The legs go last

[+ friendofsheila]

Twice it's burn boiling hot around here.

 

Twice I've gotten out the one pair of new shorts I hemmed up a little above mid-thigh. I did this so they'd be like what I used to wear about 15 years ago, when I was young and in a much gayer part of the world.

 

Twice I wore them on my bicycle.

 

Both times I've had a man a good 10 to 15 years younger than me look me square in the eye and give me a double-barrelled smile that almost knocked me over.

 

My goodness but that felt nice.

[gallahadesquire]

My Personal Trainer is 32, I think. He has a habit of pulling his shorts up his thighs, to show me which muscles we're working on. I think.

Otherwise, he's like 5'10", about 180. Powerlifter, as in MAJOR powerlifter. Team USA and what-not.

 

Why does he show off like this?? BTW: He's married, no kids.

[+ purplekow]

Many guys with great bodies, or so I think, do not mind who admires them. With whom they will share that body and how much of the body they are willing to share, well, that is often negotiable but frequently it is not unlimited. So your trainer may be doing his job, playing with you or coming on to you. You are a big boy, deep down inside, you know which one it is. It may not be, unfortunately, the one you want it to be.

[TruthBTold]

Well, if that is an actual question, there are several reasons he could be doing this:

 

1. He wants to show you the muscles you are working on.

2. He knows you are gay and wants to titillate you.

3. He knows you are gay and wants to have sex with you.

4. He has great legs and is proud of the work he has done on them.

5. He is really gay and wants to titillate or have sex with you.

 

I am sure there are more.

[Diverdan]

There are many possible reasons, as TruthBTold has said. I used to have a personal trainer who was an exceptional guy... muscles in all the right places, including a huge bulge in his shorts all the time. He was married to a woman with no kids. At the end of our session he always performed some stretching exercises with me and as a result of those movements his crotch was frequently in my face. We were joking around one day while he was streching my legs and his crotch was in my face, so I asked him, "is this all real".... he replied "yes" and I am willing to prove it".... unfortunatley I never took him up on taking a shower with him that day, and have regretted it ever since. A few months later, he quit his personal training job and moved to a different city to take a management job that would pay him a lot more money and benefits. So, don't be shy and explore your situation further! I wish I had.....

[whipped guy]

I often wear hiker style shorts as they are a bit shorter than what passes for the norm these days. Last summer as I was leaving the NY Bondage Club and walking down 26th Street a guy comes up from behind me as says, "Good job with those legs. Whatever you're doing in the gym keep it up!" Made me feel good... that it occurred in Chelsea and the guy was in all probability gay made me feel even better!

 

Regarding personal trainers, one friend picked his personal trainer because he thought that he was coming on to him. The personal trainer was in all likelihood doing this on purpose simply to get his business as the guy was openly gay. Several thousands of dollars later nobody ever got to first base and especially after the client learned that the trainer was living with a woman... Still perhaps the trainer was just confused... They jury might be still out on this one...

[+ FreshFluff]

FoS, that must feel good. Were you interested in the guys?

 

Gallahad, he may be hitting on you or he may genuinely want you to see how the muscles should look while they're contracted. Are you getting any other signs from him?

[+ friendofsheila]

FoS, that must feel good. Were you interested in the guys?

 

 

The first guy all I saw was his smiling face looking out of the driver's window as I rode past.

 

The second guy: ditto. He was on a bike and I was going past.

 

That's reeeeeeallllly not enough for me to know much beyond how they look in a bit of a blur, so I can't say I was "interested."

 

But there was enough there to make me "interested to get a slower look."

[+ friendofsheila]

Made me feel good... that it occurred in Chelsea and the guy was in all probability gay made me feel even better! .

 

Yeah! I couldn't imagine living in the past, when such comments might never have happened to us!