Clients who Post Bogus Reviews

[Jock123]

Hey Guys!

 

I've been In the Escorting business for a Few Years now. I'd say about 95% of My Experiences have been nothing short of Amazing. So much so I have a good group of regulars whom I see on a Consitent Basis. Recently I encountred what Had to be My Worse Experience with a Client...EVER. From Before, During and After we met. This guy made it his Mission to make my Time with him Miserable. He even admitted to Escorts walking out on Him...more than Once. After doing some Extensive Research I found most of his Reviews were Negative..I even contacted some of the Escorts he had met and they Basically told me the same thing. That this guy was a complete Douche.

 

Now to my Meeting with him. (Bear with me Its long)

Prior to meeting him He mentioned me cutting my rate...By almost half. I told him while I'm usually able to be Flexible...It just wasnt Feasible for me to do so as I was Traveling 6 Hours to Him(Yes You read that right). After doing some back and forth Although he was Hesitant we agreed upon my Original rate.(Red Flag number one)

 

Then Before our meeting he Sent me a Total of 54 Emails in a Matter of Weeks. Some were Short, Others Long and Explicit. We all know this Isnt normal. As a matter of fact I told him I was seeing another Regular of mine he Still managed to blow me up. I take this as being Inconsiderate...Heck even Rude. BUT I maintained being Professional the whole time.

 

Finally the Day had come for us to meet. I show Up..Hes downing Vodka already(At around 5PM mind You) and During our meeting He keeps going In the Bedroom to do something. As the night when On I learned It was Drugs(And Im not talking Weed) He started to become Mean...Mentioning how "Most Escorts are Gameplayers"..Telling me all his Bad Experiences...and then the Kicker is he started to get Violent. Not towards me but Throwing things around the room. THEN He becomes loud enough that I was worried someone might call the authroities to the room only to find Drugs. I dont do Drugs...nor do I want to be around them. Once he became Vulgar and Angry..I left.

 

A few Days later he writes a Bogus Review. Basically making me out to be 40 and out of shape. FAR from the truth. I'm In great shape...and In my early 20's. Its clear at this point He wrote these things out of spite which In the end left me explaining to others that I am Legit.

 

How do I even redeem myself from this? Not only was the guy a complete mess, Now he decides to mess with my Business...Hes taken the word troll to a whole new level. Has any other escorts had someone write bogus reviews strictly out of spite?There is MUCH more to this story but Im sparing everyone from reading three pages..Its just the Jist of it. Thanks guys.

[+ Funguy]

Sorry you had to go through this kind of childish behavior. But..........you contacted other escorts before you went through with the meet?! You still went through with it, traveling 6 hours and are you now surprised?

The only thing you can do is to give a reply, in the most honest terms, for those reviews where a reply is allowed.

Next time follow your gut - by calling previous escorts you must have had a gut reason that said, "AVOID!"

[marylander1940]

Hey Guys!

 

I've been In the Escorting business for a Few Years now. I'd say about 95% of My Experiences have been nothing short of Amazing. So much so I have a good group of regulars whom I see on a Consitent Basis. Recently I encountred what Had to be My Worse Experience with a Client...EVER. From Before, During and After we met. This guy made it his Mission to make my Time with him Miserable. He even admitted to Escorts walking out on Him...more than Once. After doing some Extensive Research I found most of his Reviews were Negative..I even contacted some of the Escorts he had met and they Basically told me the same thing. That this guy was a complete Douche.

 

Now to my Meeting with him. (Bear with me Its long)

Prior to meeting him He mentioned me cutting my rate...By almost half. I told him while I'm usually able to be Flexible...It just wasnt Feasible for me to do so as I was Traveling 6 Hours to Him(Yes You read that right). After doing some back and forth Although he was Hesitant we agreed upon my Original rate.(Red Flag number one)

 

Then Before our meeting he Sent me a Total of 54 Emails in a Matter of Weeks. Some were Short, Others Long and Explicit. We all know this Isnt normal. As a matter of fact I told him I was seeing another Regular of mine he Still managed to blow me up. I take this as being Inconsiderate...Heck even Rude. BUT I maintained being Professional the whole time.

 

Finally the Day had come for us to meet. I show Up..Hes downing Vodka already(At around 5PM mind You) and During our meeting He keeps going In the Bedroom to do something. As the night when On I learned It was Drugs(And Im not talking Weed) He started to become Mean...Mentioning how "Most Escorts are Gameplayers"..Telling me all his Bad Experiences...and then the Kicker is he started to get Violent. Not towards me but Throwing things around the room. THEN He becomes loud enough that I was worried someone might call the authroities to the room only to find Drugs. I dont do Drugs...nor do I want to be around them. Once he became Vulgar and Angry..I left.

 

A few Days later he writes a Bogus Review. Basically making me out to be 40 and out of shape. FAR from the truth. I'm In great shape...and In my early 20's. Its clear at this point He wrote these things out of spite which In the end left me explaining to others that I am Legit.

 

How do I even redeem myself from this? Not only was the guy a complete mess, Now he decides to mess with my Business...Hes taken the word troll to a whole new level. Has any other escorts had someone write bogus reviews strictly out of spite?There is MUCH more to this story but Im sparing everyone from reading three pages..Its just the Jist of it. Thanks guys.

