Rimming

[mlscott]

When escorts list rimming on their profiles and they are top/versatile what is the assumption in regards to whether they give/receive?

 

Do most escorts shy away from rimming clients for health reasons.

[McLeanspider]

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Do most escorts shy away from rimming clients for health reasons.

 

Imagine rimming 10 or 15 guys per week, many of them overweight and old, some of them haven't had sex in months, picture touching with your tongue that part of the body unwashed for months... even if he just took a shower, unless the guy fingers his butt hole with soap and washes it over and over again it will smell...

 

I love to be rimmed but I'd rather hiring someone who doesn't rim his client, I'd rather having it done to me on a date or by a bf.

[TruHart1]

Imagine rimming 10 or 15 guys per week, many of them overweight and old, some of them haven't had sex in months, picture touching with your tongue that part of the body unwashed for months... even if he just took a shower, unless the guy fingers his butt hole with soap and washes it over and over again it will smell...

 

I love to be rimmed but I'd rather hiring someone who doesn't rim his client, I'd rather having it done to me on a date or by a bf.

 

Hey McLean, there is really no excuse for a client, whether he is an older and/or overweight bottom or not, to be clueless regarding cleansing his nether regions before hiring an escort who lists rimming among his skills. Just fingering yourself a couple of times with soap is not going to make you rim-ready! I have personally had the experience of being on the receiving end (!) with escorts who have stellar reputations (and multiple positive reviews here) who really are into rimming those of their clients who enjoy that activity. They do EXPECT the client to know how to be totally clean using an enema, though.

 

If the client is stupid about anal cleanliness, you are correct and the escorts I know who do rim would all either move on to a completely different activity (once they realize the client is not completely clean, which is a matter of a simple smell test) or attempt to educate the client for the benefit of the next top he might hire, especially if the client has indicated he wanted to be rimmed. If you are into bottoming at all, whether you are an escort or a client, there should never be a question as to whether you have taken measures to get completely clean for each and every session, IMHO.

 

As far as the original poster's question about whether a top/versatile escort is active or passive regarding rimming, always ask the escort specifically if it is an activity you are interested in experiencing!!!

 

TruHart1

[Frankly Rich]

I wonder where Mcleanspider comes by his information. He seems sure that the path to cleanliness is to finger the butthole with soap and wash it over and over. How many times? How deep must one finger it? Will any soap do, or are there soaps kinder to the delicate anal tissues? Now, for you to know that failure to do this results in a smell, from where have you drawn that expertise? Have you studied this yourself? Would just cleaning the area with soap and water do without the fingering? No? Would that at least decrease the smell? And what about the finger? Does it smell until the butthole itself stops smelling? These questions just came to mind as he was very sure of his facts...

[McLeanspider]

I wonder where Mcleanspider comes by his information. He seems sure that the path to cleanliness is to finger the butthole with soap and wash it over and over. How many times? How deep must one finger it? Will any soap do, or are there soaps kinder to the delicate anal tissues? Now, for you to know that failure to do this results in a smell, from where have you drawn that expertise? Have you studied this yourself? Would just cleaning the area with soap and water do without the fingering? No? Would that at least decrease the smell? And what about the finger? Does it smell until the butthole itself stops smelling? These questions just came to mind as he was very sure of his facts...

 

Does washing your butt hole with soap, fingering it and rinsing it to avoid bad taste and smell sound to you like rocket science?

 

Please try not to fart or it will smell bad again.

[DREW]

Rimming is personal choice , some like it others do not an escort should be upfront and honest what they do and do not do prior to a meeting

 

hygiene is a must on both side

 

DREW

[BaronArtz]

Well ... there are different levels of rimming. The 'basic' level is flicking the tongue on the anus, licking it, circling the tongue around it, perhaps flicking the tongue on there repeatedly. All of this is done on the exterior. A more 'advanced' level is spreading open the anus with your finger tips and darting your tongue in and out of there, simulating a fuck scene if you will. Both require a different level of personal hygiene, for the 'basic' rim job soap and water would suffice.

 

In my view, there is no real difference between sucking dick or eating ass - in terms of intimacy and cleanliness requirements.

 

In the end, what matters most is what the escort himself is most comfortable with. Some do it with enthusiasm, some don't do it at all. My best rim session was one administered by well known 'Greg' from L.A. He didn't need any encouragement and performed this service with unparalleled abandon. He just would not stop!

[adriano46]

I had never heard of the term "rimming" when I received my first one.

