escort rates

[theDCeBOY]

no. his remarks were an attempt at a slap in my face. had he wanted to be "helpful" he would have contacted me privately. he had that option, yet he chose to attempt a pompous public posting.

[Bilbo]

RE: private comments

 

In general, people around here don't think of posting answers privately often enough. I was once taken gently to task for answering a post by someone who said that it was a private comment for Rick and that he would know what it meant. I don't think a lot of disrespect was meant this time, but could we all please remember in the future that perhaps a private word in someone's ear is a preferable way to do whatever we have in mind, unless we mean to talk to everyone?

[BuckyXTC]

>no. his remarks were an attempt at a

>slap in my face. had he wanted to be "helpful" he would have

>contacted me privately. he had that option, yet he chose to

>attempt a pompous public posting.

>

 

Ethan:

 

I agree wholeheartedly with you that a private message would have been better. But I don't for a minute believe that Jason was trying to attack you. He's a very nice guy, and if your paths would ever cross, I think you'd find him to be a gentlemen.

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

...Three Men in a Tub

 

>This is the second instance where I find myself (shockingly

>so) in some agreement with Little Woody. The shock was such

>that it took me a full 37.5 hours to respond to the smelling

>salts (not to mention what this did to my low sodium diet) to

>comment....

>

>That said, my agreement with our Little Exasperator, is purely

>with the fact that the escort rate issue has been covered

>over.

>

 

Me too... You did such a nice job of pulling up archived threads on another topic I was hoping... While there is merit to newbies discussing old topics anew it is equally meritorious (and maybe moreso) to consult the interesting discussions previously posted. Reading can be more informative than posting... and not everyone is up to repeating the same conversation over and over.

[Guest Yog-Sothoth]

>

>i don't either. i never asserted that i do. i said that the

>chances of a friendly responce go up when one is friendly

>himself. "i refuse to pay that amount!" wouldn't entice me to

>be flexible.

>

>>unwillingness to pay what we

>>consider an unreasonable price. Why does saying that make

>one

>>an "ass"?

>

>fine... say that you think it is unreasonable. i maintain that

>if you choose a more friendly tack, you'll get a greater

>willingness to reach a compromise amount. you don't have to

>believe me. you're welcome to disagree with me. that's my take

>on it, though.

>

>>In business, telling someone you think his price is

>>out of line is not considered an insult.

>

>it depends on the words you choose to use.

>saying "you're not worth that much!" is clearly insulting.

>saying "i'm really not comfortable paying that" isn't. again,

>you're welcome to disagree.

 

 

Recently I saw an escort a 2nd time. I started to tell him that likely him and our time together (both true) but that I likely would only be able to see him every month and a half or two months because my budget is very tight (very true) and I just want him to know that I would like to be a regular but it could not be that often because of my income.

 

He interrupted me before I could even get a third of the way into this to offer me a lower price. It was not my intention to ask him to do so because I respect his right to charge what he charged. I simply wanted him to know how I would be dealing with it.

 

I found that just so fucking cool of him.