 

First of all, I'm sorry about your bad experience with such a trashy client. I don't know how much you charge but I guarantee you an hour with you must have been way cheaper than what he should be paying for psychological help. I think you should post his number and email online to warn other escorts about him.

 

Asking for a rate cut is always a great warning, everything has a price in life, he can always try his luck on grindr and offer $50 to an amateur guy who may or may not get a hard on with him or pick up a guy on the street. He sent you that many emails? 50 over just a few weeks? You must have been the only person in his life replying to him, the guy is a total loser.

 

Please warn other about him!

[bigvalboy]

Most escorts I've talked to would have walked away at (Red Flag number one). A polite, "I don't think we will be a good match" would have sufficed. Failing that, 54 emails? Wow...(Red Flag number two) OK, I think you can safely say lessoned learned. If the review was on a site where you are afforded a response, then by all means write one. Defend yourself, be concise and to the point, but above all, be professional, and then let it go. Unkind and troubled people come with the territory, it's the cost of doing business. Good luck...

[Jock123]

Most escorts I've talked to would have walked at (Red Flag number one). A polite, "I don't think we will be a good match" would have sufficed. Failing that, 54 emails? Wow...(Red Flag number two) OK, I think you can safely say lessoned learned. If the review was on a site where you are afforded a response, then by all means, write one. Defend yourself, but be professional, and then let it go. Unkind and troubled people come with the territory, it's the cost of doing business. Good luck...

 

 

You are so right. SO many Red Flags Before we even met. In a way I was curious and WANTED to meet this Client to see if he was even A. Legit B. Not some other Escort trying to give me a hard time.

 

 

Not every experience is Great. In ANY Business Eventually You will come across someone who is Dissatisfied. I've found with the rise of Random Hookup Sites its made our Jobs(Escorts) harder as We're paying for all the bad experiences clients are starting to have.

 

 

It just makes me Sad....This guy knows I am Legit. He knows what happened and Why I left...BUT If I were a client and came across the review where he makes me sound like I am 20 years older and overweight...I wouldnt even bother asking the escort to clarify. Of course I could create a new Ad but this means I lose ALL the positive reviews I already have over the years. Pisses me off to be Honest. LUCKILY I do have Regulars whom have made me Love my Job. One In particular I spend a week with at a time. I'm all about connecting with people. Its just not money for me. Again thank goodness I know better and that a Client looking to Troll an Escort is RARE.

[Jock123]

Sorry you had to go through this kind of childish behavior. But..........you contacted other escorts before you went through with the meet?! You still went through with it, traveling 6 hours and are you now surprised?

The only thing you can do is to give a reply, in the most honest terms, for those reviews where a reply is allowed.

Next time follow your gut - by calling previous escorts you must have had a gut reason that said, "AVOID!"

 

 

 

Unfortunately I contacted them AFTER. I was busy with School and another Client before we met. Usually theres no reason for me to "Research" a client. I mean afterall why would someone Pay for something with no Intention of Enjoying it? This isnt the norm. You're right next time follow my Gut...My gut told me to not even meet him. Lesson learned.

[Epigonos]

It is simply impossible to be all things to all people thus there are times that when your gut feeling tells you this isn't going to work the best response is to politely say thank you and goodbye. I am aware that for some people, including escorts, it is difficult to say no but it is something we ALL need to learn to say. Good luck and in the future if this type of situation should ever arise again JUST SAY NO.

[Jock123]

Thanks for the Response and messages guys. One Escort told me "Dont Sweat It". I Agree. Theres so much negativity out there already...Dont feed Into the trolls. Why bother If I know the truth. The Reality is this Guy has had Multiple people walk out on him. Again If I had known this We'd never met. But as others have said always, ALWAYS Trust your gut. And that goes for both Escorts and Clients. Rarely will You be wrong. I'll be the bigger person here and just move on...eventually this guy will be exposed or piss off the wrong escort...Hes lucky I'm a nice guy.

[Guest]

That's awful.. Sorry you endured that. I think the general consensus is correct here... No shortage of red flags and in this business you've got to take red flags very serious. I would have stopped all communication with him based on the nature of the red flags. He was a haggler, a time suck, an energy waster, and ultimately very disrespectful. It's good to share these types of situations, you can save a lot of people from misery and it also validates important lessons. There's a website formerly known as "don't fuck with us . com" it has a new URL but serves the same purpose of warning your colleagues if you will from unpleasant encounters. If I were you I'd add him to the list of dregs there

In short, thank you for taking the time to share the unfortunate encounter, I hope you got some sound advice to help prevent you from future experiences with less than pleasant people.

 

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[seaboy4hire]

When it comes to business rule number 1 for me is to always follow my gut. Sorry you had to deal with this guy but always follow your gut when it comes to work. Clients, this goes for you too.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[+ purplekow]

Sounds like an unhappy man and this is an unfortunate situation for which you have some measure of responsibility. You admit to be curious as to whether this man was a fraud and yet you travelled 6 hours, one assumes 3 hours each way, to see him. I think you may have learned a valuable lesson but it came with a price.

One negative review will not likely ruin your career, but (as my mother once told me and which I laughed at then but feel differently about now) "I feel bad that you longer have a pristine reputation."

[Guest]

Look up his prior reviews. If he has multiple reviews, mostly negative, you should point that out in your response. A negative review from a reviewer who generally posts positive reviews is much more significant that a negative review from a negative nelly or a newbie reviewer.