Help with what's appropriate when flying an escort in...

[Amoco]

Really, Juan? You just keep telling yourself that....

 

You took a private event that had absolutely nothing to do with this discussion and presented limited information that was intended to suggest that your rejection of me in the past was the real reason I have difficulty with what you describe as your boundaries. You've said just enough to imply that this all about "sour grapes" but not enough to suggest that it was a breach of confidentiality. That's not how this works, Juan. You don't decide what's compromising. Confidentiality means you can neither acknowledge or deny contact or awareness - it's not just about not going into specific conversations or events.

 

Our past interaction had no business in this discussion, especially when it was borne out of Juan's frustration. The bind for me is that not responding to it now further fuels the notion that Juan is, indeed, correct and that I'm covering something up. I'll live with that for now, but would ask you all to trust that what happened between Juan and I was brief, insignificant and totally unrelated to current events. I choose to keep in private because to tell the story, I would have to share personal information that I'd prefer not sharing. Juan knows this well, and also knows who rejected who, when the rejection took place and Why it happened. He also knows the follow up story. And will say again, this is an intentional breach and it was despicable.

[Dave]

you know what? I’ve had several thoughts on this thread. but now, I’m exhausted with so many things that have been written - that I’m going to remain silent on the main subject.

 

I will say one thing though: Robberbaron4u, your comment “you actually expected a man who sells his body for a living to be principled in his dealings with you???” disappoints me, disgraces me, and disgusts me. I'm wondering, would you actually say that to my face?

[+ KinkyNEguy]

From the sidelines, I have to add that I am surprised that someone so involved in our hobby as Robber, someone whom often puts forth recommendations for so many new guys, would hold the entire field in such disregard. It makes me sad. There is room for both professionalism and forgiveness here.