6 years ago) who I still see, some of whom retired. If someone is good and reliable, I'll see them until they no longer want to be seen.

 

My first 2 overnights ever (5 years or so ago) were with Coltt (retired) and AJ Irons. These two are the longest standing continued business relationships/friendships I've had with working guys. Coltt although retired, I speak with occasionally. The last time I had pleasurable business with him was about 2 years ago. I may visit him next year, strictly plutonicly. AJ is a dear friend who I see whenever he comes to town, for either pleasurable business, just shooting the breeze, or both. At one point, I was seeing AJ twice every trip he made here. That evolved to overnights.

 

All told, there are about 8 guys I see reoccurringly. Three of which are officially retired and one possibly retiring soon. Who knows what the outcome will be with the possible retiree for future contact.

[+ Gar1eth]

I'm not sure anyone I saw a decade ago is still escorting-at least not anyone I saw on a routine basis. So I'd have to say there are several I continued to see over a 4 or 5 year period. And as I said above I'm Facebook friends with about 5 who are now retired, and one who isn't retired but is currently keeping a low profile.

 

Gman

[body2body]

Back in the 90's I saw one guy for over 5 years. He told me one night that he had completed his education and saved enough money to open the Salon he'd always wanted (he had studied skin care). He told me he was going to stop seeing his clients. A few years later I was on a flight to Atlanta. I saw him coming down the aisle, we made eye contact, he smiled and silently mouthed "Hello", and gave me a little wave as turned to sit down. I hoped to see him as we exited the plane, but did not.

 

He looked happy (and as beautiful as ever).

[BabyBoomer]

2 years & no the thrill never faded.

 

~ Boomer ~

[+ bigjoey]

I saw one escort every 4 to 6 weeks for a weekend for close to 19 years. Others for over a decade where I would see them about every 4 to 6 weeks for a weekend. When I would find someone who was good and we had "chemistry" I would stay with them and a relationship would develop. After "retirement" sometimes they would keep me as a customer for a while (it is not unusual for someone to "retire" and keep a very small number of regular clients). I am still friendly with a few who totally retired; in one case, he and his boy friend will come and stay with me for a week about twice a year (no sex); in another case with an escort who was straight, I was invited to his wedding and whenever I traveled to his city on business, I would see him and his wife; other "long timers" I saw I still get an occasional phone call or email.

 

Because I always hired regularly for weekends rather than just an hour (after an initial meeting), these relationships evolved because they were more than just about sex. I was/am fortunate to have met some absolutely amazing men who enriched my life and taught me much. That some of these relationships continued after "retirement" does tell me that there was true friendship between us.

[jawjateck]

2-3 years. I have had a couple of guys that I hired, then didn't see them for many years, hired them again and had great times. Those with whom I was closest left this line of work and moved to a new season of life. I respect them and am happy for them, but having been at this for a long time, I know other great men are in my future. Perhaps, next week.

 

When the personal connection is good and there is respect and concern for one another's well-being, the passion and intensity of intimacy does not fade. And a few guys do stay in touch after their retirement. It's nice to hear from them occasionally and to know they are doing well.

[Jock123]

I saw one escort every 4 to 6 weeks for a weekend for close to 19 years

 

 

Wow. You get the award for the longest commitment I've ever heard of(Under these circumstances). That is Awesome.

 

 

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[+ Truereview]

Known an escort: 15 years. Longest Ive seen a working escort over time: 5 years - still see him in LA frequently. Longest uninterrupted session: 3 weeks (trip). He is an amazing travel companion from SF. Two ongoing friendships with escorts who are now retired. Lessons and friendships gained: priceless.

[bigvalboy]

12 hours....

[+ WmClarke]

I still see the first guy I ever hired. But that was only 14 months ago.

[marylander1940]

Im sorry! To Clarify I meant how Long have You known them/seen them again etc. I didnt mean how long of a session You've booked someone.

 

Would you like to edit the tittle and make the question more clear?

