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[Edward]

Are there escorts that you may call a private collection? Those guys that are a cut above the boys that advertise on Rentboy, Rentmen, Men4rent? There has to be guys that don't advertise and are available, at a fee, for gentlemen that are will to pay the price. This is not a slam to the boys advertising on the well known web sites. I have hire many of them.

[kaboom35]

word of mouth seems to make more sense....I personally wouldn't have the balls to proposition a cater-waiter. I live in Los Angeles and I wouldn't even know how to proposition a hot model or new actor trying to make ends meet. Believe me, i've wanted to! haha

[rguer]

word of mouth seems to make more sense....I personally wouldn't have the balls to proposition a cater-waiter. I live in Los Angeles and I wouldn't even know how to proposition a hot model or new actor trying to make ends meet. Believe me, i've wanted to! haha

Yeah, this is one of the few disadvantages of being an introvert.

[m.yi]

word of mouth seems to make more sense....I personally wouldn't have the balls to proposition a cater-waiter. I live in Los Angeles and I wouldn't even know how to proposition a hot model or new actor trying to make ends meet. Believe me, i've wanted to! haha

 

+1

[jimboivyo]

or you can come across as a creepy old guy. no thanks!

 

I think private stock guys are mostly a thing of the past

[AdamSmith]

Yeah, this is one of the few disadvantages of being an introvert.

 

I made a fascinating discovery a couple of decades ago. It came after a couple years of 5 days a week on the couch but anyway: Introversion is chosen, not ordained from on high. A lifelong introvert, I tried acting like an extrovert for a change. And wonder of wonders, it works. And then the rewards are self-reinforcing.

 

Addiction recovery programs have their own version of this wisdom: It's usually very difficult to think our way into new modes of acting, but surprisingly easy to act our way into new modes of thinking.

 

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[+ WmClarke]

Although it's a cliche, we only regret the chances we didn't take. How you approach a guy is also as important as when you approach him. Smile, use friends to help introduce you, seem fun and exciting yourself, be easy to approach yet difficult to obtain, and it brief like 5 minutes tops. Why don't you act as if this guy's father or mother was watching you pick them up and act accordingly?

 

A few weeks ago, I went to my local Trader Joe's and was surprised when one of the workers (not the cashier who rang me up) asked if I need it help to my car. First I didn't buy that much groceries and two I'm in mid-to-late 30s. When he got to my car and unloaded the groceries, I said that felt I like I should tip him. I gave the 19yo like what $5 dollars and my number. He texted me on my drive home and told me he could skateboard over to my place when he got off his shift in a few hours. How do you expect to make friends if you don't talk to strangers?

What happened next? Inquiring minds want to know! Did he carry the groceries and put them away for another $5?

[Lankypeters]

There used to be a "code" question to find out if a guy worked other shifts. It was "Are you a flight attendant?" Is this pitch still viable?

[+ Gar1eth]

Although it's a cliche, we only regret the chances we didn't take. How you approach a guy is also as important as when you approach him. Smile, use friends to help introduce you, seem fun and exciting yourself, be easy to approach yet difficult to obtain, and it brief like 5 minutes tops. Why don't you act as if this guy's father or mother was watching you pick them up and act accordingly?

 

A few weeks ago, I went to my local Trader Joe's and was surprised when one of the workers (not the cashier who rang me up) asked if I need it help to my car. First I didn't buy that much groceries and two I'm in mid-to-late 30s. When he got to my car and unloaded the groceries, I said that felt I like I should tip him. I gave the 19yo like what $5 dollars and my number. He texted me on my drive home and told me he could skateboard over to my place when he got off his shift in a few hours. How do you expect to make friends if you don't talk to strangers?

 

Yeah but it's one thing being in your 30's and I'm going to assume you are in reasonably good shape. It's something else entirely being an unattractive chubby (Internet code for fat) 54 year old guy.

 

Gman

[Griffondog]

I appreciate we are bit off topic, but the Trader Joe's story prompted me to add that we've hooked up with a surprising number of valets (the car park kind). I'm still scratching my head why that has been happening. I agree with the general concept: be approachable and friendly, ask guys you meet how they are doing (and really mean it), and surprising things happen all the time.

[+ Gar1eth]

With regard to the Trader Joe's guy, he's a nice guy and has even nicer friends...Networking doesn't have to be just work-related. It's great socially and I'm in INTJ on the Myers-Briggs scale and therefore clearly an introvert.

I'm actually a fairly chatty person although not when trying to meet someone for sex.

 

You're only as confident as you present yourself.

That only works up to a certain point. If you are unattractive' date=' your own confidence doesn't get you too far.

If you're fat, lose weight. Change the changeable and lead with your strengths.

Yeah, that's not really going to happen.

 

I'm not saying any of what you said is impossible for a guy like me. But it's definitely unlikely and improbable. If not being an introvert was all it took, I'd have the scraps of papers with the numbers of numerous guys or equivalently their numbers in my Contact List on my phone.

