using a dildo before escort session

[Xenon79]

For the bottoms:

 

Do you play with a dildo a bit before meeting up with an escort to ensure cleanliness? I just ordered my first dildo and its coming in a couple of days. Is it safe to say that if i play with the dildo a bit before my session and it comes out clean, i won't have issue with the escort? I got an 8 inch dildo.

 

***I apologize for my posts about being clean and this will be my last one, as you can see this is a huge concern/worry spot for me. I think porn has ruined me because they make it looks so flawless. lol. ***

[TruthBTold]

Why should this be your last posting? Ask what you want. Not everyone can read every post or has the ability to search to bring things up.

At any rate, if I plan on bottoming (not my usual province) I will use a few dildos to work myself up to be able to take the expected cock more comfortably. It takes a little time but I find it helps. However, I am not sure if it is the dildo that assures cleanliness. That might be just a matter of making sure you allow enough time that you are more assured that the majority of the water you use to flush yourself comes out. I have found that I have more "mistakes" when I have not allowed sufficient time as opposed to using the right dildo to open myself up. Other people might have other experiences.

[Xenon79]

sorry...I only said that cause my only postings have been about being "clean down there". I guess I assumed if the dildo was coming out clean I would be good to go.

 

As for the enema....if i use just a regular fleet one...how much water is suppose to be deposited (so to speak). it says on the bottle not to put all of it in. Do i use half the bottle? (yes, i do empty it out the liquid that comes with it and use regular warm tap water)

[Juan Vancouver]

I guess I assumed if the dildo was coming out clean I would be good to go.

 

You might be thinking of your ass as a room with one door. If you clean the room, in theory it would stay clean. Problem is it has two doors. One in the front, the one through which you probe, and one in the back, where more stuff comes from.

 

Nothing will ensure you are clean. The human body is capricious and unpredictable. That is why it is so important to know the best technique to clean up and practice it so that you know what you're doing. Once you have certain competence in doing so, you will be able to relax, which is the whole point of the exercise.

 

As for the enema....if i use just a regular fleet one..

 

Don't.

 

Don't use a fleet enema. Those are designed for vaginal douches and for light hygiene anal douches. An enema fleet will NOT prepare you for a vigorous session with a man above average.

 

If you keep using Fleet enemas you will never -ever- know what's happening down there and you will suffer accident after accident. In other words, if you don't learn to correctly douche will will never be able to experience the ecstatic joy of being properly fucked.

 

As the voice over before the Million dollar man said, "we have the means, we have the technology!". Now, in modern times we KNOW how to prepare for anal sex. I sincerely recommend you to search this forum and find this information.

 

No fasting. No Fleet enemas. No laxatives. No dietary restrictions. No complicated processes.

[Xenon79]

No fasting. No Fleet enemas. No laxatives. No dietary restrictions. No complicated processes.

 

Juan I respect your opinion...would love to know what you advise for "proper " cleaning or send me links. Thanks.

[Juan Vancouver]

As I wrote to you directly in another thread you need to learn to use douching tools like the Streemmaster or shower attached shower hoses.

 

Don't have links, but if you do a search in this forum you will find many different threads about this.

 

If I were you, I would skip the recommendations made by clients which tend to be on the complicated side. Pay close attention to the recommendations of established escorts with a history of bottoming. These men do this VERY often and have made an art of douching.

 

Best of luck!

[marylander1940]

For the bottoms:

 

Do you play with a dildo a bit before meeting up with an escort to ensure cleanliness? I just ordered my first dildo and its coming in a couple of days. Is it safe to say that if i play with the dildo a bit before my session and it comes out clean, i won't have issue with the escort? I got an 8 inch dildo.

 

***I apologize for my posts about being clean and this will be my last one, as you can see this is a huge concern/worry spot for me. I think porn has ruined me because they make it looks so flawless. lol. ***

 

Better safe than sorry, I'm sure it's a nice way to test it.

[Xenon79]

If I were you, I would skip the recommendations made by clients which tend to be on the complicated side. Pay close attention to the recommendations of established escorts with a history of bottoming. These men do this VERY often and have made an art of douching.

 

And I did ask an escort who has a history of bottoming and he told me about the fleet enema. So there you go.

 

I'll do my research. thanks

[Juan Vancouver]

And I did ask an escort who has a history of bottoming and he told me about the fleet enema. So there you go.

 

There I go indeed.

 

Now the only question that needs to be answered is "What would you prefer to prove me wrong or would you prefer to find a fool proof method to prepare for anal sex so that you are able to relax and experience the ecstatic pleasure it can bring?"

