Creepy

[Maxx00]

Hey guys,

 

Something really strange happened yesterday. I received a series of four texts on my “special” phone from a masseur who is visiting my city stating that he was in town and wondering if I’d like to set up an appointment. The really weird thing is that I’ve never contacted him before (not my type). I know for a fact that I’ve never contacted him or even been in his home city. How would he get my number? Do escorts or masseurs exchange client’s numbers? Has this happened to anyone else?

 

I’m a little creeped out by this.

 

Maxx

[SteveEscort]

I only exchange the numbers of timewasters and no shows with fellow trusted escorts and masseurs.

 

I don't think it's in the interest of any escort to give their "little black book" of clients out to the competition.

 

I personally think it's fundamentally wrong for escorts to bait clients for work. It stinks of desperation. I wouldn't reply and if you do feel the need to reply then tell the sender you are a woman (insert female name here) and ask how he got your number. He'll probably think he's text a clients wife and should then stop.

[Steven_Draker]

I never exchange, post, publish or share phone numbers (or any other clients' information for that matter), not even with my fellow trusted escorts or friends. I abide by that rule, because I have a feeling that's the right thing to do.

 

Spam is already bothersome, but unwanted phone calls and text (especially repetitive ones) on your "special" phone can be really irritating.

 

Ask "your" masseur how he got your number?

 

[bobchitown]

I craft a very neutral message, no need to fuel any possible fires. Just say something like

 

"[Joe], I don't believe I've ever hired or contacted you, but in any case I'm not available during your visit. As I try to protect this number, can you tell me how you got it? Thanks. [bob]

 

Oh, I'd be creeped out too.

[maninsoma]

Well, if you think you'd have fun jerking his chain a little you could respond with something along the lines of: "Glad to hear you're interested in making an appointment with me. My rate is $250 per hour. I book up in advance so if you're serious about an appointment, please reply with the date and time you have in mind. Thanks."

 

Or you could go the route to really try to return the creepy feeling: "I'm sorry to hear about your arrest and subsequent legal difficulties, but I'm not a lawyer. Perhaps you have me confused with someone else."

[tom1980]

I recently had a weird experience that was kind of similar to this. I got a text a few weekends ago from a guy that seemed normal but turned out to be really strange. He wrote, "What's up tom its ____. I'm in dallas next week" The name he gave is the real first name of one of my favorite escorts. To avoid divulging the escort's name, I'll call this guy Jeff.

 

I was happy to hear that Jeff was coming back to town and looking forward to seeing him. We texted for 20 minutes or so. I asked if he was traveling with another escort who I know he's friends with and who was coincidentally planning a visit to Dallas around the same time. He told me he was traveling alone, and we continued to text back and forth as though this guy was the escort I believed him to be. We tentatively set up a time to meet at his hotel when he was in town.

 

A couple of days later, I emailed the escort at the email address he and I have used to communicate in the past. I didn't hear back and texted him at the number I've always used for him but again got no response. I then realized the number "Jeff" texted me from was different from the one I'd been texting. I texted the new number and told him I must've had his old phone number and I'd been texting the wrong one. He quickly responded and we confirmed our plans to meet.

 

The morning of the meeting, I checked "Jeff's" rentboy ad to confirm his rate and get mentally prepared for the upcoming meeting. I noticed that the phone number in the ad was the same one I had always used. I texted that number, apologized for any texts or emails he had received from me that might seem odd (and, therefore, prevent him from responding). I also asked him to respond and confirm that I was set to meet with him. I then texted the new number and told Jeff to respond to the message I sent to the phone number listed in his ad. He told me it was an old #, he changes phone numbers a lot, and he couldn't respond to the message. I proceeded to ask him questions in an attempt to confirm his identity. He couldn't tell me where Jeff and I ate lunch/what kind of food we had after our last appointment, which hotel or area he stayed at on his last trip, the general date of his last trip to Dallas, etc. He finally said I "might" have him confused with another Jeff. WTF??? He contacted me and went along with dozens of texts that should have seemed very odd to him and indicated I didn't know him, unless he was pretending to be Jeff.

 

When it became clear that this guy wasn't really Jeff, I googled his # and found a "badboy report" telling me the guy's "real" name. Apparently he has tried to act as a pimp for escorts and becomes violent if they don't give him his share of money from clients he sets them up with. I have no idea how he got my name or phone number or how he knew I had a relationship with Jeff. I was able to get in touch with the real Jeff shortly after this, and he is as clueless as me. The only thing I can figure is that I've talked about having good experiences with Jeff on here and because this guy is in the industry he knows the escort's real name is "Jeff", but that still doesn't explain how this guy got my phone number. I'm just glad I figured out it wasn't really Jeff before I knocked on his hotel room door.

 

Having two very strange escort experiences in quick succession has made me a bit paranoid (I mentioned the other in another thread and have submitted a review for that session). I'll definitely be checking phone numbers of guys who contact me in the future to make sure the escort contacting me is really who he claims to be.

[SteveEscort]

I never exchange, post, publish or share phone numbers (or any other clients' information for that matter), not even with my fellow trusted escorts or friends. I abide by that rule, because I have a feeling that's the right thing to

 

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It is but last year I was physically attacked by a guy in his home, he threw me down a flight of stairs. I involved the police but only after I had left the property and nothing much was done about it, nevertheless I circulated his address and telephone number to all active male and female escorts I am friendly with in the city. Everyone should be alerted to people like that.

 

Similarly I went to a property in the east end of the city last August and noticed the property was a drugs factory. One of the bedrooms was set up to cultivate and sell drugs and during my time three 8 people knocked at the door for stuff, one of whom was in such a bad way I was frightened for myself. The gentleman in question was a lovely man, a bit gang style type but a very nice respectful man, however If I had informed the police he would have known instantly that it was me that reported the drugs being sold etc on the premises. On this occasion I also discreetly circulated details about the property and three weeks later was contacted by a male escort, who was circulated it from someone I contacted and who had also been there at the property and the owner was threatened with a knife by a "buyer". Had he told me or his contact prior to my visit I would not that've taken the appointment.

 

Although I circulated details on the drugs gang gentleman, I would see him again if he visited me but I would never return to his property. He wasn't a drug user (the ones who sell it rarely are) but the company he kept left a lot to be desired.

 

It is the right thing to do, to forward details of troublesome clients. It keeps others safe.

[tom1980]

It is the right thing to do, to forward details of troublesome clients. It keeps others safe.

 

I agree depending on your definition of "troublesome." When a client is physically violent, he waives his right to discretion. If a client's home is dangerous (as you described), I also agree that other escorts should be told to avoid the place. However, an escort should preserve as much discretion as possible. If you don't hit it off with a client and decide he's a jerk, is that troublesome enough to warrant sharing his information? If so, how much information do you share? Just sharing a client's phone number or email address with another escort is very different from sharing his home address, real name, or other identifying information. I hope your policy (and that of other escorts) is to share as little information as needed to help other escorts stay safe or avoid bad clients (without outing the clients).

[SteveEscort]

Yes that's exactly what it is. I wouldn't circulate details in guys I just "didn't get along with" but I would in the two examples about

 

PS.. I don't know where the number 8 comes from above. I was using my iPad. I think it was just a typing error

[SteveEscort]

Yes that's exactly what it is. I wouldn't circulate details on guys I just "didn't get along with" but I would in the two examples I mentioned

 

PS.. I don't know where the number 8 comes from above. I was using my iPad. I think it was just a typing error