 

Gman

[AdamSmith]

That only works up to a certain point. If you are unattractive, your own confidence doesn't get you too far. Yeah, that's not really going to happen.

 

Respectfully, I have to disagree. More than once I've started talking with some stranger whom I didn't find physically attractive from across the room, but then, in conversation, got interested in and went home with. And I'm sure others have had that same sequence of reactions to me.

[+ WilliamM]

I'm not saying any of what you said is impossible for a guy like me. But it's definitely unlikely and improbable. If not being an introvert was all it took, I'd have the scraps of papers with the numbers of numerous guys or equivalently their numbers in my Contact List on my phone.

 

I agree that one can learn to talk to strangers. It's the next step that is very difficult for me (and apparently you. Gman).

 

Why? Because then it becomes clear that you started the conversation under somewhat false circumstances.

[+ Gar1eth]

That only works up to a certain point. If you are unattractive, your own confidence doesn't get you too far. Yeah, that's not really going to happen.

 

Respectfully, I have to disagree. More than once I've started talking with some stranger whom I didn't find physically attractive from across the room, but then, in conversation, got interested in and went home with. And I'm sure others have had that same sequence of reactions to me.

 

Well, I can definitely say I've never been at a party with you, unfortunately for me. Really if these kind of things had ever happened to me, I wouldn't have spent 12 years hiring. I hired mainly because that was just about the only chance I ever had the possibility of sex.

 

Gman

[+ Gar1eth]

I agree that one can learn to talk to strangers. It's the next step that is very difficult for me (and apparently you. Gman).

 

Why? Because then it becomes clear that you started the conversation under somewhat false circumstances.

 

Well, I wouldn't say the circumstances were false. There is most always an underlying reason for starting a conversation. And sex is just as good a reason as any other and better than a lot.

 

Gman

[Edward]

I hire because what I want I can no longer attract otherwise. I can attract plenty of guys in my age bracket and somewhat younger. But that is not what I am looking for.

[+ WilliamM]

Well, I wouldn't say the circumstances were false. There is most always an underlying reason for starting a conversation. And sex is just as good a reason as any other and better than a lot.

 

Gman

 

Gman, I wrote somewhat false..

[Irtwo]

More than once I've started talking with some stranger whom I didn't find physically attractive from across the room, but then, in conversation, got interested in and went home with.

 

So true. I've experienced this quite a few times, where a guy I have ZERO attraction to has won me over after spending some time talking. It also points out one of the downsides to using the internet to try and meet guys, because it's hard for most people to get past the photos.

[Lookin]

More than once I've started talking with some stranger whom I didn't find physically attractive from across the room, but then, in conversation, got interested in and went home with.

 

Me too, and usually right around closing time. http://www.boytoy.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

[AdamSmith]

Me too, and usually right around closing time. http://www.boytoy.com/forums/public/style_emoticons/default/rolleyes.gif

 

Outed!

[AdamSmith]

In fact this is the place for that if you happen to be in Boston: http://boston.gaycities.com/bars/131-eagle

[+ VeryHappyCustomer]

There has to be guys that don't advertise and are available, at a fee, for gentlemen that are will to pay the price.

Of course there are. The guys who advertise are a small minority. Discreet, mutually beneficial relationships are the norm, rather than the exception. But those guys are not "a cut above" the ones who advertise. The main distinction is that a much higher level of discretion is required to make it work. For example, writing a review would be unthinkable.

 

The way you treat people is much more important than the way you look. I agree with Barnaby Gil that word-of-mouth is important. If you're kind, clean, generous, and discreet the word will get around... and guys will come to you. But if you gossip or boast, word of that will also get around... and nobody will trust you.

[thickornotatall]

I like meeting new people...and not just for sex....but more to add a new dimension to my life...we go to the same restaurant for breakfast on Sunday...every waiter/manager/is extremely good looking...some to the point of distraction....Cheesecake Factory must hire from a modeling agency/fitness business...the level of niceness is off the charts...I am careful not to be too forward....Breakfast never looked or tasted so good...See you on Sunday!

[Juan Vancouver]

I personally wouldn't have the balls to proposition a cater-waiter

 

Yeah, this is one of the few disadvantages of being an introvert.

 

I would say that that is one of the very few disadvantages of being respectful and polite, not of being an introvert.

 

There used to be a "code" question to find out if a guy worked other shifts. It was "Are you a flight attendant?" Is this pitch still viable?

 

Nope.

 

I think 2o or 30 years ago there used to be tons of little codes, secret passwords, signals and hanky codes to make your availability known to other men who also in the know. Nowadays being gay is not the crippling stigma it used to be, therefore people find there is less need of codes. This is especially true of the newer generations. A simple introductory conversation will suffice.

[coriolis888]

or you can come across as a creepy old guy. no thanks!

 

I think private stock guys are mostly a thing of the past

 

I absolutely agree with the two sentences.