 

Respectfully, I agree with whatever your answer is.

[Xenon79]

Respectfully, I agree with whatever your answer is.

 

And I respectfully appreciate your advice and had no intention in trying to "prove you wrong". You have been most helpful and hope you come to Los Angeles sometime so I can spend some time with you Juan I have/am doing my research

[Butch_Planetjockboys]

Hope you don't mind me chiming in... I have this discussion frequently with our models. Its nice to hear a client wants to be clean. A few suggestions that I give my guys.

1. eat a high fiber diet or take a fiber supplement.. that's natures way of keeping you clean.

2. enemas, which are designed to make you void your bowels are effective (they aren't douches, I think the one responder confused them), however, they tend to dry out the natural lubrication the rectum has in it, making anal sex less comfortable for the bottom, and long term that's not healthy either.

3. You can use an enema bottle and just use water, which is less abrasive to your rectal tissue.

4. And remember, if you feel like you have "to go" or "smell something" you can always say.. give me a minute and go to the bathroom. Trust me, the top will appreciate that, versus the alternative. If it is messy, clean with soap and water. Hepatitis A is transmitted through fecal matter of an infected person.

5. Accidents happen, if they tend to happen frequently to you discuss this with your escort so that he can take measures to protect his sheets, etc. Save him some effort esp if he's in a hotel room.

 

My two cents

Butch

Jockboys

[Tony9113]

I have a couple of friends women who use the services of an escort when traveling. They did not embarrassed to discuss it with me, because they know that I love to have fun with the girls from escort too. I even advised them sites where they can buy sex toys, because I have a lot of them ( http://www.toydemon.com/for-her ) And they use sex toys before escort session and it`s quite diverse toys. They say that it helps not to waste time and get more pleasure.

[soccerlegs2002]

I enjoy a clean out using warm water and a squeeze-bulb when I'm planning to bottom. It's not fool proof but does help and the effort helps prepare me mentally for the experience.

 

Agree wholeheartedly on the high fiber diet, btw. Good call.

[tampajohn]

I tend to use dildo's before meeting with an escort. I hire BBC so I like to make sure I'm able to take the big black cock.. Black men tend to go deep so I like to make sure I'm clean too. Every now and then I run across an escort who actually has a dildo.

[curiousnomore]

I've never used a dildo before an appointment. Until now, lol. My favorite guy was too girthy last time. Next time will be different!

[sincitymix]

no. I want the escort to work on fitting the very large weapon of mass destruction into the very small hole.. err wait you said cleanliness.. nope no problem with cleanliness

[rvwnsd]

I recently asked my favorite escort, who has fucked me on many occasions, if he would like me to use a butt plug or dildo to loosen up. His answer: "I like you tight." He did an incredible job of loosening me up, among other things, Sunday night.

[wisconsinguy]

You might be thinking of your ass as a room with one door. If you clean the room, in theory it would stay clean. Problem is it has two doors. One in the front, the one through which you probe, and one in the back, where more stuff comes from.

 

Nothing will ensure you are clean. The human body is capricious and unpredictable. That is why it is so important to know the best technique to clean up and practice it so that you know what you're doing. Once you have certain competence in doing so, you will be able to relax, which is the whole point of the exercise.

 

 

 

Don't.

 

Don't use a fleet enema. Those are designed for vaginal douches and for light hygiene anal douches. An enema fleet will NOT prepare you for a vigorous session with a man above average.

 

If you keep using Fleet enemas you will never -ever- know what's happening down there and you will suffer accident after accident. In other words, if you don't learn to correctly douche will will never be able to experience the ecstatic joy of being properly fucked.

 

As the voice over before the Million dollar man said, "we have the means, we have the technology!". Now, in modern times we KNOW how to prepare for anal sex. I sincerely recommend you to search this forum and find this information.

 

No fasting. No Fleet enemas. No laxatives. No dietary restrictions. No complicated processes.

I am not quite sure about your comments about Fleets enemas. I have never heard of the Fleets enema being used as a vaginal douche. Unless the Fleet brand put one out for vaginal douches, but then it would labeled as such. I have been giving Fleets enemas to patients all my life. Never used it for a vaginal douche. The Fleets enema has a somewhat oily consistency, and if I had one, I wouldn't want it in my vagina. Women have a variety of products to chose from. I can see that it would not be the choice in cleaning in preparation in meeting an escort.

[AdamSmith]

His answer: "I like you tight."

 

+1

 

I would use an escort before a dildo session.

