Is it helpful to inform an escort that you are over 60?

[+ HeyDude]

Is it helpful or necessary to inform an escort that you are

over 60 years old when setting up a meeting via txt, email or phone?

Is it a good idea to do so in order to avoid the awkward

situation where the escort is turned off by the

age factor and both parties are disappointed.

Or is this disclosure over the top and a turn off

at the stage of working out an agreement.

What are your (the escorts) thoughts on this?

Thanks so much

[Juan Vancouver]

Yes, it's definitely helpful.

 

And, this is for your benefit, mainly. While there are many escorts who will be thrilled to see you and not only don't dislike older men but truly enjoy them, there are many for whom it will be difficult to perform in such circumstances. If I were hiring I would make sure that on my first email I would give a clear image about me, my age, weight, height, race and any medical condition that might come up during the session. It's not necessary to write endless paragraphs about your innermost thoughts; the basics are all it's needed.

 

Most professional escorts will be glad to know so much about you and will celebrate the opportunity to meet you. Some escorts will simply not respond to your query. Don't push, don't re-send emails, simply thank your luck that you dodged the bullet and focus on the escorts that sound happy to be dealing with you.

 

You will find many amazing escorts who truly enjoy the company of experienced men.

 

I hope this is helpful. =)

[+ HeyDude]

Yes, it's definitely helpful.

 

And, this is for your benefit, mainly. While there are many escorts who will be thrilled to see you and not only don't dislike older men but truly enjoy them, there are many for whom it will be difficult to perform in such circumstances. If I were hiring I would make sure that on my first email I would give a clear image about me, my age, weight, height, race and any medical condition that might come up during the session. It's not necessary to write endless paragraphs about your innermost thoughts; the basics are all it's needed.

 

Most professional escorts will be glad to know so much about you and will celebrate the opportunity to meet you. Some escorts will simply not respond to your query. Don't push, don't re-send emails, simply thank your luck that you dodged the bullet and focus on the escorts that sound happy to be dealing with you.

 

You will find many amazing escorts who truly enjoy the company of experienced men.

 

I hope this is helpful. =)

 

Juan,

That was so helpful and compassionate, I'm speechless !

Thanks soooo much and very grateful.

[Juan Vancouver]

It's my pleasure. I am glad you found it helpful.

 

Big hug, stud!

 

Juan xx

[+ HeyDude]

It's my pleasure. I am glad you found it helpful.

 

Big hug, stud!

 

Juan xx

 

Juan....OMFG it's totally kool

:-))

[JoeyBryant]

I agree with Juan that it does help to get a bit of a brief description about someone beforehand and with all of those stats. It's not a requirement, but it's helpful. I mean, I would. And as someone who dates outside of escorting, I understand the value of being sure the other person can click with me as much as I would them. Of course non of that is any guarantee, but it does weed out the ones who may not be in 100%.

 

You wouldn't believe me if I told you...but over the years I've almost come to develop an approximate image of the person I am going to meet simply by the sound of his voice LOL. So really, asking all those questions is irrelevant because I already know what you're going to look like and what age just by talking to you. I'd say it works about 70% of the time. There was 1 guy I met who I swore over the phone was a White guy, turns out he was a darkskinned guy from way up north. I was like, how did I get that wrong. In the end it worked out: he was cute, chubby and had a big uncut dick that was like twice the size of mine lol. Lucky for me I was the top

[Epigonos]

I have on several previous occasions, on this site, stated that I ALWAYS describe myself, in some detail, to an escort I might like to hire. That description includes my height, my weight, my physical condition, my sexual likes, my sexual dislikes, my sexual expectations, and MY AGE. After providing the description I state that if NO part of it poses a problem for him then we can precede making arrangement to get together. I consider my age, currently 72, a critical part of that description. In over ten years of hiring escorts only one ceased communicating after receiving my descriptive email. I would far rather have communication cease at an early stage of making arrangements than have a door slammed in my face or have the escort take one look at me and turn around and leave. AS ALWAYS the issue here is communication, the more the better.

[seeker630]

I have on several previous occasions, on this site, stated that I ALWAYS describe myself, in some detail, to an escort I might like to hire. That description includes my height, my weight, my physical condition, my sexual likes, my sexual dislikes, my sexual expectations, and MY AGE. After providing the description I state that if NO part of it poses a problem for him then we can precede making arrangement to get together. I consider my age, currently 72, a critical part of that description. In over ten years of hiring escorts only one ceased communicating after receiving my descriptive email. I would far rather have communication cease at an early stage of making arrangements than have a door slammed in my face or have the escort take one look at me and turn around and leave. AS ALWAYS the issue here is communication, the more the better.

 

Exactly what I do!

[MscleLovr]

Exactly what I do!

 

Me too. I feel it's both polite and efficient. And like Epigonos, I've had one poor response from a guy so I moved on to someone else. There are lots of handsome young men in need of support who appreciate a generous and kind older man.

[Steven_Draker]

Good attitude is far more important than looks or age.

[+ HeyDude]

Good attitude is far more important than looks or age.

 

Steven that was very kind of you to say. It's

encouraging to know that there are really

hot looking guys out there with values like this.

You made my day.

[Rod Hagen]

Steven that was very kind of you to say. It's

encouraging to know that there are really

hot looking guys out there with values like this.

You made my day.

 

I'll concur with Steven and make your day again :-)

[Xander]

Only if there are health issues.

 

For example, if you have a catheter in, and would like to be fucked at the same time - that is an issue. And if I am confronted with dealing with an issue like that (which I have), I will be very blunt and say "it ain't happenin tonight baby".

[+ Cash4Trash]

Aw, Xander. You called me baby.