Felt adventurous... Hired an unreviewed escort!

[Wolfer]

Oh no, not really no, just mindful of overstepping forum rules... But I did write a review of the guy I met in London so that's fine, right? It's Patrick Michaels:

www.rentboy.com/PatrickMichaels

The guy's an absolute gem. Very friendly, caring and outgoing. And funny! Loads of pillow talk to be had with him.

 

As to hiring this unreviewed guy again... I'm up in the air about it. He's really delectable and I could see that he takes the escort thing seriously, but I would certainly like to get the full hour, at least! How would I communicate this in constructive manner going into a second hire?

[AdamSmith]

You could say something like "I liked being with you so much that I want to enjoy all 60 minutes of it this time." That phrasing is a bit too blunt but something like that?

[mike carey]

I met a guy whom I had met several times before (including an almost zero cost overnight, we had fucked earlier but nothing else happened through the night), and this time I sucked him and he fucked me, 20 minutes at the most, and we were on our way. This was not what I had expected, but it confirmed the impression I was gaining that he took me for granted.

[Nebost]

First I'd just like to say that I enjoyed reading your unreviewed escort adventure, thanks for sharing with us!

 

Thanks, yeah, I agree. The reason I was surprised that the session was cut short is that when I confirmed his hourly rate he said: "I don't watch the clock, as long as we're having fun is all that matters." Didn't know that also meant that the session could be cut short instead of going into overtime.

 

He was very deft about it too, I think he'd noticed I was close to cumming, pulled off my condom and told me to cum on his chest. While I was thinking that I wanted to try out some different positions first. But I'm still learning how to handle how my brain turns to mush when I'm in a situation like that.

 

Next time I'm gonna be upfront about it and say that unless it's gonna be an hour I won't bother coming over. I don't think this guy is one for pillow talk, so I won't be hiring him for longer sessions.

 

I'm glad you posted this because I have the same issue. I'm usually quite mindful of my hour, and don't want to exceed it and be a bad client. So I usually cum within the first 40 minutes. My ideal finish would be to cuddle and relax for the remaining time, but sometimes the escort motions away like the session is over. I suppose it would be best at this point to say something like 'can we stay and relax for a bit', but I'm not always so assertive.

 

I suppose this wouldn't be a problem on a multiple hour session, but I'm not ready to commit to more than 1 hour if I've not met the guy before.