Amir 10/13 Review

[Steven_Draker]

I'm surprised Amir hasn't posted in this thread yet.

 

Amir has responded to the review and had the "final say".

 

Now people are interpreting and dissecting both the review and its rebuttal in the Forum. It's like this public show is not good enough for you and want to bring here both protagonists to tear each other down.

 

I also agree that most matters can be settled PROACTIVELY in private, providing both parties are open for communication.

[Epigonos]

Guys if Amir has a brain in his head the last thing he will do is get into a cat fight on this thread as to whether or not he behaved correctly. He responded to the review and that should be the end of it.

[adriano46]

This obsession with the smart phone is everywhere.... Lawdie mercy, yall.....on a plane, in the restaurant, in the theater, during the evening commute, during a paid session.....whatever.....it is ok to put the phone away for an hour or two.

 

+1

[tom1980]

I'll admit to being apprehensive and sometimes dreading the day I would see this review published. I'll just say a few things about Amir's response and what people have written in this thread.

 

First, I wish Amir had told me on the day of our appointment that the messages were from a stalker rather than a potential client. I also wish he would have told me he had been dealing with a difficult personal situation. If he had been more open about what was going on and told me it was a bad time for him to meet me, I would have suggested rescheduling the appointment. We had already rescheduled once that day, and changing plans again would not have been difficult from my perspective.

 

Second, Amir and I exchanged a few PMs before the review was published. We exchanged PMs in June, and I told him I had submitted a negative review then. In July, after he received the review from Daddy, he contacted me again and apologized to me. At that time, he offered me either a complimentary session on his next trip to Dallas or to simply meet me and give me a partial refund. I told him that I accepted his apology, that I appreciated his offers, that I believe in second chances, and that we could talk about whether it would be good for us to meet again when he makes it back to Dallas.

 

Third, I wish Amir would've told me about the issue with his stalker when we exchanged PMs in June and July. I attempted to be honest about my failure to communicate when I wrote the review, and I accept responsibility for the part I played in preventing the appointment from being everything I hoped for. If Amir had told me that he was having problems performing and focusing because of the stress caused by dealing with a stalker, I would have asked Daddy not to publish the review (though that probably wouldn't have been necessary since the review seems to have been lost until I emailed Daddy after reading the Negative Reviews thread yesterday).

 

Fourth, I don't think Amir should feel obligated to respond here or anywhere else. I'm satisfied with the private messages I have received from him (including another message he sent me today apologizing again), and he already provided a public response for everyone else to read. I only felt the need to share the offers he made to me privately to demonstrate that he tried to make things right with me 3 months ago. I definitely respect Amir a lot more today than I did after our initial meeting.

 

Fifth, if I do meet Amir again, I promise to submit another review letting everyone know how things go. Hopefully, it will be filled with good and there won't be any bad/ugly to report.

 

Tom

[+ deej]

Guys if Amir has a brain in his head the last thing he will do is get into a cat fight on this thread as to whether or not he behaved correctly. He responded to the review and that should be the end of it.

 

+1

[imrthr]

 

Guys if Amir has a brain in his head the last thing he will do is get into a cat fight on this thread as to whether or not he behaved correctly. He responded to the review and that should be the end of it.

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I agree that the escort should not get into a brawl in this thread concerning the event. The review was written by the client and the answer/response was written by the escort. Both elements were published.

 

However, publishing a review and answer is not the end of the story. Readers of this thread and clients who communicate with each other now know that the escort disrespected his client.

 

The disrespect occurred with the escort’s failure to turn off his telephone and taking a call (s) during the one hour of the escort’s time. This deprived his client of services and time the paying client purchased.

 

If an escort can disrespect a client once, that same escort can do it again to another client.

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[armadillo]

If an escort can disrespect a client once, that same escort can do it again to another client.

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+1

 

And how can an escort 'humbly extend an invitation to personally rectify' the situation?

 

Start by turning off your phone during an appointment!

[BabyBoomer]

I'll admit to being apprehensive and sometimes dreading the day I would see this review published. I'll just say a few things about Amir's response and what people have written in this thread.

