Ever Felt Like Booking for a "Mere" Hour Was a Nuisance

[jusmeinbr]

Hi Guys. I'm just stunned at all I'm able to read on this site!! Just wish I'd found it years ago! I was just curious as to whether any clients of escorts have ever felt like they were essentially a nuisance in only desiring a one-hour appointment? I ask because the 2nd guy I met with in New Orleans is one guy who did make me end up feeling that way. I saw his ad on Men4Rent, and we set up a time. His ad depicted a 24-year-old, but the moment he greeted me at the door, I could easily tell he was approaching 40 (which, back then, was only a couple years younger than I was).

 

Anyway, despite the temporary "surprise," he was only the 2nd escort with whom I met and, though about 15 years older than his ad relayed, I went straight on into his condominium in the FQ. It was a FANTASTIC encounter for me, and I know he could tell I was thrilled. Before I departed, he said, "Sit down a while and visit. I like to get to know my clients." You have to remember that I was essentially brand new to this whole business back then (2003). With the benefit of the knowledge I have now, I realize what he was doing was reminiscing on his career as he clearly knew it was nearing an end. He said, "I've had a great career escorting. I own this condo free and clear and escorting provided every dime of the funds to pay for it." He then asked if I was sure I didn't want to "stay longer, maybe for the night or the weekend." I relayed that I appreciated his invitation (of course, I was new to all this but I knew that would cost a fortune, at least for me). He said that he understood but then added, "Look. I take credit cards, and I've had guys use their cards to charge of to $3,000." I just politely relayed that was "way out of my league" (which it is), but that I'd love to meet with him again soon.

 

We did meet another 2-3 times, but the final meeting was nothing short of a disaster. Though we'd planned the meeting two days before, when he entered my hotel room (I was in NO for another event), he was nice, but he relayed he was under time constraints because "today my boyfriend and I celebrate our anniversary, and I'm already running late." Well, I read in a post in the Deli about an apparently-famous escort, Austin Wolf, slapping a client, and someone else responded that such an action was completely unacceptable unless agreed upon as part of the encounter. Well, I'm going to just admit to everyone that my MAJOR turn-on is to be spanked (typically pretty hard with a frat paddle before the session is over). In fact, the only other things I really enjoy are worshiping a guy's feet and maybe having him sit on my face (every escort has said I'm "easy" to please). Well, he was in such a hurry that he wasn't pacing himself and his swings were landing VERY unpredictably (that's in sharp contrast to previous sessions we'd had). Well, one swing went high and barely even caught any of my buttocks but mainly hit my lower back. I didn't want to say anything, but I felt I had to (it destroys the mindset and mood), so I said, "Please not so high." He just responded, "Well, you have to tell me these things!" We were only about 10-12 minutes into our session, but I told him that he could go ahead and enjoy dinner with his boyfriend. He was unique in that he took credit cards, so I handed him mine (there was a $20 surcharge to use the credit card he told me, but I hadn't gone to an ATM so I relayed that was fine). Once he left, I reflected back on our first meeting and it sort of sank in to me that he really didn't like one-hour clients, and that last session demonstrated it more than anything. About 8 months or so later, he was gone from the escorting business and I've never seen another ad for him. I assume he knew the "shelf life" was up and that was part of his frustration my one-hour sessions.

 

So, I was just wondering if anyone else has ever been made to feel like a one-hour session is a nuisance to the escort.

 

BTW, just if anyone's interested in a future post on this topic, I uncovered what would turn out to be a REALLY interesting situation once I saw the company's name on the credit card. I decided to see if it was registered with the Louisiana Secretary of State's Office. It WAS, and boy did that turn out to be an interesting revelation of what all I learned though I never shared it with any other escorts with whom I met even though it involved one escort in particular. I'll post just what all I learned if anybody indicates they're curious, but I'd just like to know if anyone has been made to feel like an hour session is a nuisance.

 

Kevin

[sincitymix]

I can count the number of escorts I've been with on one hand, and still have fingers left. I personally hire for 2 hours at a minimum, and so far haven't been told Hour only. I don't want to feel rushed or rush the escort to perform like some mindless sex robot.

[loverboy95]

Every time I hire, I try to go for more than an hour (even 90 minutes). I always want more time just so I can get to know the escort more and so we can have more play time. An hour just feels like we won't have that much time to get everything in.

[big-n-tall]

Usually when I hire a guy for the 1st time, it's usually only for an hour. I rather test the waters so to speak to make sure we're compatible. Now there were a few occasions I wish I hired for longer for the initial meeting. However, for the most part the 1st meet, 1 hour rule seems to work for me.

 

I don't stick hard and fast to that rule though. There were times I was out of town (and the escort had to drive a decent distance to meet me) or I brought the escort to me from out-of-state, so I would do a few hours or overnight.

[jusmeinbr]

I really appreciate the feedback you guys have given. Over the past decade, I've met with about 20 escorts (all in New Orleans, either based there or visiting), for a total of approximately 60-70 encounters. In most instances, I'm done in 15 minutes, 20 minutes, tops, and in all instances I've merely jerked myself off myself with mere reflection of what had just transpired, thus requiring no effort on the part of the escort except possibly placing his bare feet in close proximity to my face. Out of those 60 encounters (all one hour), the one I referenced above was the ONLY time I felt that way, so based on what you guys are relaying, I guess I should consider myself lucky. Of the approximate 20 escorts, over half have gotten repeat business from me, with the most being around 12 encounters (he has apparently retired as I've seen no ad for him in almost a year). For none of the other approximate 19 escorts was I ever provided the impression I was expecting anyone to perform like a "mindless sex robot." Nevertheless, I appreciate you guys' responses very much as it's providing to me a better insight into that mentality.

 

Though the facts leading to it are themselves intriguing, I'm just going to relay that the escort in question was using the credit card service of another escort whom I'd met with and who REALLY WAS the 24-year-old he represented himself to be in the ad. Long story short, he asked if I'd met with any other escorts, and I gave him a couple of names (that they went by on the site) even though, at that point, it was only 3-4 or so. When I provided the name of the guy referenced above, it was obvious he was TOTALLY infatuated with him (and THAT's who got called to run the credit charge through over the phone). He would pump me for anything I could relay (which wasn't much) about the escort referenced above, and he even pushed for me to have a three-some with the other escort, but I told him there was a REASON I was with him and not the other escort, and it was that I found him more appealing (which he found hard to believe). Well, he said, and I'm quoting, "Well, I've told him he better find another way to make a living because otherwise he'll end up dealing drugs when this career is over." That particular guy got to be on such friendly terms with me that he even relayed he'd gotten "busted" by the N. O. Police. I see someone actually copied and pasted the ENTIRE Times Picayune newspaper article to this forum so anyone can read about it all these years later. Well, as I said, I had his full name merely because it was his name registered on the Louisiana Secretary of State website for accepting the credit cards. Well, about a year ago, I just decided to Google the name on a lark. About two pages into the results was a PDF file showing a Federal criminal case entailing trafficking in heroin and crystal meth. THAT is what I would refer to as "mindless." Again, thanks for the posts, guys, because I very much value your insight.