Do you give this advice to your clients?

[loverboy95]

This is inspired by a thread that is currently in The Deli. Do any of you tell your clients that you are not a substitute for a relationship? Do you encourage your clients to find real relationships outside of your meetings with them?

 

I have seen an escort who said this to me when I first met him. I just want to see if there are other escorts who tell their clients the same thing.

[Juan Vancouver]

It depends.

 

There's clients who hire for a good, professional, athletic fuck. Even regularly. And I never get the idea that meeting me is hindering their ability to be intimate or have a relationship.

 

There is also the training wheels kind of client, someone that is starting to explore man on man sex, people who just came out or became newly single and want to meet an escort as a way to learn and prepare for a relationship. It is often with clients like this that you reach a moment when you get a sense that the chick is ready to fly away from the nest. I always encourage my clients to make sure that the only intimacy they get is from escorts, I always urge them to look for a personal connection.

 

When my client gains the confidence and gets a relationship it gives me a profound sense of a shared accomplishment. You worked together for this moment, and it gives me a great satisfaction.

[+ azdr0710]

I always encourage my clients to make sure that the only intimacy they get is from escorts

 

 

hey Juan....I presume you meant to say "NOT" only from escorts, right?....or am I missing something here?

[Juan Vancouver]

hey Juan....I presume you meant to say "NOT" only from escorts, right?....or am I missing something here?

 

Dear Juan: Please remember not to post anything on the internet whenever you are spent, tired and at the brink of falling asleep. Thank you. =)

 

You Sir, are of course correct. I meant to say exactly the opposite of what I wrote. Thank you for bringing my attention to it. I guess the New Year's celebrations took the best out of my brain. =)

[RSully94]

Personally, as a client, I hire guys I wouldn't be able to be with in regular circumstances.

 

My boyfriend for the past 2 months doesn't look like the guys I'd hire off Rentboy/Backpage.

[jimboivyo]

This is inspired by a thread that is currently in The Deli. Do any of you tell your clients that you are not a substitute for a relationship? Do you encourage your clients to find real relationships outside of your meetings with them?

 

I have seen an escort who said this to me when I first met him. I just want to see if there are other escorts who tell their clients the same thing.

 

I've had one guy tell me that

 

it was very honest, very sweet advice from a caring person