 

I've seen the same guy in DC, on and off, every month for the last 6 years.

 

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If at one time, the longest is probably about 4 days. I'm not hiring now. But if you mean repeated contacts, I'm a Facebook friend of someone I hired about 10 years ago. We don't converse a lot. But I'm fairly sure he knows who I am and how he knows me. I'm also Facebook friends with a few others. I've obviously never mentioned on their Facebook pages how we know each other.

 

Gman

 

damn, you must have paid a fortune (months of rent/mortgage) to see an escort for 4 days! I only pay 1 hour twice per month the most, maybe because I want to leave something for my family and I go on a trip with them every year.

 

btw, I don't think facebook friendship counts as a real friendship or as "seeing someone".

 

When will you start hiring again? When was the last time you hired an escort?

[jawjateck]

btw, I don't think facebook friendship counts as a real friendship or as "seeing someone".

 

"Blasphemy!".....saith Mr. Zuckerberg

[marylander1940]

"Blasphemy!".....saith Mr. Zuckerberg

 

I'm not trying to get into a catfight with you and I'm hoping you're using sarcasm (I'm dyslexic and sometimes I don't get written sarcasm) but this is what he said about yinz (facebook users).

 

Unfortunately the No Such Agency keeps an eye on what we post, among other things it does. I just wonder if they can tell the truth from the lies, the half truths, and the things we don't post because they're too embarrassing, boring or just failures.

 

http://www.theregister.co.uk/2010/05/14/facebook_trust_dumb/

 

http://gawker.com/5636765/facebook-ceo-admits-to-calling-users-dumb-fucks

 

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[rocky]

I can Honestly say that a Majority of my Experiences have been Amazing so Far. When I first Entered the Escort world I Assumed alot of things. What I wasnt expecting was the Closeness I developed with certain clients. So much so I now consider them really Great Friends. One in Particular I see for Weeks at a time. Most of our Days are spent Talking about Life etc etc etc. I've really opened up to him In a way that makes me look at my "Job" Differently. There are those rare people In the world...whom You Just connect with...You're not sure why/how...You just DO. There are certain Clients I plan on continuing seeing after I "Retire".

 

 

My question for Clients is Whats the Longest You've seen an Escort? Whats been Your experience with seeing a guy for a long period of time? I've heard from clients often How Escorts come and go. You'll be seeing someone for 5 Years and then one day...They just Dissappear.

 

 

I think Naturally some Escorts do their best to not get "Attached". Lets be Honest, Theres always going to be some new fresh, clean cut hottie. After seeing someone for a long period of time do You find the thrill Fading?

Well as I may have mentioned I've been seeing t his one escort now for 16 years; he's now 47 but still puts a smile on my face and still looks hot as hell. Our sex life isn't what it was but having him next to me in the morning and having him hug me, screw the hot sex.

[+ WilliamM]

btw, I don't think facebook friendship counts as a real friendship or as "seeing someone".

 

Marylander, you can manage your Facebook page, and never have more than x 'friends.' To me, 150 is too many, but everyone makes their own choice.

[Epigonos]

I am still seeing the first escort I ever met. We get together both socially and professionally. We met fifteen years ago and I consider him one of my dearest friends. I also see another escort both socially and professionally who I met about twelve or fourteen years ago. He is also a dear friend.

[marylander1940]

Marylander, you can manage your Facebook page, and never have more than x 'friends.' To me, 100 is too many, but everyone makes their own choice.

 

that's what I do.

[+ poolboy48220]

On and off over a period of 18 years or so is my longest. One of my first hires, back in 1994 or so, a good kid that advertised on & off; he'd disappear for a while then his ad would show up again. Usually the same kind of phrasing (most of this was pre-internet, no pictures, and he never advertised on the web) so I could tell it was him. The last I saw him was late 2008 or early 2009, he contacted me again to see if I wanted to meet up just after I'd been laid off, and I couldn't. I have lost touch with him since then. Funny, he wasn't my usual type (very smooth), but there was just something about him.