Eli NYC visiting LA

[bobnyc]

http://www.masseurfinder.com/mobile/listings/view/eliblu/

 

I was wondering if anyone else has had any issues with Eli. I saw him once and had a great massage, he's definitely one of the better ones and very attractive. We chatted and talked for 20 min after the massage as he was done after seeing me. We scheduled another one right then and there as well. The day came when I was supposed to see him and he asks to reschedule and I text back asking when would be a good time. No response. Later on I ask and still no response. My friend booked one with him just now. I later texted to ask if I had done anything wrong and no response at all. He has fantastic reviews and probably very well deserved. But I find the non response instead of telling me that he's not interested confusing especially since he was so nice and I thought that we had a good client and masseur connection. Anyone else ever have this happen and I guess I can't see him anymore which sucks but I don't know what I did wrong? I consider myself attractive, but I know I'm not everyone's type.

[shadowcatzxxx]

I don't know what might have happened between you two.

 

I've had several extremely good sessions with Eli, and no problem communicating.

 

I find him to be one of the most dramatically handsome men I have ever met, one of the very best masseurs I've ever met (and that covers a lot of years and a lot of ground), and without question the most extraordinarily endowed man I have ever had the pleasure of seeing unclothed.

 

I happened to email him a couple of days ago, asking for an appointment in NYC for next Monday, and he was remarkably prompt in emailing me back saying that his plans had changed and that he would be staying in LA through next week.

 

Just FYI ... in my day, I was goodlooking enough to "work it" a bit myself ... but that was 30 years ago. I am now over 60, and though no troll, no adonis either, and carrying about 15 extra pounds in the wrong places. So it isn't clear to me that he is either ageist or "looks-ist."

[bobnyc]

I really liked him, I just am curious to know why all of a sudden I cannot communicate with him now. I find it odd, I have never had a problem with any escort or masseur before and many have become acquaintances if not friends. If I did something wrong then I'd like to know to avoid potential future problems with any others.

[Lewis H]

I really liked him, I just am curious to know why all of a sudden I cannot communicate with him now. I find it odd, I have never had a problem with any escort or masseur before and many have become acquaintances if not friends. If I did something wrong then I'd like to know to avoid potential future problems with any others.

 

Normally I'd ask if you waited a long enough time. Sometimes responses take a while. But did your friend book with Eli for you, to see if he would be available for someone else?

[sdvjm]

I think Eli is one of the best masseurs I've ever booked with and have never been disappointed with his massages, however, I too have found his communication a bit hot and cold. Sometimes he's super prompt with responses and other times it's been radio silence. I've always chalked it up to him having a very booked schedule since he's once of the most in demand masseurs in NYC...

[shadowcatzxxx]

sdvjm's response sounds right and makes sense to me.

[+ Billsboy4]

Had a massage with Eli today.....4 stars all the way

[bobnyc]

Normally I'd ask if you waited a long enough time. Sometimes responses take a while. But did your friend book with Eli for you, to see if he would be available for someone else?

 

He texted and booked and then I texted while Eli was still setting things up with him.eli would respond to him after I had texted even, but not to me. The only conclusion I could draw from his silence was that he was either ignoring me or not getting my texts which is almost impossible since I have an iphone and the iMessage says delivered. I assumed that he was busy the first few times. After 4 messages over a week you get the feeling that you're being ignored. I'd be fine with it if I knew why it was the case.

[+ poolboy48220]

On a tech note, I had something similar happen. I have an iPhone, my roommate switched from an iPhone to a Galaxy, and he stopped getting my texts. I found out there's a setting that if you've texted iPhone to iPhone, your phone will send the messages to the iCloud account. When he switched, mine was still sending the messages to his iCloud account, which (since he had a new phone) was no longer relaying the messages. I had to go to settings->messages and set 'send as sms' active, which is not the default. The real answer for him was to go back to his cloud account and disable it.

 

Weird couple of days, including my apparent indifference to his text that their family dog had died. :-(

[Frequentflier]

He texted and booked and then I texted while Eli was still setting things up with him.eli would respond to him after I had texted even, but not to me. The only conclusion I could draw from his silence was that he was either ignoring me or not getting my texts which is almost impossible since I have an iphone and the iMessage says delivered. I assumed that he was busy the first few times. After 4 messages over a week you get the feeling that you're being ignored. I'd be fine with it if I knew why it was the case.

 

Maybe you should call him in case your text messages aren't reachng him?

[bobnyc]

Well, it ended well. I finally did connect with him after a week of him not responding. I didn't offend him in any way, he just wasn't responding. I find it a little odd, but I'll just believe that it's just how he is in general, partly because he's so busy. But I guess if I can't reach him, I'll just have to use a different number to book him from. He seems to answer new requests quite handily.

[Diverdan]

Well, If you do see him, let us know and share your experience.... we'd like to know if it was worth the hassle of trying to contact him.