 

First, I wish Amir had told me on the day of our appointment that the messages were from a stalker rather than a potential client. I also wish he would have told me he had been dealing with a difficult personal situation. If he had been more open about what was going on and told me it was a bad time for him to meet me, I would have suggested rescheduling the appointment. We had already rescheduled once that day, and changing plans again would not have been difficult from my perspective.

 

Second, Amir and I exchanged a few PMs before the review was published. We exchanged PMs in June, and I told him I had submitted a negative review then. In July, after he received the review from Daddy, he contacted me again and apologized to me. At that time, he offered me either a complimentary session on his next trip to Dallas or to simply meet me and give me a partial refund. I told him that I accepted his apology, that I appreciated his offers, that I believe in second chances, and that we could talk about whether it would be good for us to meet again when he makes it back to Dallas.

 

Third, I wish Amir would've told me about the issue with his stalker when we exchanged PMs in June and July. I attempted to be honest about my failure to communicate when I wrote the review, and I accept responsibility for the part I played in preventing the appointment from being everything I hoped for. If Amir had told me that he was having problems performing and focusing because of the stress caused by dealing with a stalker, I would have asked Daddy not to publish the review (though that probably wouldn't have been necessary since the review seems to have been lost until I emailed Daddy after reading the Negative Reviews thread yesterday).

 

Fourth, I don't think Amir should feel obligated to respond here or anywhere else. I'm satisfied with the private messages I have received from him (including another message he sent me today apologizing again), and he already provided a public response for everyone else to read. I only felt the need to share the offers he made to me privately to demonstrate that he tried to make things right with me 3 months ago. I definitely respect Amir a lot more today than I did after our initial meeting.

 

Fifth, if I do meet Amir again, I promise to submit another review letting everyone know how things go. Hopefully, it will be filled with good and there won't be any bad/ugly to report.

 

Tom

Hey Tom- very classy response. Thank you for the clarification on the complimentary session

~Boomer~

[loverboy95]

Tom, I am so sorry you had to go through this experience. Thank you for posting it so we all can know what happened!

[imrthr]

I think you misread my post

 

 

"Amir has already apologized to Tom1980 (twice), and even Tom doesn't think Amir needs to respond to this thread."

 

Yes, I agree and I said so in my post - Yes, the escort should not respond in this thread.

 

I did not say that the escort should punish or whip himself as your post implies I said.

 

Earlier I stated clearly that the escort should not come out and post to this thread.

 

I am confused by your post.

[Guest]

The whole thing sounds strange to me. First of all, why answer the phone during a short hire in the first place. Second, why, of all people, answer the phone when it's a stalker? And giving out names and addresses? That would freak me out, and I'm not even particularly shy of my hiring habits. Totally weird and unprofessional.

[Okliehomo]

As a rule, I am NEVER critical of clients because as a general rule, it is always our fault... (fat, bad breath, bad hygiene... you know, just bad)... and I am not NOT saying that anything about the not great encounter was the client's fault. Clearly, there was miscommunication and bad decisions and all this stalker stuff.

 

But.... if I read this right..... Amir contacted you several times privately after he knew you were less than pleased... apologized every time, offered to meet again and make it up to you (fuck you for free) or meet again and give you some of your money back?

 

And yet.... when you read the Negative Review thread, you contacted Daddy and asked why yours hadn't published? By that point, after all the apologies, free fucking etc, why not just let it stay the fuck lost?

 

You seem like a really nice guy and it takes ALOT of balls to write a negative review here, just not sure this one should have seen the light of day given that Amir apparently tried to right the wrong numerous times before the review was published.

 

Appreciate and applaud an escort that has the class to admit a mistake without the need to paint the client as the villain of the piece.

[imrthr]

 

The whole thing sounds strange to me. First of all, why answer the phone during a short hire in the first place. Second, why, of all people, answer the phone when it's a stalker? And giving out names and addresses? That would freak me out, and I'm not even particularly shy of my hiring habits. Totally weird and unprofessional.

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+ 1

 

Ah, the absolute voice of reason -

[Guy Fawkes]

+99 thus ends the thread.

 

Guys if Amir has a brain in his head the last thing he will do is get into a cat fight on this thread as to whether or not he behaved correctly. He responded to the review and that should be the end of it.