What do you do when.......

[Becket]

How do you guys handle it when you try to have a conversation with your escort, and he has no ability or interest to speak coherently? I like a little chat before getting down to business. Some of these guys seem to have the acumen of a jellyfish. Or what's worse is that they really don't give a flying frick about you, other than the cash that will be left behind. They can fake passion in the sack. Can't they at least feign a little interest in you personally? A few years ago escorts seemed more willing to fake the friendship with the sex. I've hired enough. I know how the game is played. But it just seems different lately. Now i'd rather just jack off most days. At least the company is better. Maybe I'm just having a run of bad luck........

[+ azdr0710]

yeah, chat is very important to me...maybe too important as I've developed personal concern for a couple dudes....

 

seems like you're just meeting up with the wrong guys lately....there are still a ton of good guys out there who will talk and, at the least, fake some verbal interaction....wouldn't be surprised, though, if some of the newer/younger/angrier guys getting into this are trying to maintain some distance from the scene and feel not talking is part of that.....

 

do you have a regular or three you can go back to, Becket?

[Decatur Guy]

You might be having a run of bad luck. But I know what you mean -- no icebreaking conversation at all is so cold.

 

I sometimes have the opposite problem: I'm a bit chatty myself, and if I have an escort who is likewise inclined, I end up having a very expensive conversation.

[instudiocity]

How do you guys handle it when you try to have a conversation with your escort, and he has no ability or interest to speak coherently? I like a little chat before getting down to business. Some of these guys seem to have the acumen of a jellyfish. Or what's worse is that they really don't give a flying frick about you, other than the cash that will be left behind. They can fake passion in the sack. Can't they at least feign a little interest in you personally? A few years ago escorts seemed more willing to fake the friendship with the sex. I've hired enough. I know how the game is played. But it just seems different lately. Now i'd rather just jack off most days. At least the company is better. Maybe I'm just having a run of bad luck........

Offer him $50 for his trouble, throw him back and call another call boy...

[markpaul]

What does the icon "Never in Denver" mean, instudiocity?

[JT Brooklyn]

How do you guys handle it when you try to have a conversation with your escort, and he has no ability or interest to speak coherently? I like a little chat before getting down to business. Some of these guys seem to have the acumen of a jellyfish. Or what's worse is that they really don't give a flying frick about you, other than the cash that will be left behind. They can fake passion in the sack. Can't they at least feign a little interest in you personally? A few years ago escorts seemed more willing to fake the friendship with the sex. I've hired enough. I know how the game is played. But it just seems different lately. Now i'd rather just jack off most days. At least the company is better. Maybe I'm just having a run of bad luck........

 

Move On!

[AdamSmith]

Move On!

 

Words to live by!

 

Also -- a good reason to make contact & arrangements by phone. That obviously gives you a better chance of gauging the guy's conversational manner than email does.

[adriano46]

I sometimes have the opposite problem: I'm a bit chatty myself, and if I have an escort who is likewise inclined, I end up having a very expensive conversation.

 

Oh, I have been there on more than one occasion, especially when only hiring for 1 hour -- the conversation wears the clock down before the shirts even get unbuttoned! I tell this up front to the guy in nice terms, "Hope to have time to get to know you, but we can do that in a relaxed way (on the couch as we undress each other; on the bed as we lay together; in the shower as we soap each other up)..." Discovered that by setting out some parameters like that, the conversation flows a bit more naturally.

 

On the other side, I prefer hiring older gentlemen (Michael Bender, Antton Harri and some others come to mind quickly) precisely because they offer intellectual as well as sexual satisfaction.

[Guest countryboywny]

This is a demonstration of the varying desires of clients. Some guys are attracted by a physically hot escort and just want to find 'em, fuck 'em and forget 'em. It's all about the physical aspect and they are perfectly happy if the escort doesn't utter a word. There are other guys, like me, who value good conversation, intelligence and a mental connection as much as the physical side of things. Fortunately for all, there are escorts available that fit well with either expectation of a client.

[Okliehomo]

There is one thing you say....

 

For masturbation.....

 

At least, you don't have to look your best.

 

Okie

[instudiocity]

For masturbation.....

 

At least, you don't have to look your best.

 

Okie

LOL! Okie is a cheeky fellow. And to add to his jest, from Woody Allen's ​Annie Hall

"Hey, don't knock masturbation, that's sex with someone I love!"

[Guest countryboywny]

What does the icon "Never in Denver" mean, instudiocity?

 

I think I know! LOL

[BallerBoy]

I'm sure there are many intelligent male escorts out there, but I wouldn't expect much from any of them in terms of conversation. My biggest problem is finding guys whom are real without fake photos. If I can just get past that point, I wouldn't give two funks about convo.

[+ Cash4Trash]

I've had 5 escorts I've seen frequently over the past several years. 4 of them had college degrees. Always interesting conversation.