Self-racism or just a preference? I can't believe this profile is real.

[marylander1940]

I found this profile on manhunt and I'm still shocked about the level of self-racism this man shows.

Any thoughts about this?

 

http://www.manhunt.net/profile/natewagner

[+ purplekow]

My guess is he likes white guys.

[marylander1940]

My guess is he likes white guys.

 

Yes, but does it mean he doesn't like the way he looks? He never met one black or Asian man he liked?

 

I think it's just funny they way he talks about white guys, kind of obsessive: "White guys who are pluses: Blue-Eyed. Tall White Guys-5'10" up. White Jocks. Southern White Guys. Maryland White Guys. Northern Virginia White Guys. Midwestern White Guys. All-American White Guys. Muscular White Guys. And, White Guys with Big White Cocks (BWC)."

 

Any ways, I know for sure I'm giving him some promotion on here.

[+ purplekow]

He did not say anything racist or self loathing just that he wants white guys. As far as the ad goes, it seems to state a preference perhaps an obsession but there did not seem to be anything racist in the text. So for me, he is expressing a preference for this particular group. This may not be his only sexual outlet and he may well be attracted to other types of men in those settings, but for this group, white is color of the day.

[marylander1940]

...This may not be his only sexual outlet and he may well be attracted to other types of men in those settings, but for this group, white is color of the day.

 

I can't answer that question because I contacted him and he just told me I'm too old for his taste and didn't even unlock in his reply.

 

What if younger Irish-American like me had a profile saying: "Whites only". Would that be racist?

 

Anyways, I wish him luck on his search and I'll move on, I'm just shocked about someone who can't see beauty on someone who is not White.

[LookingAround]

He has his sexual preferences (younger, fit white guys)...he didn't say he doesn't like to be around non-white guys...he's expressing his sexual attraction. I don't see anything wrong with it. We are all entitled to our preferences, fetishes, etc....

[jimboivyo]

I found this profile on manhunt and I'm still shocked about the level of self-racism this man shows.

Any thoughts about this?

 

http://www.manhunt.net/profile/natewagner

 

 

it's manhunt. who are we to judge someone's personal profile? hes not an escort, is he?

 

this sounds to me like he rejected you and now you're pissed off, venting here.

[marylander1940]

it's manhunt. who are we to judge someone's personal profile? hes not an escort, is he?

 

this sounds to me like he rejected you and now you're pissed off, venting here.

 

I think you had too much coffee this morning. I think we all judge and are judged, you're certainly judging me now.

 

I have quoted before manhunt, facebook, adam4adam, wikipedia and several other sites, I didn't know a profile on manhunt was off subject.

 

I emailed him asking why he doesn't like his own kind, that's all I did. I'm old and unlike so many of yinz younger folks on here, I can't have sex with guys I think are attractive unless I pay them, that's why I hire escorts, I wasn't hitting on him.

 

Anyways I think sexual discrimination by race, age, looks, body type, income, national origin, religion, social status is a very important issue in the LGBT community as it is among straight men and women, but I'm really shocked when I see a profile in SF posted by an Asian person that says "No Asians", or "White only".

 

You might be right, maybe I should have started this topic quoting this 2 articles. I just PM 3 of my buddies on here to see if they want to say something about this, I wonder if I overreached for posting a link to that profile on here and I would like them to take a look at this articles (nobody has time to read everything) and shared their opinions too.

 

http://bosguy.com/2014/01/07/sexual-racism-when-does-your-preference-become-racist/

 

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/carl-sandler/ask-mister-carl-what-do-i-have-to-do-to-get-a-white-boys-attention_b_3215036.html

 

And as I said before I wish him a great party, hopefully some of yinz can go.

[+ purplekow]

And as I said before I wish him a great party, hopefully some of yinz can go.

 

I do not fall into his particular niche and I am fine with that. I hate to attend a party in which I was not fully welcomed and I am sure the men attending this party will fall into the niche or will be barred entry. There is a saying that the heart wants what the heart wants. That is doubly true for the cock.

[Guest countryboywny]

The guy is clearly stating his preference for fit white guys. It's his party and he can invite who he wants. When a person states their preference in a sex partner it's just irresponsible to cry "racism". IMHO, of course.

[AdamSmith]

Thirding what countryboy and pk said. When I, middle-aged white guy, go trolling black or Latino clubs to try and get up a posse of twinks of color for a nice gang bang, really don't see how lusting after them & theirs translates into loathing myself & my own.

[Guest]

Anyways I think sexual discrimination by race, age, looks, body type, income, national origin, religion, social status is a very important issue in the LGBT community as it is among straight men and women, but I'm really shocked when I see a profile in SF posted by an Asian person that says "No Asians", or "White only".

