Threesome fee?

[Jax92]

I'm wondering why escorts charge an extra fee for a threesome if the client provides the third person. If an escort's rate is for their time, why would an additional person change that? I'm not opposed to it; I'm just trying to understand the rationale. Thanks for any input.

[Steven_Draker]

Probably because pleasing two different guys is more demanding than focusing on one person at a time.

 

My suggestion is to do threesomes with people you have previously met on a one-on-one basis.

[Griffondog]

My partner and I only hire for threesomes. An increase in the rate is common. It's usually in the neighborhood of 50% of the posted rate, which seems completely reasonable to me given twice the demands on the escort. I actually think a pretty good case could be made it's more than twice the work for the escort. Not just physically, but the escort also needs to deal with two personalities and be aware of (at least in our case) the clients' relationship and any accompanying emotional land mines.

[down_to_business]

The answer depends totally on the escort. There are escorts out there that have no additional charge for extra person(s) and there are escorts out there that will try to double the fee. The best course of action is to ask your escort as this will vary just like everything else (i.e. what the standard hours of an overnight are).

[Dave]

the escort also needs to deal with two personalities and be aware of (at least in our case) the clients' relationship and any accompanying emotional land mines.

 

couldn't agree more! it's amazing to me how many times two people hiring come into a session with two different attitudes, priorities, and/or expectations. I've found that there's a much greater chance for discrepancies when dealing with an opposite-sex couple, as opposed to a same-sex couple, and my rates for the two people hiring even reflect that:

 

http://legendarydave.com/how/how-much (section entitled "You, Me, and a Third Person that You Supply")

[Jax92]

Thank you for your responses. What you have stated makes sense.

[Juan Vancouver]

I actually think a pretty good case could be made it's more than twice the work for the escort. Not just physically, but the escort also needs to deal with two personalities and be aware of (at least in our case) the clients' relationship and any accompanying emotional land mines.

 

Beautifully put. Focusing on two clients is quite an exciting but delicate task. You have to make sure that both are getting the same amount of attention, nobody feels left out, you have to understand what each of them is hoping to get out of the experience and lastly you have to understand the unspoken discrepancies between expectations and the boundaries that couples have. You have to get close to the boundary to make it exciting, making sure never to go beyond it.

 

I love working with couples. My only condition is that both partners are excited about the session and both agree on the boundaries. When booking a couples session I try to speak with both of them to make sure we are all on the same wavelength.

 

If the session, however is one client and one or more escorts, my rate is unchanged as long as I am shown an active advertisement of each one of the escorts. I do this because a couple clients know of my rule and have tried to make their boyfriends pass as escorts. =( If your "escort" who will be joining us doesn't have an active ad then I will charge a couples' rate.

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

Beautifully put. Focusing on two clients is quite an exciting but delicate task. You have to make sure that both are getting the same amount of attention, nobody feels left out, you have to understand what each of them is hoping to get out of the experience and lastly you have to understand the unspoken discrepancies between expectations and the boundaries that couples have. You have to get close to the boundary to make it exciting, making sure never to go beyond it.

 

I love working with couples. My only condition is that both partners are excited about the session and both agree on the boundaries. When booking a couples session I try to speak with both of them to make sure we are all on the same wavelength.

 

If the session, however is one client and one or more escorts, my rate is unchanged as long as I am shown an active advertisement of each one of the escorts. I do this because a couple clients know of my rule and have tried to make their boyfriends pass as escorts. =( If your "escort" who will be joining us doesn't have an active ad then I will charge a couples' rate.

 

Ditto. I don't charge for other escorts and I don't charge a finder's fee to bring one in. I do ask to be able to discuss plans with the other guy and that we all make the same rate for the same time.

[+ poolboy48220]

I do this because a couple clients know of my rule and have tried to make their boyfriends pass as escorts.

Seriously? Wow, the lengths people will go through to save a buck.

[Guest AnthonyDriller]

It's a lot of fun.

[Steven_Draker]

Seriously? Wow, the lengths people will go through to save a buck.

 

Not to worry: passing a boyfriend/partner as an escort is not a prevalent trend.

 

And then why start the session off on the wrong foot when the 'trickery' can be quickly compromised.

[12is12]

With your permission gentlemen, I take exception to the consensus here for two reasons:

 

1. Sometimes a couple hires an escort to enhance the enjoyment of only one of them. For example, to serve as an additional top for one passive client. This menas that the escort doesn't have to invest in pleasing two clients...

 

2. If escorts charge not (only?) for time but for investment/effort during the session, then rates should differ accordingly. For example, a client who doesn't want anal activity, not to mention clients who are interested only in bodyworship or giving oral service.

If effort invested is the criterion, in such cases escorts should lower rates...

[SteveEscort]

I don't do threesomes, it just does nothing for me. It hard enough keeping your regular guy entertained, never mind the third party. I also dislike to host two gentlemen at my home. I am not comfortable with it

 

I have done threesomes in the past and it was full rate plus 50% that I charged. I wouldn't allow another escort into my home, so that's never been an issue.

[DREW]

As several escorts have mentioned this can be a delicate matter due to expectation's if there are partnered clients and yes its always best to speak to both prior to meeting. Regarding a client and another escort I have only done this if I know the client and he wishes a little more spice.

 

My fee is for 2 clients is 50% added with another escort just my normal fee