Dating - what the hell happened? Feedback needed

[+ FreshFluff]

I am really interested in this comment. It's not unusual for people to still be mysteries a little after just a few dates, but your situation seems to go beyond that. Could you write a bit more, especially since it's unusual for you. Is it that you have not had time to really focus completely on him?

 

I've found that the most desirable men (to me) are usually somewhat mysterious.

 

But that's probably not a coincidence. I'm the type who pokes and prods for flaws if a man pursues too intensely. I once lost an amazing guy that way.