To review or not...

[skynyc]

Had a disappointing appointment with an unreviewed escort this week. Physically he was everything advertised, but he was the most inactive person I have ever spent time with, alive or dead. Beautiful piece, big load, but so inattentive I never even got hard.

 

While not reviewed, he was referenced on this site as being a great kisser with a big dick, which is what appealed.

 

Problem: part of why I hired him: I'd seen him around my neighborhood and really liked his looks. Turns out he lives across the street. I can almost see into his apartment. I will surely run into him again, and now he'll recognize me when I admire his good looks.

 

I'm torn, maybe it was me...but still, for NY prices he should be able to fake it.

 

It's been a long time since I've submitted a review...and a long time since I've taken the jump to someone new. I had four new guys on my possibles list, and I chose the wrong one.

 

I don't know how many folks these gents see in a day, but I suspect they recognize by whom they're being reviewed. Maybe I should just wait a couple weeks.

[cany10011]

Perhaps write now, but post later to distance yourself from being 'recognized' with said escort. If you are comfortable, for those like me who live in nyc, may you let me know (privately) who this individual is so the same situation doesn't repeat itself?

 

Had a disappointing appointment with an unreviewed escort this week. Physically he was everything advertised, but he was the most inactive person I have ever spent time with, alive or dead. Beautiful piece, big load, but so inattentive I never even got hard.

 

While not reviewed, he was referenced on this site as being a great kisser with a big dick, which is what appealed.

 

Problem: part of why I hired him: I'd seen him around my neighborhood and really liked his looks. Turns out he lives across the street. I can almost see into his apartment. I will surely run into him again, and now he'll recognize me when I admire his good looks.

 

I'm torn, maybe it was me...but still, for NY prices he should be able to fake it.

 

It's been a long time since I've submitted a review...and a long time since I've taken the jump to someone new. I had four new guys on my possibles list, and I chose the wrong one.

 

I don't know how many folks these gents see in a day, but I suspect they recognize by whom they're being reviewed. Maybe I should just wait a couple weeks.

[+ Chris Eisenhower]

Had a disappointing appointment with an unreviewed escort this week. Physically he was everything advertised, but he was the most inactive person I have ever spent time with, alive or dead. Beautiful piece, big load, but so inattentive I never even got hard.

 

While not reviewed, he was referenced on this site as being a great kisser with a big dick, which is what appealed.

 

Problem: part of why I hired him: I'd seen him around my neighborhood and really liked his looks. Turns out he lives across the street. I can almost see into his apartment. I will surely run into him again, and now he'll recognize me when I admire his good looks.

 

I'm torn, maybe it was me...but still, for NY prices he should be able to fake it.

 

It's been a long time since I've submitted a review...and a long time since I've taken the jump to someone new. I had four new guys on my possibles list, and I chose the wrong one.

 

I don't know how many folks these gents see in a day, but I suspect they recognize by whom they're being reviewed. Maybe I should just wait a couple weeks.

 

This is not a good idea. And of course now that you've posted in the forum a question about this, and if he goes into the forum or has a client or another escort friend who does and mentions it... he's going to know it's you. Regardless of if you wait a couple of weeks or not.

[Jscott]

What does it matter whether or not he knows it's you if you're not planning on seeing him again? So he lives across the street. Are you worried he'll beat you up if he sees you in the grocery store?

 

One reason this site is so valuable is the sharing of information, good or bad

[Phil_musc]

I agree with Jscott.

 

Then too for the OP - you mention that you had four new guys on your list and you chose the wrong one. Maybe, but isn't that optimistic: isn't it possible that another one or even all of them could turn out the same way?

[+ Tygerscent]

Ya... Seems like perhaps you just sort of "outed" yourself to whoever it is by disclosing your proximal location to him via your post. As mentioned in the thread, should he also be on the forum or someone directs him to it, it may become appearant to the escort and/or others who the originator is~

If he reads the post won't he already know how you felt about him and the session and that now you are asking the forum if you should go public with it~?

... "Rumor Mill" is always potential on boards on general~ Perhaps not always a healthy "modus operandi" though~

You don't want to be the perpetrator of a "witch hunt"~

Did you address the escort with your concerns during or afterwords~? I understand that sometimes Clients are uncomfortable having honest dialogue with their Escorts and visa versa but, we don't know why this Escort was like your discription in your thread or if he is always like that just that time or all the time~ Sometimes just talking honestly about the session between each other can clear up avoidable concerns and clear the path for a better relation as well as help each other get what you both desire and need out of the situation~

You know... "Build a bridge that makes safe passage for all" kind of thing~

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Did you address the escort with your concerns during or afterwords~? I understand that sometimes Clients are uncomfortable having honest dialogue with their Escorts and visa versa but, we don't know why this Escort was like your discription in your thread or if he is always like that just that time or all the time~

 

The OP stated that "he was the most inactive person I have ever spent time with, alive or dead." He further added that the escort was "so inattentive I never even got hard." When the client can't even obtain an erection, he should not need to have to tell the escort something is amiss. The escort should be able to easily figure out the encounter is going badly, unless he's brain-dead. This site only works if clients report bad experiences in addition to the good. Obviously the OP is not going to hire this escort again--we clients hire escorts to get our rocks off, not to simply admire the escort's body. So I'm not sure what his concern is with the escort knowing who he is. If he fears for his safety, I would not write the review. Otherwise, I would encourage the OP to go ahead and write the review. I write reviews all of the time, good or bad. I'm sure that most of the time escorts can figure out who it is by my description of the encounter. I'm not sure what the difference is that the escort is a neighbor, unless he's a neighbor with whom you had a social relationship (which I doubt, because otherwise it would have been quite awkward hiring him). And if truly were the case that the escort was having a bad day, it really was the escort's duty to say "I'm sorry, but I really can't perform well today; I'm upset about some personal matters. This is not how I usually am. Let's do this some other time." (Or if he was really hard-up for cash, say "Would it be OK if I give you a freebie at a later date to make up for my performance today?")