 

Had been in a very erotic male sauna in Hamburg most of the morning with some very hot guys (mostly merchant seamen from various nations) and have to say, given the set up, we were ALL pretty showered, soaped, showered, soaped and steamed! One guy and I hooked up in the labyrinth in one of the steam rooms, and since I had a cabin, we went there after yet another (cooling) shower. After a lot of mutual oral, he turned me over, and as I was about to tell him in broken German that I do not bottom, I felt this bolt of electricity run through me! He flipped me over on my back and stuck his tongue back in my hole with such enthusiasm I had one of the biggest and most explosive cum shots ever (over my head). I was sold on it from then on!

 

BUT, I do not demand ever that an escort rim me - but if the guy is really my type and has a beautiful ass, I tell him up front that I am interested in rimming HIM and expect him to be appropriately prepared. I also often suggest that we shower together before we begin, offering me another chance to personally soap up and rinse his and my holes.

 

Years ago one of the great escorts still working it today, Michael Vincenzo, used to send to a client a check-list on personal cleanliness before meeting. I have kept that list in mind before each and every encounter (I found it very helpful knowing how to prep for anal - had never been thoroughly instructed - and how to keep myself squeaky clean before the encounter).

 

And while I can appreciate some of the more voracious rimmers out there who go beyond the anal "ring" with their tongue, I have been told by some medical friends that it is especially risky in picking up some bacteria that most would and could do without.

[+ Axiom2001]

Hey, guys! What's the title of this forum? I failed to read any responses to the query from 'AN ESCORT' in this forum titled: "Ask an Escort!"

[DREW]

I responded to this forum .. i will fuck for hours but will never rim ............ or to be blunt lick arse ....... more than happy to have my arse licked /rimmed but theres where its stops ........ i always advise my clients what i do and what i do not do

 

DREW

http://www.GayRomeo.com/GYMSIR

[SteveEscort]

I have no problems with rimming but only if the client has a shower on the premises (his home, my home or the hotel) with me in attendance. I will then ensure his areas are to my satisfaction.

 

I know a lot of escorts don't do it and that's fine. I have no problem with it and it's never caused me any health problems.

[+ Axiom2001]

"OK, ESCORTS, since this question is being asked of you by the individual who began it, it would be wonderful if you'd be candid and respond!" "Thanks to the two men who responded in the two posts preceding this one!"

[Frankly Rich]

Does washing your butt hole with soap, fingering it and rinsing it to avoid bad taste and smell sound to you like rocket science?

 

Please try not to fart or it will smell bad again.

 

Actually, it sounds more like sex play than personal hygiene. Many soaps irritate the anal tissue and thus do more harm than good. I'm not sure why simply washing the anus like any other body part should not keep it clean. Usually before sex play, one douches, but even that is controversial. Now trust that I am not taking this too seriously, other than believing that cleanliness is next to godliness.

[Bart]

hmm one of the more unusual questions health concerns about rimming, that's a first for me.

But two quick stories first hired a guy some 9 years ago, no longer an escort, hopefully he is dead on the side of the road somewhere for the pain anguish he caused me but I digress. We met one of the activities I did was rim his ass which was fine and then went to kiss him and he balls to say you kiss me after touching my ass, really it is your ass not mine. Ugh

 

Second, one of my favorite stories, this is just for Okie, escort I had seen several times before. He is great looking guy and I enjoy him a lot. He had showered and we climbed into bed and after sucking his cock I moved further down the line and spread his cheeks and dove in, I love to rim a hot ass. I am going to town when all of a sudden I feel something on my tongue and teeth, and I go ugh grit. I extract myself from the position and head to bathroom to rinse my mouth and brush teeth. I am greeted with his dump still in the toilet and realized what was on my teeth. So while gentlemen like to discuss the lack of hygiene by clients here is a case where the gentlemen could use some training. I call this my True Grit story.

[Frankly Rich]

In Rio once this very hot sauna boy had been giving me the best sex of my life. He came up from rimming me and went right in for a deep kiss. I assume he was into sharing! I couldn't have refused if I wanted to, but I did realize the same thing you mention- it was my ass, so any germs were mine too! It was great fun.

[Okliehomo]

Bart, bart, bart...

 

How you talk.

 

After hearing that particular story, I must admit that I did send Bart a poster from the movie "True Grit"...... just my way of saying, did you hear the toilet flush? And the shower running? If not.... well. Scary.

 

Deal is.... the shower is my best friend. I expect to hear it. My comfort zone. My assurance..... all most as important as my nose, before contact.

 

Remember one encounter, after which I moved in for a kiss and the guy pulled back and said, "You were just licking my ass, dude ..." Awkward.

 

Remember telling that story to the very magical and other worldly blue eyed Kevin and he said to me, "Well, that says WAY more about him than you".