 

What if younger Irish-American like me had a profile saying: "Whites only". Would that be racist?

 

You seem to be confused about the difference between sexual preference and racism. There is no "right" or "wrong" when it comes to which type of guy or gal arouses a particular person. I have no interest in having sex with women. That does not make me sexist. As I have mentioned often before, there is something about men with black hair and blue or green eyes which just grabs me. I have no idea why. There is no right or wrong to it. I suspect that there is probably a deep biological reason for it, since men with dark hair and blue eyes, rare as they are, seem over-represented in the model and movie star category. The world's most highly paid model for years in a row, Sean O'Pry has black hair and blue eyes. No, I don't have these features. That doesn't mean I'm "self-loathing" or don't like the way I look.

Sean O'Pry

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_kZgMM0w8S6k/TGWKiU3gbvI/AAAAAAAAIGI/_MvpdPhlbL4/s1600/Sean+O.jpg

 

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ajt8CJhojZU/ThTavbLRFTI/AAAAAAAAbuk/ZbZThGuxpjc/s1600/vmen5.jpg

 

As I have also said before, I often get very turned on by mixed-race guys. It's not too often I get turned on by guys with purely Subsaharan African ancestery (there are definitely exceptions), but this is probably because I don't tend to like curly hair or dark eyes, not because I'm racist. Here's a mixed race guy I find more handsome than Sea O'Pry. He's a guy whose picture I can always rely to get me off, even when I'm not super-horny:

http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/070415/11/4622427435821.jpg

 

This guy's also a total turn-on for me, even though he doesn't have the usual type of hair and eyes that I like. Why does he turn me on? It's not always something I can explain...

http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/100914/12/4c8fd3cd2e2f3.jpg

 

I don't think it's ever appropriate to label someone's sexual preferences as racist. They are what they are. Now, if the guy stated that he wouldn't be interested in hiring a worker, serving a customer, or having a friend based on the person's race, that would be another story. But differences in physical attraction do not constitute racism.

[Guest]

More pictures of Rob Isaac to share:

http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/070326/22/46088793b6b09.jpg

 

http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/070331/08/460e53de14c9c.jpg

 

http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/070415/11/462240cb71765.jpg

 

http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/070415/11/462240a565727.jpg

 

Now, if you'll excuse me, I have a pole to varnish...

[marylander1940]

You seem to be confused about the difference between sexual preference and racism. There is no "right" or "wrong" when it comes to which type of guy or gal arouses a particular person. I have no interest in having sex with women. That does not make me sexist. As I have mentioned often before, there is something about men with black hair and blue or green eyes which just grabs me. I have no idea why. There is no right or wrong to it. I suspect that there is probably a deep biological reason for it, since men with dark hair and blue eyes, rare as they are, seem over-represented in the model and movie star category. The world's most highly paid model for years in a row, Sean O'Pry has black hair and blue eyes. No, I don't have these features. That doesn't mean I'm "self-loathing" or don't like the way I look.

Sean O'Pry

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_kZgMM0w8S6k/TGWKiU3gbvI/AAAAAAAAIGI/_MvpdPhlbL4/s1600/Sean+O.jpg

 

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ajt8CJhojZU/ThTavbLRFTI/AAAAAAAAbuk/ZbZThGuxpjc/s1600/vmen5.jpg

 

As I have also said before, I often get very turned on by mixed-race guys. It's not too often I get turned on by guys with purely Subsaharan African ancestery (there are definitely exceptions), but this is probably because I don't tend to like curly hair or dark eyes, not because I'm racist. Here's a mixed race guy I find more handsome than Sea O'Pry. He's a guy whose picture I can always rely to get me off, even when I'm not super-horny:

http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/070415/11/4622427435821.jpg

 

This guy's also a total turn-on for me, even though he doesn't have the usual type of hair and eyes that I like. Why does he turn me on? It's not always something I can explain...

http://photos.modelmayhem.com/photos/100914/12/4c8fd3cd2e2f3.jpg

 

I don't think it's ever appropriate to label someone's sexual preferences as racist. They are what they are. Now, if the guy stated that he wouldn't be interested in hiring a worker, serving a customer, or having a friend based on the person's race, that would be another story. But differences in physical attraction do not constitute racism.

 

You have an excellent taste, all this guys are hot! I see beauty beyond color too. I'm surprised that the last 2 guys wouldn't be accepted at that party.

I guess I'm on the minority when I find strange an Asian guy's profile that says "no Asians" or "White only", that's all I'm going to say and I'll move on thanks to all of you for posting on this thread, I've read all comments and I'm glad yinz took time to add to this argument.