[Juan Vancouver]

I am not quite sure about your comments about Fleets enemas. I have never heard of the Fleets enema being used as a vaginal douche. Unless the Fleet brand put one out for vaginal douches, but then it would labeled as such. I have been giving Fleets enemas to patients all my life. Never used it for a vaginal douche. The Fleets enema has a somewhat oily consistency, and if I had one, I wouldn't want it in my vagina. Women have a variety of products to chose from. I can see that it would not be the choice in cleaning in preparation in meeting an escort.

 

Let me be succinct.

 

Don't use a fleet enema as preparation for anal sex. It will not clean you deep enough and you will end up having accidents. They are not designed for cleaning, they are designed for causing a bowel movement. They are sold as a laxative.

 

When you are going to be playing with your ass you don't want to activate your ass. You want to empty it and put it in stasis.

 

Also, if you are using the fleet version that has mineral oil in it, not only are you activating your ass to expel more faeces, you are also putting oil in your ass which will without a shadow of a doubt eat into the condom and possibly create tears in it.

 

Worst possible scenario.

 

Just don't.

[wisconsinguy]

Let me be succinct.

 

Don't use a fleet enema as preparation for anal sex. It will not clean you deep enough and you will end up having accidents. They are not designed for cleaning, they are designed for causing a bowel movement. They are sold as a laxative.

 

When you are going to be playing with your ass you don't want to activate your ass. You want to empty it and put it in stasis.

 

Also, if you are using the fleet version that has mineral oil in it, not only are you activating your ass to expel more faeces, you are also putting oil in your ass which will without a shadow of a doubt eat into the condom and possibly create tears in it.

 

Worst possible scenario.

 

Just don't.

When we talk about "cleaning," aren't we talking about evacuation of feces as well? A bowel movement. I would not use a Fleets myself. So many others have suggested far better options.

[SeattleWorkingMan]

Here is my routine to be ready, clean and confident for my most well-endowed escort top.

 

I want every crevice to smell good and taste good for him from his first kiss to his last lick. So, a day before our appointment, I use a wash cloth, soap, and water after every trip to the bathroom.

 

About two hours before we meet, I fill my enema bottle with cool to lukewarm water and douche. I sit upright and try to fill up my rectum without spilling into my colon. That way my colon doesn’t retain excess water. Any excess water in the colon will eventually come out; a professional will be kind during such an embarrassing incident, but I’d prefer that my top completely enjoy deep intercourse uninterrupted.

 

I continue to douche until the water comes out clear. To ensure a deep clean, I insert a well-lubed 9-inch dildo with 5 beads. Each bead is 4.5 inches in circumference at its widest point and a mere 2.75 inches at its narrowest. The narrow dildo opens me enough to get clean, but still leaves me tight for my top.

 

I practice relaxing and taking the dildo slowly. I gently remove and reinsert it several times before taking another bead. The third bead fills my rectum and can tell me if I need to douche again. For the fourth and fifth beads to enter my sigmoid colon, I relax and gently push. When I’ve completely swallowed the dildo, it is at least 10.5 includes inside. At that depth, I sit on the stool in case of an urge or excess water.

 

Also at that depth, it is not unusual to need to douche again. Afterwards, I repeat the slow insertion and removal of the dildo until every bead comes out clean. Then I douche once more with a much smaller amount of water to expel any excess lube in my rectum. Finally, I slip my middle finger inside. If it I can feel my rectum unfold and I still feel comfortable and empty, I’m ready. As I remove my finger, the last dribbles of water spill out and I’m ready to shower.

 

My unhurried routine relaxes me and wakes me up to anal pleasure. It gives me confidence that the most well-endowed and aggressive top and I can enjoy fucking without a mishap.

[Jon Royce]

One of the advantages of having scheduled sex is the ability to prepare. After a thorough clean out I do use a slightly lubed dildo to loosen up. Having to waste time trying to get a cock in is not a good use of time. I prefer the top be able to get in quickly and get to business. Clean and efficient.

[jj69action]

For the bottoms:

 

Do you play with a dildo a bit before meeting up with an escort to ensure cleanliness? I just ordered my first dildo and its coming in a couple of days. Is it safe to say that if i play with the dildo a bit before my session and it comes out clean, i won't have issue with the escort? I got an 8 inch dildo.

 

***I apologize for my posts about being clean and this will be my last one, as you can see this is a huge concern/worry spot for me. I think porn has ruined me because they make it looks so flawless. lol. ***

[jj69action]

It doesn't hurt, If I have a uncertain cleaning session I will use a dildo to confirm and stimulate to make sure all is well for myself as well as for my escort.....hope this helps.