 

But then again, I am very anal about it, (HA)... as in, I request that any guy situated in my hotel rooms or on my face (more specifically) never EVER go for the "Oh shit, oh shit, oh shit" moans of alleged and practiced pleasure.

 

That's very last thing I want to picture as we are, so to speak, dancing cheeks to tongue...

 

No fan of the movie "True Grit", either one.... but lickily for me, it's never been reacted in my mouth.

[jimboivyo]

hmm one of the more unusual questions health concerns about rimming, that's a first for me.

But two quick stories first hired a guy some 9 years ago, no longer an escort, hopefully he is dead on the side of the road somewhere for the pain anguish he caused me but I digress. We met one of the activities I did was rim his ass which was fine and then went to kiss him and he balls to say you kiss me after touching my ass, really it is your ass not mine. Ugh

 

Second, one of my favorite stories, this is just for Okie, escort I had seen several times before. He is great looking guy and I enjoy him a lot. He had showered and we climbed into bed and after sucking his cock I moved further down the line and spread his cheeks and dove in, I love to rim a hot ass. I am going to town when all of a sudden I feel something on my tongue and teeth, and I go ugh grit. I extract myself from the position and head to bathroom to rinse my mouth and brush teeth. I am greeted with his dump still in the toilet and realized what was on my teeth. So while gentlemen like to discuss the lack of hygiene by clients here is a case where the gentlemen could use some training. I call this my True Grit story.

 

 

was it really necessary to go into this much detail?

[+ azdr0710]

was it really necessary to go into this much detail?

 

 

easy, jimboi.....we're all just having fun here.....don't take it so seriously!!

[jimboivyo]

easy, jimboi.....we're all just having fun here.....don't take it so seriously!!

 

sorry but I was eating my morning bagel and it was just a bad combo

[marylander1940]

Rimming is personal choice , some like it others do not an escort should be upfront and honest what they do and do not do prior to a meeting

 

hygiene is a must on both side

 

DREW

 

I get your point, but some escorts might be afraid of the police and they wouldn't like to say over the phone/email: "yes, I'll rim you."

[Tylerluv]

I'm a HUGE fan of tossing salad. I freeeekin love rimming. Under the right circumstances you wont be able to pull your ass off my face. Under less than ideal circumstances I wont go near your ass without full hazmat gear.

 

That being said I don't do it all that often because most guys are not clean enough down there which is why I think most people in general, not just escorts, shy away from it. Also, the idea might be gross to some people. I thought the idea of licking a guy's butt was disgusting until I hit puberty and saw buckets of bums in the lockerroom. I can't actually remember the first butt I munched.

 

If you're going to lickity split SNIFF the area before you lick it! Olfactory before oral.

 

I have a regular who, if you saw him on the street, would easily be considered a 1 on a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being beautiful. Basically he's fugly. However, we have the best sex ever and I can't get enough of his butt pucker. He's clean, there's just a little hair on his winker, his cheeks are smooth, it's fleshy and juicy and amazing. I slurp the fuck out of that man's tush and then the fucking ahhhhhhhhhhhh I think I may love him. I don't know what it is but every time we get together it's amazing. He once called me Rimzilla. I lock my arms around his thighs when he's sitting on my face to keep him from escaping, not that he attempts to all that aggressively.

 

Based on my experience, some guys have a fresh fanny right out of the pants while other guys can be freshly showered and stink worse than before the shower. Even a proper enema won't always promise a sparkling sphincter. If you're going to use an enema just use a warm water enema and NOT the oily store bought one before sex. To test your tush before it's tasted by Mr. Right Now, lick your finger, swirl it around your asshole several times, sniff it, and if you're serious about it, lick it.

 

Medically speaking, there is a bouquet of benign illnesses and STDs you can get from rimming including but not limited to the common cold, Hepatitis A and B, Herpes, Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, and Syphilis. Theoretically HIV could be spread from rimming but, I think, it's unlikely. Hepatitis C could be spread from rimming but it would be pretty unusual based on my research. There are vaccines for Hep A and B which are highly recommended if you rim, suck cock, or eat food. To avoid mild illness from bacteria post buttmunch: after sex use a strong mouthwash and gargle thoroughly and/or rinse and swallow a smidge of vodka. Seriously, the alcohol kills bacteria that may cause mild flu like symptoms. Also wash your face very well especially around the mouth.

 

Don't be surprised if a guy wont kiss you after you suck his asshole, you might have butt breath. Granted, it's his butt, but his own flavors might not be to his liking. Personally, I'm so clean back there that I will *CENSORED*